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Archive for November, 2009

Slip of the tongue

In News, Sukkot on November 27, 2009 at 2:09 pm

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What the use of Yiddish phrases can tell us about contemporary American Jewry

By Marissa Brostoff
Issue of Nov. 27, 2009 / 10 Kislev 5770

The results are in: the words “shpiel” and “klutz” have been thoroughly absorbed into the American vernacular, while “mensch” and “kvetch” remain primarily in the linguistic domain of Jews.  A third of Jewish Americans who did not grow up in New York have nonetheless been told that they sound like they’re from that city.
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Letters to the editor 11/27/2009

In News on November 24, 2009 at 7:19 pm


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Issue of November 27, 2009/ 10 Cheshvan 5770

The Jewish Lieutenant

To the Editor:
I read with interest your article “Back from Iraq, HANC alum returns” (October 30, 2009), but it implies that Private Salzbank and David Lazar are the only HANC alumni that are in the military. This is not correct. My son, 1st Lt. Howard Hershey (1st Cavalry Division, currently stationed at Fort Hood) graduated HANC in June 2003. After graduating from McGill University in Montreal, Quebec, Canada, he joined the army and went though basic training and then Office Candidate School. He also has completed a tour of duty in Iraq. It is quite difficult, if not impossible, to remain observant in the US army, but he taught soldiers Hebrew while at Officer Candidate School on Sundays at Fort Benning in Georgia. Jewish services were conducted Sunday morning there and attendance was about 150 soldiers, although very few were actually Jewish. He is known by most soldiers to be the Jewish Lieutenant, the only Jewish lieutenant in his battalion. I just want to set the record straight.
Dennis Hershey
Brooklyn

Editorial: A view of America, bent at the waist

In Editorial on November 24, 2009 at 7:13 pm
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Issue of November 27, 2009/ 10 Cheshvan 5770

We Jews have a thing about bowing. Generally, we don’t, except when we do. We do, in shul, once on Rosh Hashanah during Aleinu, and four times on Yom Kippur — three times during the Avodah, the recitation of the Kohen Gadol’s service — and once more during Aleinu. Even then, care is taken to bow only on carpet or a piece of fabric of some sort, so as not to violate the halachic no-no against prostrating oneself on stone or concrete.

Mordechai refused to bow to Haman, setting the Purim story into motion. We remember being taught in yeshiva to not bend to tie a shoelace in the direction of a church so as to not inadvertently bow to a foreign god. G-d demands much of us, but regular bowing and scraping is not on the list.
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A reply to the open letter to Rudolph Kasztner’s Daughter

In Essay, History on November 24, 2009 at 7:09 pm

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By Dr. Ladislaus Löb

Web exclusive November 27 2009/ 10 Cheshvan 5770

Professor Ladislaus Lob

In her diatribe “An Open Letter to Rudolph Kasztner’s Daughter” (The Jewish Star, November 20, 2009) Edith Polak slams the documentary Killing Kasztner, arguing that the director, Gaylen Ross, is “someone born in the States” who “does not have all the facts.” As a survivor whose life was saved by Kasztner, but who has tried to compensate for his bias by studying the events as objectively as he could, I would like to consider some of the “facts” reported by Ms Polak.

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Quest for authenticity: the life of Rav Simha Bunim

In Alan Jay Gerber, Books, Kosher Bookworm, Opinion on November 24, 2009 at 6:49 pm


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The Kosher Bookworm

By Alan Jay Gerber

Issue of November 27 2009/ 10 Cheshvan 5770

Alan Jay Gerber

A rebbe who does not speak Yiddish; a rebbe who speaks a fluent German; a rebbe who dresses in the “modern” garb of his day; a rebbe who does not center his beliefs in Kabbalah; a rebbe whose main preoccupation is that of being a businessman.         What kind of a rebbe is that?
With all the controversy over rebbes visiting our community the book under review this week should be a refreshing change in the tone of the discussion. Each and every consideration enumerated above describes a real Chassidic spiritual leader from almost two centuries ago who was to set the standard for honest and sincere belief for many in the Chassidic world.
Surprising, but true.
The book, “The Quest for Authenticity” [Urim, 2008] is the story of the legendary Reb Simhah Bunim of Przysucha [1765-1827], and is written by Rabbi Dr. Michael Rosen, of blessed memory, whose first yahrtzeit will be commemorated this week by his family and his many followers in Jerusalem and Tel Aviv.
This review will deal both with the subject of this book as well as the life’s work of its late and beloved author. Both had so much in common and I thought that you would appreciate knowing more about them.
Reb Simhah assumed the helm of Przysucha chassidus after the passing of his rebbe, the Yehudi [1766-1814]. Their version of Chassidic tradition was very different from others, just as their new rebbe was different from other rebbes.
Despite these differences, under Reb Simhah, this Chassidic tradition was to develop the future leaders of 19th century Polish chassidus: the rebbes of Warka [Vorki], Kotzk, Gur, Alexander and Izbitz. While not fitting the stereotypical image that we have today of a rebbe, Reb Simhah’s teachings and his personal path in the integrity of our faith was to leave an indelible mark upon all of Polish Chassidim.
Ideology aside, it was the persona of the rebbe that fascinated me and inspired me to consider reading this book and researching both the subject and the life’s work of its author. Given the greatness of its author, I chose this time, his first yahrtzeit, to give you a taste of a little known chapter of Jewish history for you to further explore.
Reb Simhah was opposed to allowing the rebbe to be the subject of hero worship. According to Rabbi Rosen, Reb Simhah strongly held to the opinion that “all a zaddik could do was to be a guide, a role model.”
“By his very presence, by his own spiritual integrity, the student could find his own integrity as well,” writes Rabbi Rosen. “The function of the rebbe was to help people become themselves and to serve G-d in their own truth. Vicarious redemption runs counter to the most basic values of Przysucha.”
Absent were the nonsensical ideas of a rebbe being some sort of Jewish witch doctor dispensing all sorts of spiritual potions and notions to gullible and mindless followers. How refreshing indeed this is and how urgently needed is this approach today, especially as witnessed by the acrimony that some in chassidus have, as they so brazenly comported themselves in our holy land and beyond these past few months.
This book continues with numerous other examples of the rebbe’s theology, thinking, and behavior that both demonstrate his uniqueness as a people’s rebbe, and as a spiritual leader in constant “quest” for the authentic interpretation of our faith. The iconoclastic manner of Reb Simhah follows throughout, touching upon every aspect of his life’s journey.
And the author of this biography follows his subject.
Rabbi Dr. Michael [Mickey] Rosen z”l, was a very special person. This book was his life’s work, which, according to his publisher Tzvi Mauer took over ten years to research and complete – ten years that would be the last of his 63.
According to his brother Rabbi Jeremy Rosen, Rabbi Michael Rosen was profoundly influenced by the charisma of his father, the illustrious Rav Kopul Rosen of London and a musmach of the Mir Yeshiva in Lithuania. Mickey, who was ordained in 1973 by Rav Unterman, fused the zeitgeist together with a strong passion for social justice. British born and bred, it wasn’t until he made aliya when Mickey’s rabbinate finally came into his own.
After establishing his own shul, YAKAR — Center for Tradition and Creativity — in Jerusalem, he attracted many followers who were searching for a modern orthodox alternative to the establishment alternatives that were the only ones available till that time. According to one of Jerusalem’s leading theologians, Rabbi Nathan Lopez Cardozo, Mickey was a “fantastic person, independent, a real yirei shamayim who was most influential on Jerusalem’s spiritual scene.”
At YAKAR, Mickey utilized the Carlebach musical mode of worship together with the strict orthodox liturgy. While modern in approach, Mickey never bought into any notion of compromise when it came to a women’s role in the shul. The mechitzah was inviolable. Yet, he supported a woman’s right to the public recitation of kaddish and in the governance of the shul, something often frowned upon in more traditional worship settings. He was a spiritual leader who had his feet firmly planted in both the traditional and modern spiritual venues of our faith.
I choose to end this essay with the following note sent to me by Mickey’s brother, Rabbi David Rosen, the former chief rabbi of Ireland who now resides in Jerusalem. It is a heartfelt dvar Torah [that relates to this very week’s parsha] that he attributes to one of his nephews:
“Appropriately, the parsha before his [Mickey’s] death was Vayeitzei — appropriate not just because of his having left this world at that time but especially because of an insight concerning Yaacov Avinu which seemed to me to be so appropriate for Mickey.
“At the end of the parsha, on his return to Eretz Yisrael, Yaakov comes across a group of angels and he said that this is a divine group. Rashi explains that Yaakov recognized them as the angels he had seen in the dream of the ladder. In his commentary, Rav Yaakov Duschinsky suggests that the Torah tells us this to reveal something very special about Yaakov; namely, that the vision that he had as a young man remained as vivid with him even more so a generation later and indeed throughout the rest of his life.
“More often than not, we start out life with all kinds of great visions and good intentions, but they all too often get tarnished if not jettisoned on the path of our ‘maturity.’ Yaakov did not allow life’s difficulties and vicissitudes to lessen his vision, passion and commitment.
“I think that this image is beautifully apposite of Mickey. He was a visionary as a young man and remained a visionary throughout his too short life, with passion and conviction and a remarkable talent to turn vision into concrete substance.”
Were this to be so for all of us, our leaders, as well as for our spiritual guides.

On the Calendar 11/27/09

In Calendar on November 24, 2009 at 6:45 pm


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Issue of November 27 2009/ 10 Cheshvan 5770

Cedarhurst – The Peaceful Presence Yoga Studio is honored to host an evening with the internationally renowned lecturer and mystic, Rabbi Dr. Laibl Wolf on Monday Nov. 30th at 7:30pm, for a presentation and discussion on the topic of Five tools for Peace and Wellness. For more information, please call (516) 371-3715.

Lawrence – The inaugural event for the South Shore AIPAC will take place Tuesday, December 1 at 8:00 PM at Congregation Beth Sholom – 390 Broadway. Ambassador Brad Gordon will give a lecture entitled: The U.S.-Israel Relationship Amidst Unprecedented Threats. Ambassador Gordon’s career has included political analysis at the CIA, professional staff of the Senate Foreign Relations Committee responsible for the Middle East, Assistant Director of US Arms and Control Disarmament Agency for Non Proliferation, senior staff member of the House Foreign Affairs Committee and, most recently, Director of Policy and Government Affairs and Legislative Director for AIPAC.

Great Neck – The Young Israel of Great Neck and the National Council of Young Israel will present a Chanukah party for Orthodox singles on Sunday, December 6, at 7:00 PM. The event will take place at the Young Israel of Great Neck, 236 Middle Neck Road in Great Neck. Orthodox singles ages 25-35 are invited to come to the Chanukah party and enjoy food, music, and games. All participants must bring photo ID.  The cost of the event is $36 per person. All proceeds will go to tzedakah. To register or for more information call the Young Israel of Great Neck at 516-829-6040 or send an email to office@yign.org.

Woodmere – The Orthodox Union’s Department of Community Services, in conjunction with Yeshiva University’s Center for the Jewish Future, will present a communal symposium on “Making Our Tefillot More Meaningful and Personal ” featuring Rabbi Moshe Weinberger of Congregation Aish Kodesh; Rabbi Mayer Twersky, Rosh Yeshiva, RIETS, Yeshiva University; and Rabbi Eli Monsour, of the Sephardic Congregation Bet Yaakob. The symposium will take place Sunday Morning, December 6, from 9:45am to 11:45am at DRS High School, 700 Ibsen Street in Woodmere. Admission is free to the entire community. This program is part of a national effort to help develop a deeper connection, understanding, and appreciation of our Tefillot. For more information, please contact 212-613-8188.

Merrick – Chabad of Merrick will open its Chanukah Wonderland, a project of the Chabad Center for Jewish Life, to the entire community on Sunday, December 13th, from 1:30 – 3:00 pm. At the “Clubhouse at the Merrick Park Golf Course,” children and adults will experience Chanukah through intriguing hands-on activities (i.e. latke making, donut decorating, building menorahs etc.) and creative arts & crafts at $6 per person or $18 per family. Following the Chanukah Wonderland all are welcome to join the “Grand Menorah Car Parade!” at 3:10pm. Led by 2 limousines provided by Executive Limousines & Metro Limousine Service, participants will spread the light of Chanukah as they travel caravan style from the Clubhouse at the Merrick Golf Course to the Merrick LIRR gazebo on Sunrise Highway & Merrick Ave. There they will experience for the first time ever, the lighting of The World’s Largest Clics Menorah, complete with live music, Chanukah treats and more. For more information and details on the Chanukah events, contact Chani at the Chabad Center for Jewish Life, (516) 833-3057 or log on to: www.ChabadJewishLife.org
ONGOING EVENTS
Far Rockaway – Rabbi Eytan Feiner’s Machshavah Shiur in Sifrei Maharal on Chumash and Mo’adim for men and women has resumed. Tuesday evenings from 8:15 p.m. to 9:15 p.m. at Congregation Kneseth Israel, 728 Empire Ave., Far Rockaway.  For more information call (718) 327-0500 or www.whiteshul.com.

Anti-bullying for girls in Nassau yeshivot

In Children, Community on November 24, 2009 at 6:44 pm


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By Michael Orbach

Issue of November 27 2009/ 10 Cheshvan 5770

Sara Diament

A new anti-bullying program for girls is available to Jewish schools in Nassau County.
“Girls can be mean,” pointed out Sara Diament, the Jewish liaison for the Girl Scouts of Nassau County, which developed the program.
“People think of bullying generally as a male model of a bully: an aggressive eleven year old getting a kid in the corner to steal his lunch money,” she explained. “Girls bully as well. Instead of the violence — usually there isn’t – it is more in terms of manipulating another person’s relationship with their friend.”
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Exclusive: School turns to court to recover tuition

In Charity, Children, Community, Five Towns, HAFTR on November 24, 2009 at 6:38 pm

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Issue of November 27 2009/ 10 Cheshvan 5770

By Michael Orbach

A local family is named as the defendant in a lawsuit brought by the Hebrew Academy of the Five Towns and Rockaways. HAFTR is seeking reimbursement for more than Read the rest of this entry »

Parshat Vayeitzei: Dear father-in-law

In Avi Billet, Torah, Weekly Parsha on November 24, 2009 at 6:35 pm

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By Rabbi Avi Billet

Issue of November 27 2009/ 10 Cheshvan 5770

Rabbi Avi Billet

Before they went out of style, mother-in-law jokes were very popular. Have you ever heard of a father-in-law joke? I have not, but I suppose if anyone were to author such a joke, it would be our forefather Yaakov.
Consider this sequence of events, in chapter 29:14-28: Yaakov arrives in Charan and stays with Lavan for a month because he is a blood relative. Then Lavan tells him, “Just because you are my Read the rest of this entry »

Opinion: Thanksgiving works for me

In News on November 24, 2009 at 6:31 pm


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By Michael J. Salamon

Issue of November 27 2009/ 10 Cheshvan 5770

Michael J. Salamon

When I was young, probably second or third grade, I remember a rebbe telling us the day before Thanksgiving that we should enjoy our family and use the day as a “Seudas Hoda’ah,” a meal of thanks, for the bountiful lives we have in America. So much conflict over this secular holiday has developed over recent years. I, for one, simply do not understand the reasons bandied about. Some claim that the holiday of Thanksgiving is a religious one. Those familiar with the history of the day will know that while the Puritans are often credited, perhaps falsely, with starting the day for giving thanks and while it was randomly observed throughout the colonies and then the States, the promulgation of the day as a formal national holiday did not occur until President Abraham Lincoln issued a proclamation written by his Secretary of State William Seward as a national day of Thanksgiving. The proclamation is widely available to those who wish to peruse it and you will notice that the intent of the proclamation is to help boost morale and unify the Union during the Civil War.

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Halpern: Words failed them

In I'm Thinking, Israel, Micah D. Halpern, Zionism on November 24, 2009 at 6:28 pm

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I’m thinking

By Micah D. Halpern

Issue of November 27 2009/ 10 Cheshvan 5770

Micah D. Halpern

Language and terminology are essential tools in diplomacy and international relations. If you do not understand the nuances of language, if you aren’t aware of changing terminology, you will not be able to correctly predict change and you will make mistakes.
The number of linguistic and cultural illiterates involved in the Middle East peace process is staggering. Just take a look at the uproar over what is happening in Gilo.
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Seidemann: Evil doesn’t deserve a glance

In David Seidemann on November 24, 2009 at 6:23 pm


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From the other side of the bench

by David Seidemann

Issue of November 27 2009/ 10 Cheshvan 5770

 

David Seidemann

Let me make this as clear and simple as possible. If an armed gunman enters a liquor store, bank or army base and screams “stick em up,” he’s a criminal. If the same individual enters a liquor store, bank or army base and screams “Allahu Akbar,” he’s a terrorist.
The failure to categorize the “Allahu Akbar” screamer as a terrorist, the failure to properly label the Fort Hood shooter as a terrorist, is the epitome of weakness. It is manifestly dangerous, and sends the wrong message to friend and foe alike. An isolated decision by the Obama administration? Sorrowfully not. It seems to be but another instance of compromising the security of friends in the hope that foes will bestow graciousness upon us. Read the rest of this entry »

That’s Life 11/27/09

In Miriam L. Wallach, That's Life on November 24, 2009 at 6:15 pm

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Issue of November 27 2009/ 10 Cheshvan 5770

Dear That’s Life,

I toyed with renaming the column ‘@#%$ Happens’ but the powers that be were concerned that readers might be offended. I think they weren’t giving people enough credit.
It is often hard to look back on a rough time in one’s life and find any humor in what transpired. Truth is, that moment may not come at all. The episode may be one that you watch just the once and never watch the reruns; it was just too hard to go through the first time around. Alternatively, you might be able to replay certain sound bites because even if the show is too difficult to replay in its entirety, there had to be some moments that made you smile, even if they were few and far between.
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Couple to rewed during Chanukah Telethon

In Calendar, Chabad, Charity, Media, Michael Orbach, Mineola on November 24, 2009 at 6:10 pm


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17th annual Chabad fundraiser will air on Channel 55

By Michael Orbach

Issue of November 27, 2009/ 10 Cheshvan 5770

The Shalshan family.

Tatyana and Alex Shalshin have been together since they were 17 and have two beautiful children, David, 5, and Nicole, 1. On December 13th the couple, already married according to civil law, will have a full Jewish marriage ceremony on national television as part of Chabad of Mineola’s 17th Annual Chanukah Telethon. Read the rest of this entry »

See The Jewish Star as it appears in print 11-27-09

In Cover/Print edition, News on November 24, 2009 at 2:30 pm

HAFTR gears up to save a life

In HAFTR, Health, Malka Eisenberg, News on November 24, 2009 at 1:55 pm

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Bone marrow testing drive seeks a donor, quickly

By Malka Eisenberg

Issue of November 27 2009/ 10 Cheshvan 5770

Alan CohenA community-wide effort is underway to save the life of a 49-year old father of two diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia, a fast moving cancer that begins in the bone marrow.
The Hebrew Academy of the Five Towns and Rockaways (HAFTR) High School will host an emergency bone marrow drive this Sunday, November 29th, from 9 a.m. to 5 Read the rest of this entry »

An event of biblical proportions

In Charity, Children, Community, Great Neck, Michael Orbach, News, North Shore Hebrew Academy HS, Torah on November 24, 2009 at 1:54 pm

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Fourteen Torahs dedicated at North Shore Hebrew Academy

By Michael Orbach

Issue of November 27, 2009/ 10 Cheshvan 5770
At the end of his life, Moses, the leader of the Jewish people, wrote twelve Torah scrolls, one for each tribe. On Sunday, November 22nd, an unseasonably warm fall day, the North Shore Hebrew Academy in Great Neck Read the rest of this entry »

Editorial: A recap and an olive branch

In Israel, Media on November 18, 2009 at 3:06 pm

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Issue of November 20, 2009/ 3 Cheshvan 5770

It’s been quite an interesting two weeks here in the newspaper office, ever since we devoted this space to advocate spending tzedakah dollars locally before sending them anywhere else. The same editorial suggested, in some detail, that if money must be sent out of the community in these troubled economic times, it should go to people and causes that generally represent our community’s ideals.
It’s tempting to be flip about some of the reactions we received and suggest that “they can’t take a joke,” but the fact is, we weren’t joking and we stand by what we wrote: anti-Zionist Chassidic groups in Israel that make the news for staging violent protests deserve to be at the bottom of the collective list of tzedaka recipients; not honored guests in town — and certainly not while local families lack funds for food, mortgage or tuition.
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Take swine flu shot, doc says

In Community, Health, Hewlett, Woodmere on November 18, 2009 at 2:55 pm

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By Malka Eisenberg

Issue of November 20, 2009/ 3 Cheshvan 5770

Rabbi Dr. Aaron Glatt made the case for taking the swine flu vaccine at a lecture in the Young Israel of Woodmere this past Sunday night, brushing aside all concerns and focusing on what he said are the facts.
“I’m proud to say I think I was the first person vaccinated in Nassau County,” he said. “The minute we got it I wanted to be vaccinated to show people how safe it was. I vaccinated my wife and kids with the intranasal. I would recommend strongly: do what I say, do what I do.”
In a talk that combined statistics, science and halacha, Dr. Glatt, a spokesman for the Infectious Diseases Society of America, president and CEO of New Island Hospital in Bethpage, LI, and assistant rabbi at the Young Israel of Woodmere, called current media coverage “aggressive” but “appropriate.”
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Hitler’s worst nightmare

In Anti-semitism, News, Shoah/Holocaust on November 18, 2009 at 2:52 pm

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After escaping, German Jew went back to battle

By Kevin Deutsch

Issue of November 20, 2009/ 3 Cheshvan 5770

Werner Oppenheimer

Werner Oppenheimer

On a crisp autumn day in 1935, Werner Oppenheimer, 13, walked into his school in Germany and noticed a new sign above the entrance. He gasped as he read it, because it meant the old way of life — the Germany his family had fought for and loved – was gone.
Adolph Hitler Realgymnasium, the sign read in bold, German lettering. Inside the school, changes were more extreme. Teachers now made students, even Jewish ones, sing Nazi songs with lyrics like “When Jewish blood spurts off the knife, things will be twice as good.”
The songs, the anti-Jewish laws, the vicious Nazi rhetoric; all of it made Werner sick. Even now, while recounting Read the rest of this entry »

Kosher Bookworm: A graphic history lesson of the Jews of Hebron

In Alan Jay Gerber, Books, Israel, Opinion, Zionism on November 18, 2009 at 2:30 pm


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The Kosher Bookworm

by Alan Jay Gerber

Issue of November 20, 2009/ 3 Cheshvan 5770

Alan Jay Gerber

This past Shabbat we read the Torah portion of Chayei Sarah, the parsha deals with the passing of our first matriarch, Sarah.
We read of the ordeal that Abraham experienced in his effort to acquire a proper burial site for his wife. Through this narrative, we witness the first territorial link of the Jewish people to the Land of Israel, a link that has served as the prime physical basis for our claim to the land as our ancestral home.
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Enlightenment in 140 characters or less?

In Exclusive, Media on November 18, 2009 at 2:27 pm

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The Twitter Torah Revolution

By Michael Orbach

Issue of November 20, 2009/ 3 Cheshvan 5770

Hundreds of years ago the high cost of parchment forced Torah commentators to write as succinctly as possible. The famed Rashi, like others, wrote in the margins of his Talmud. Now, a new generation of sages is writing as concisely as possible for an entirely different reason: Twitter, the popular social networking site that allows users to post  messages with one catch: each must be under 140 characters.
The lure is obvious, according to Rabbi Ben Greenberg, the orthodox rabbi of the Harvard Hillel and the director of the Seif Jewish Learning Initiative on the Harvard University campus.
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Parsha: Redefining ambiguities

In Avi Billet, Opinion, Weekly Parsha on November 18, 2009 at 2:18 pm


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Parshat Toldos

by Rabbi Avi Billet

Issue of November 20, 2009/ 3 Cheshvan 5770

Rabbi Avi Billet

One of the fun exercises I like to employ when studying Chumash is to attribute vague or ambiguous statements to the less obvious person. Let us reread two familiar verses in Chapter 27. We’ll follow them with a series of questions to provoke the imagination. 22 Yaakov came closer to his father Yitzchak, and he touched him. He said, ‘The voice is Jacob’s voice, but the hands are the hands of Esav.’ 23 He did not recognize him because his hands were like Esav his brother’s — hairy — and he blessed him. While most people will ascribe hard-set identities to the vague pronouns presented, what would the verses look like if we flipped things around? Who touched whom? Who said the words of the well-known statement describing Yaakov’s voice and Esav’s hands? Finally, who blessed whom before Yitzchak gave the true blessing in verses 28 and 29?

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Halpern: All in the name of the American Way

In Homeland Security, Opinion on November 18, 2009 at 2:12 pm

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I’m thinking

by Micah D. Halpern

Issue of November 20, 2009/ 3 Cheshvan 5770

Micah D. Halpern

The decision was made to seek the death penalty for Khalid Sheik Mohamed and his co- conspirators for the attacks known simply as 9-11. The decision has also been made, by the Army, to seek the death penalty for Major Nidal Malik Hassan, aka the Fort Hood Terrorist.
Former Mayor Rudolph Giuliani, Mayor Michael Bloomberg. Attorney General Eric Holder and most of the media have weighed in with their opinions, advice, and counsel. Most of the always-heated discussions swirling around the 9-11 trial center on the decision to try the terrorists in New York area, in the shadow of the downed World Trade Centers.
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Letters to the editor

In Letters to the Editor on November 18, 2009 at 2:08 pm

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Issue of November 20, 2009/ 3 Cheshvan 5770

Continue The Jewish Star’s ‘very important work’

To the Editor:

I would like to thank you for your editorial regarding the Toldos Rebbes (Is this really a smart thing to do?; Nov. 6, 2009). On a very personal basis, I felt that your editorial represented the feelings of the vast majority of our community and feelings that our family feels very strongly.
Any Jewish leader who can be aligned with the Neturei Karta, with the despicable acts they have committed against Klal Yisroel, should not have been welcomed in our community.
Continue your very important work at The Jewish Star. Continue to get real stories out that will educate our community.

Rubin Brecher
Lawrence

Comic genius on Kosherfest

To the Editor:

A work of comic genius (You know you had a good time if your stomach hurts; Nov. 6, 2009). My wife and I nearly choked — on dinner — while digesting this. Whatever you’re paying Michael Orbach — double it…and throw in free food!

Brian Nadata
Lawrence

Seidemann: Playing for the right team

In David Seidemann, Israel on November 18, 2009 at 2:07 pm


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From the other side of the bench

by David Seidemann

Issue of November 20, 2009/ 3 Cheshvan 5770

David Seidemann

When I was a child, I collected baseball cards. In addition to my soda bottle cap collection and my NASA moon rocket, those cards were my prized possession. In order to help me fall asleep at night, I used to try to memorize a player’s move from team to team as recorded on the back of a baseball card. Those players who managed to play on the same team throughout their entire career always impressed me. There weren’t that many back then and there are even fewer today.  In our family’s move from one house to another, the cards somehow disappeared. Like most ballplayers, our lives have taken us to and from many different destinations.
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Opinion: No Conspiracy Theory

In Opinion on November 18, 2009 at 2:00 pm


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by Michael J. Salamon

Issue of November 20, 2009/ 3 Cheshvan 5770

Michael J. Salamon

The human mind is built to try to comprehend the environment. Part of our role as thinking human beings is to create an order to our lives and set some guidelines for healthy interactions with others. This striving for insight has led us to create many impressive theological and scientific advances. When misdirected it causes us to develop what is known as confirmatory bias, ignoring the reality that is right before us. Both are at work in the situation of the Fort Hood terrorist Major Nidal Malik Hasan.
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Song and dance in the bread aisle

In Cedarhurst, Charity, Children, Community, Economy, Education, Entertainment, Humor, Kosher, Media, Michael Orbach, Money, News on November 18, 2009 at 1:48 pm

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NCSY Auction video a hit on YouTube

By Michael Orbach

Issue of November 20, 2009/ 3 Cheshvan 5770

A scene from NCSY's production of Gourmet GlattFor five minutes last Monday, the bread aisle at Gourmet Glatt became an avant-garde musical theatre.

Customers were surprised, to say the least, when Eli Levin of Far Rockaway, and six other Yeshiva Sh’or Yoshuv students broke into a song and dance routine to the tune of “Be Our Guest,” from Disney’s Beauty Read the rest of this entry »

Opinion: Open letter to Rudolph Kasztner’s daughter

In Opinion, Shoah/Holocaust on November 18, 2009 at 1:38 pm


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An alternate to a filmmaker’s opinion

By Edith Polak

Issue of November 20, 2009/ 3 Cheshvan 5770

“Honor thy mother and father” is one of the commandments that instruct our lives. You and me, we have several things in common: we share a deep love for our fathers; we have daughters, and are mothers; and we were born after WWII, enjoying, I’m sure, a weakness for good Hungarian pastries.
However, that is where our similarities end, Zsuzsi.
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Slice of life: Cranberries

In Food, Recipes on November 18, 2009 at 12:32 pm

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Slice of life

By Eileen Goltz

Issue of November 20, 2009/ 3 Cheshvan 5770

There are two distinct schools of cranberry sauce preference. The “only the fresh berries will do for anything that touches my turkey” enthusiasts, and the “if it isn’t jelled and sliding out of the can it just isn’t cranberry sauce” crowd. I guess I sort of straddle the fence: I think they’re both good. I grew up slicing the stuff from the can and it’s kind of my guilty pleasure on my Thanksgiving Day food fest. However, for the past few years, ever since I had my friend Connie’s made “from scratch with fresh orange juice” stuff, I’ve been gravitating towards the make my own kind. Sadly, I’m torn between two loves.
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On the Calendar 11/20/09

In Calendar on November 18, 2009 at 11:22 am

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Issue of November 20, 2009/ 3 Cheshvan 5770

Toys for Ossie

Ossie Schonfeld a”h lived and breathed chesed every day of his life, his family recalls. In his memory, each year, his children do whatever it takes to purchase and deliver thousands of toys and gifts to children with cancer, and their siblings, across Israel.
The Ossie Schonfeld Chanukah Toy Fund was established in 2003. It works with Chaiyanu, Chai Lifeline’s Israel branch.
Robbie and Judy Schonfeld invite the community to help support this effort at a Melave Malka on Motza’ei Shabbos November 28, at 8:30 p.m., at their home at 850 Broadway in Woodmere. Guests will enjoy a ‘kumzitz’ with Chaim Dovid and of course the famous Ossie’s Sushi Bar. For more information please call 516.791.2158 or email ossiesfish@aol.com.

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Cedarhurst under construction

In Agudath Israel of America, Cedarhurst, Community on November 18, 2009 at 11:14 am

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After half-decade, Agudah of Five Towns to be complete by Pesach

By Michael Orbach

Issue of November 20, 2009/ 3 Cheshvan 5770

The Agudah of the Five Towns on Peninsula Boulevard

Construction on three shuls in Cedarhurst is expected be complete by the end of this year. Listed in ascending order of the length of time each project has taken thus far, they are The Chofetz Chaim Torah Center, Kehillas Bais Yehuda Tzvi, known as the Red Shul, and Agudath Israel of the Five Towns.
The Chofetz Chaim Torah Center, at 7 Derby Lane,  Read the rest of this entry »

Rational Explanations for anti-Semitism

In Alan Jay Gerber, Anti-semitism on November 18, 2009 at 11:05 am


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by Jewish Star staff

Issue of November 20, 2009/ 3 Cheshvan 5770

Cedarhurst resident Yaakov Gade was the featured speaker at a memorial program sponsored by The Red Shul in Cedarhurst to mark the 71st anniversary of Kristallnacht.
The chosen topic was “A rational explanation of anti-Semitism,” and Gade made the proposition that “Nietsche has an answer” as to the root cause of Jew hatred. “He says a people can withstand any ‘how’ as long as it has the proper ‘why.’ In other words, we as Jews can withstand any atrocity that comes our way, as long as we understand why we are being persecuted. The fact that we are here today is a demonstration of the fact that we know why we are being the target of so much hatred,” Gade explained.
The program was sponsored by Zev Ash and Menachem Ash, in memory of Joseph Ash, who fought with the Bielski partisans; by David Klein in memory of Cecile Klein, hidden during the war by Righteous Gentiles; and by Robbie Schoenfeld in memory of Ossie Schoenfeld, who survived slave labor camps during World War II.
Jewish Star columnist Alan Jay Gerber was the event chairman. The Red Shul, Kehillas Bais Yehuda Tzvi, is led by Rabbi Yaakov Feitman.

Shluchim come home

In Chabad, Glen Cove, Long Beach, Oceanside on November 18, 2009 at 11:00 am

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By Mayer Fertig

Issue of November 20, 2009/ 3 Cheshvan 5770

(L-R) Rabbi Anchelle Perl, Mineola; Rabbi Levi Gurkov, Oceanside; Rabbi Eli Goodman, Bach Jewish Center in Long Beach; Rabbi Mendy Heber, Brookville & Glen Cove (Photos by Chaim Perl/chabad.com)

Talk about Jewish Time: I was two-and-a-half-hours late to the closing banquet of the International Conference of Chabad-Lubavitch Shluchim and didn’t even miss the fish.
After several missed opportunities to attend the annual gathering in Brooklyn of Chabad emissaries from around the world, this year everything fell into place Read the rest of this entry »

See The Jewish Star as it appears in print 11-20-09

In Cover/Print edition, News on November 18, 2009 at 10:59 am

Parsha: Growing to Love

In Avi Billet, Essay, Torah, Weekly Parsha on November 13, 2009 at 12:45 pm


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Parshat Chayei Sara

by Rabbi Avi Billet

Issue of November 13/ 26 Cheshvan 5770
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Rabbi Avi Billet

Take a careful look at Bereishit 24:67. “And Yitzchak brought Rivka to his mother’s tent. He took Rivka, she became his wife, and then he loved her, and then he was comforted over the loss of his mother.”
In modern parlance, we might say “He dated her, he married her, and then he grew to love her.”
Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch points out the classic beauty of the ideal Jewish home. “The more she lived as and grew into her role of being his wife, such did his love for her grow.” This, Hirsch argues, is the fundamental ingredient to a successful Jewish marriage. (And, yes, it goes both ways!)
A Jewish home is not built on lustful thoughts and feelings; it is built upon common values and similar approaches to how to live the best Jewish life, sharing an overall gestalt that serves for a harmonious existence.
This intellectual and spiritual connection strengthens love, as the couple gives themselves the chance to get to know one another.
Hirsch emphasizes the marked distinction between pre-marital “love,” and the love which comes after the commitment to one another has taken complete effect.  It is that commitment which becomes the fuel that drives a person to achieve and to accomplish, and ultimately to make the home a model of respect and caring behavior.
The wedding is not the pinnacle of love. It is the root which allows love to blossom. This is the difference between the Western, romantic notion of love, and love as described in the Torah.
The fact that Yitzchak, a forty-year-old man, is only comforted now, three years after his elderly mother’s death, indicates not only the tremendous connection and regard a man can have for his mother, but the tremendous role a wife can play in the life of her husband.
Quoting Onkelos, Ramban explains that the love Yitzchak felt for his wife began because of her righteousness and the straightness of her deeds — things he learned of as they were living together. Could this mean that he loved her because of the things she did? Absolutely.
The Mishnah in Avot (5:16) describes two kinds of love: love which is dependent on something, and love which is dependent on nothing. If love is dependent on something, when that is lost, the love falls apart. The other kind of love never goes away.
The example the Mishnah gives of the love which can fall apart is Amnon and Tamar, two children of King David who had a very disturbing, one-sided relationship. (Samuel II:13) The other kind of love is modeled by David and his best friend, Yonatan, the son of King Shaul. As best friends who shared a vision of how each other could shine, and how they could both become leaders of Israel, all they ever wanted for each other was the very best.
A husband and wife will often begin their marriage out of love of the first kind: egotistical, what he/she can do for me, to make my life better. This is normal. In the initial stages, love based on deeds is the healthiest type of love. How does one love others just because they are there? Love, in a sense, needs to be earned. A person has to work hard to love and to be loved, to do for someone else, to be worthy of being the recipient of someone else’s true (non-lustful) affection.
Love which comes out of infatuation, or a tingly feeling a person gets, is meaningless. It doesn’t take long for that tingly feeling to go away once the excitement becomes routine, unless the love continues to derive strength from other factors. The former and the latter sentiments can best be summarized in this distinction: the difference between “I love you because you are beautiful” and “You are beautiful because I love you.”
Yitzchak is the first person in the Torah who expresses love.
And he does so with thought, with consideration, and most importantly, with time.
Yitzchak teaches us that the ideal state of love in a marriage begins when people do things for one another. This is love which is dependent upon something.
But as the two sides grow together, and create their home in such a way that they think alike, feel alike, believe alike and have common goals, their love will no longer be dependent upon anything. Their love will last till eternity as they live out their lives as the best of friends.

Classy comment

In News on November 11, 2009 at 6:25 pm


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By The Jewish Star Staff

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

Graffiti-LawrenceLong Island Rail Road commuters at the Lawrence station early Tuesday came face to face with crude social commentary presumably authored by one of their neighbors.
LIRR Police were summoned after words in blue marker were found scrawled on the side of an automated ticket machine on the platform.
The machines are equipped with cameras, raising the possibility that an image of the vandal was recorded.
This is at least the fourth such episode on the rail road this year, including two swastikas  discovered in separate incidents — one on a platform, another carved inside a train.

Opinion: Just doing the right thing

In Opinion on November 11, 2009 at 5:49 pm


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by Michael J. Salamon

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770
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Michael J. Salamon

Early one Shabbos not that many years ago, a car accident took place just outside a shul. The 300-family congregation had just started services when they heard the loud boom of a car and truck colliding. Several shul members ran outside to see if they could help. The rabbi of the congregation waited a few minutes and he too walked out for a moment to see if he could be of assistance. Read the rest of this entry »

Seidemann: Put me on the welcoming commitee

In David Seidemann, Essay on November 11, 2009 at 5:44 pm


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From the other side of the bench

by David Seidemann

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770
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David Seidemann

The following conversation did not take place although I wish it had. It is not meant to disparage any one particular individual. It is not meant to discredit the efforts of wonderful people who open their homes and hearts to various guests from outside of our community. Nor do I mean to imply that recent visitors to the Five Towns were anything other than lovers of all Jews. To do so would be patently wrong as I do not know how to read people’s hearts.
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Opinion: Answering your political questions, but asking others

In Opinion, Politics on November 11, 2009 at 5:24 pm

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By Michael Fragin

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770
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Michael Fragin

Politics is a cyclical business. Five short years ago, in 2004, Karl Rove spoke of a realignment in American politics in which he envisioned Republicans winning a permanent majority. Within one election cycle, in 2006, the GOP was swept from the majority in both houses of Congress and then from the White House in 2008, coupled with a loss of even more House and Senate seats.
The nation realigned in four years, but not in the way that Rove had predicted.
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Letters to the Editor 11-13-09

In Letters to the Editor on November 11, 2009 at 3:30 pm

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Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

A fresh start

To the Editor:
Our community voted to start fresh last Tuesday night. I can not thank the homeowners and working families of the 7th District enough for their Read the rest of this entry »

Slice of Life: Mac and Cheese

In Food, Kosher, Recipes on November 11, 2009 at 3:26 pm

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By Eileen Goltz

Issue of November 13, 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

Ah, the rains of fall. The drenching, sometimes bone-numbingly cold weather mac-and-cheese-1makes me long to curl up with a nice big dish of my favorite comfort food, macaroni and cheese.
I was actually reminded of how much I love my Mac and cheese when my friend Debbie Burg served her take on this delicious dish to break a fast. I wanted to eat the whole pan myself. Her three-cheese, crunchy topped, slightly spicy rendition was gooey perfection and made me realize that anyone “making do” with the boxed stuff need to step up to the plate and try the real thing.
Macaroni and cheese is not just for kids. It’s a wonderful side dish, terrific as a light supper or dinner and perfect anytime you want to share Read the rest of this entry »

New York Mets tell liberals to ‘take a walk’

In News on November 11, 2009 at 3:10 pm

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By The Jewish Star Staff

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

new_york_mets_logoDie-hard New York Mets fans have one thing to be proud of this year: the Mets’ new ballpark will be the site of the Hebron Fund annual dinner, despite protests by a number of liberal organizations.
Eleven organizations including Jews Against the Occupation-NYC and the American-Arab Anti-Discrimination Committee called for the cancellation of the dinner, which will go on as planned at the Caesar’s Club at Citi Field on November 21.
“The New York Mets will be facilitating activities that directly Read the rest of this entry »

New Age hot chocolate

In Kosher, News on November 11, 2009 at 3:07 pm

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By Felisa Billet

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

Felisa BilletWhat can be better than a cup of hot cocoa on a cold winter’s day?  A mug of hot chocolate.  And make that the haute kind.

Not to be confused with cocoa powder mixed with milk, real hot chocolate is made by melting solid bars of chocolate, preferably a dark variety containing a high percentage of cacao, with cream and Read the rest of this entry »

Grill Point, Kew Garden Hills

In Kosher, News on November 11, 2009 at 3:04 pm

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By Judah S. Harris

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

Culinary-Grillpoint_exteriorIf you’re searching for authentic shwarma and other Israeli and Middle Eastern grilled meats and salads, a quick trip to nearby Queens offers at present about five glatt kosher choices within less than a two-mile radius.
Most of these Israeli restaurants are situated on Main Street, the commercial Read the rest of this entry »

Rav Chaim of Volozhin

In Alan Jay Gerber, Essay, Kosher Bookworm on November 11, 2009 at 3:00 pm

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The Kosher Bookworm

By Alan Jay Gerber

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

Alan Jay GerberThe beginning of the 19th century witnessed many historical events that were to foreshadow much of the next two centuries. With American independence secure under President Thomas Jefferson and the French revolution morphing into a dictatorship of Napoleonic proportions, the Jewish world was to witness institutional changes that would redefine Read the rest of this entry »

Overtime windfall for Lawrence administrator

In Lawrence, News on November 10, 2009 at 11:51 pm

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By Michael Orbach

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

The Village of Lawrence is investigating how a former village administrator managed to earn close to $200,000 in the last year, much of it in overtime, according to a board trustee.
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Thanksgiving is not just for Americans

In Cover/Print edition, Food, Recipes on November 10, 2009 at 6:21 pm

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By Naomi Nachman

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770
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Naomi Nachman

Even though I may sound Australian with my heavy “Aussie” accent, I am definitely American in my heart. My favorite time of the year is the American holiday of Thanksgiving. I came to the US 18 years ago on Thanksgiving and I met my husband one year later, also on Thanksgiving – so I always consider it a time Read the rest of this entry »

Opinion: 71 years ago this week

In Anti-semitism, Essay, History on November 10, 2009 at 6:07 pm

Cartoonists’ response to Kristallnacht

by Dr. Rafael Medoff

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Halpern: Politics, Palestinian-style

In Anti-semitism, I'm Thinking, by Micah Halpern on November 10, 2009 at 5:56 pm

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I’m thinking

by Micah D. Halpern

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

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Micah D. Halpern

By announcing that he will not run for re-election in the election that he himself called, Palestinian President Mahmoud Abbas, leader of the Fatah movement, is sacrificing his position of power for the good of his people – or so he would have us believe. The implications of Abbas’s decision reach further than his Fatah party, further than the Palestinian people, and further than Israel-Palestinian relations.
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Editorial: Where political correctness leads

In Editorial on November 10, 2009 at 5:32 pm


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Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

A counter-intelligence sting last month brought to the fore simmering complaints that the CIA and FBI single out Jews as likely security risks on account of supposed dual loyalties to Israel.
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On the calendar

In Calendar on November 10, 2009 at 5:25 pm


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Cedarhurst – The JCC of the Greater Five Towns offers “Kids Corner,” a program for special needs children, on Sundays, from 12:15 p.m. to 1:30 p.m.  A light lunch is provided.  For further information please call 516-569-6733, ext. 205.

Bayswater – The Agudah of Bayswater will be hosting Rabbi Dovid Heber — Rav of Kehilas Ahavas Yisroel in Baltimore, MD, noted lecturer, author of Sefer Shaarei Zmanim and Kashrus Administrator for the Star-K – on Shabbos Parshas Chayei Sarah, November 13th-14th. He will be speaking at the Oneg Shabbos (for men and women) at 8:15 p.m. on the topic of “Strengthening Our Bein Adam Lachaveiro– The Road to Family and Communal Success.” Following Shachris, Rabbi Heber will deliver a lecture for women at 11:00 a.m. entitled, “The Role of the Jewish Woman — Bringing Kedushas Shabbos into our Home” and he will speak on motzei shabbos at 7:30 p.m.  on “The Kashrus of Medicines” with a question & answer session_

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See The Jewish Star as it appears in print 11-13-09

In Cover/Print edition, News on November 10, 2009 at 3:43 pm

Only Simchas in The Jewish Star

In News on November 10, 2009 at 3:15 pm

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Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

Weddings

Rachel Farber and Jordan Amrani

Rachel Farber and Jordan Amrani

Wedding of Rachel Farber (Woodmere, NY) & Jordan Amrani (Milwaukee, WI) — Nov. 8, 2009
Wedding of Yechiel Ebstein (Monsey, NY) & Dassi Feuer (Cleveland, OH) — Nov 5, 2009’

Engagements

Engagement of Yaakov Tischler (Massachusetts) & Hadass Czitron (Israel) — Nov. 7, 2009
Mendy Seidenfeld (Montreal, Canada) & Malky Sternhell (Brooklyn, NY) — Nov. 7, 2009
Engagement of Tzipora Tendler (Monsey, NY) Read the rest of this entry »

German diplomat promises action on Nazi in Queens

In Anti-semitism, Community, Mayer Fertig, News, Rambam Mesivta, Shalhevet School for Girls, Shoah/Holocaust on November 10, 2009 at 2:17 pm

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Rambam and Shalhevet students picket consulate and war criminal’s home

By Mayer Fertig

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770
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Andreas Zimmer, head of the legal department of the German consulate, addressed Rambam students

Rambam and Shalhevet students drew reactions from a German official and, apparently, from a known Nazi war criminal whose U.S. citizenship has been revoked. The students held a pair of demonstrations on Monday marking the 71st anniversary of Kristallnacht.
Jakiw Palij obtained his U.S. citizenship by concealing his Nazi past, the Justice Read the rest of this entry »

Far from Yemen

In Community, Cover/Print edition, Exclusive, Michael Orbach on November 10, 2009 at 2:13 pm

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Yemenite Jews struggle to find a new home in Monsey

By Michael Orbach

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

Yemen-after dinner family timeZohar Qafni rubbed his forehead, which bears scars from rocks thrown at him by Muslims in Yemen.

“We are grateful to America that saved us from Arabs,” he said in Arabic as several of his children played around a car in rural Monsey, NY. The boys were dark skinned with long curling sideburns, which  Jews from Yemen call simonim (signs). Qafni earned a living in Yemen making shoes by hand. He said he hopes to continue practicing his trade in America.

Shukri Karni, who sheared sheep in Yemen, Read the rest of this entry »

Editorial: Is this really a smart move?

In Editorial, Hashkafah, Israel, Kosher, Lawrence, Mayer Fertig, Money, Opinion, Shabbos, Torah, Travel, Zionism on November 5, 2009 at 5:00 am

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Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

The smart money says criticism of this weekend’s visit to Lawrence by an anti-Zionist chassidic rebbe from Jerusalem aligned with the Neturei Karta will be dismissed by some as the work of troublemaking bloggers (or perhaps of a muckraking newspaper that’s too modern for its own good).

What chutzpah! defenders of the Toldos Avrohom Yitzchok Rebbe will fume. Rabbi Shmuel Yaakov Kohn is an adom gadol — a great man — a tzaddik, a talmid chachom, and a paragon of Yiras Shamayim and gemilas chasodim, too.

Very likely, that’s all true.

It is, however, not at all the point.

The Rebbe’s followers — at least a good number of them — are thugs and criminals who created an unprecedented desecration of G-d’s name with their violent street protests in Jerusalem.

In a few short weeks they managed to undo and turn around — v’nahafoch hu — a general perception of observant Jews as peaceful and genteel. In some cases they Read the rest of this entry »

You know you had a good time if your stomach hurts

In Essay, Exclusive, Feature, Food, Humor, Kosher, Michael Orbach, News, Photo Essay, Wine, Yeshiva University on November 4, 2009 at 1:00 am

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A reporter’s journey to the inside of Kosherfest

By Michael Orbach
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

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Native Americans have vision quests, college fraternities have hazing, and Jewish reporters have Kosherfest as their rite of initiation. The annual two-day festival highlighting the newest kosher products was held on October 27-28 at the Meadowlands in New Jersey. Before the big day my colleagues gave me strict instructions: wear large pants, don’t bother with a belt and the more pockets the better. Skip dinner the night before, don’t eat breakfast, and if it looks edible, it probably is (or if it’s not, poison control has a booth somewhere at Kosherfest.)
I met up with two old friends before the event: Read the rest of this entry »

Kosher soup kitchen expands to Brooklyn and Queens

In Brooklyn, Charity, Community, Exclusive, Food, Kosher, News on November 3, 2009 at 7:24 pm

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By Michael Orbach
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

Masbia Soup Kitchen, the only kosher soup kitchen in New York, plans to open new branches in Flatbush, Williamsburg and, later, Queens.
“Williamsburgh is the mecca of Jewish poverty,” said Alexander Rapaport, director of Read the rest of this entry »

Letters to the editor 11-6-09

In Letters to the Editor on November 3, 2009 at 6:29 pm

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Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

More on secular college

To the Editor:
I was quite surprised to see the vehemence of the reaction to Rabbi Reuven Spolter’s article criticizing those who send their kids to out of town residential Read the rest of this entry »

Victory at last!

In Sports, West Hempstead, Woodmere on November 3, 2009 at 6:25 pm

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Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770
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The end of the Young Israel Little League season was supposed to be on June 21, not during the Major League’s World Series. However, after an end-of-summer rainout, Read the rest of this entry »

Civil War spy games

In Books, Entertainment, Essay on November 3, 2009 at 6:22 pm

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A review of All Other Nights by Dara Horn

Reviewed by Miriam Bradman Abrahams
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

All Other NightsDara Horn is often asked what makes a book Jewish. It used to mean it was written in Yiddish or Hebrew, she replies. In the U.S. we have one of the largest Jewish communities in history, but we don’t necessarily communicate in a Jewish language. Horn interjects into her writing many ideas and phrases from the prayers and Tanach. She writes about morality, religious and biblical themes. Her latest, All Other Nights, “is not realistic,” she said. Rather, “it is a potboiler about the Civil War, written like a dime store novel with outrageous plot twists similar to some stories in the Torah.”
Jacob Rappaport is a Jewish soldier in the Union Read the rest of this entry »

Parenting through positive reinforcement

In Children, Community, Health, Mayer Fertig, Special Section, Your Health on November 3, 2009 at 6:18 pm

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Classes offered in Hewlett

By Mayer Fertig
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

Ron Markovitz describes himself these days as Mr. Mom. He operates his web design business from home and, as a result, spends more time doing hands-on Read the rest of this entry »

New treatment for common sleep disorder

In Health, Malka Eisenberg, News, Special Section, Your Health on November 3, 2009 at 6:16 pm

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By Malka Eisenberg
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

Health-Sleep_sleeping on sideIf the silence of the night in your home is broken by grating snores from a sleep apnea sufferer, or the whooshing air sound of a CPAP machine commonly used to treat the disorder, you’ll be interested in a new prescription therapy, Provent, now being offered on Long Island.
Over 40 million Americans suffer from obstructive sleep apnea (OSA). It is the most Read the rest of this entry »

Opinion: What is self-esteem really worth?

In Children, Community, Health, Opinion, Special Section, Your Health on November 3, 2009 at 6:12 pm

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By Michael J. Salamon
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770
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I received a call from concerned parents the other day. Their child is not doing well in school and his rebbe and teacher told them that the boy suffers from low self-esteem. As would any caring and involved parents, this couple wants to help and Read the rest of this entry »

Test is a lot to swallow, but worth it

In Community, Health, Malka Eisenberg, News on November 3, 2009 at 6:09 pm

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Invasive exam helps patients get back on solid food

By Malka Eisenberg
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

Michaelle Gorman screens all new admissions at Woodmere Rehabilitation and Health Care Center, evaluating and treating for speech, language and swallowing Read the rest of this entry »

Slice of life: You can make friends with salad

In Food, Recipes on November 3, 2009 at 6:05 pm

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By Eileen Goltz
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

Having a huge salad for lunch or dinner is a good thing. All your nutrition and healthy stuff lumped saladtogether in one bowl topped with a nice vinaigrette or creamy ranch is just about (calories aside, of course) the best meal you can make.  I am a big fan of the Cobb salad. Ok, let me modify that, I really like everything about the concept of a Cobb salad EXCEPT for the blue cheese and the bacon that are Read the rest of this entry »

Parsha: What happens when we assume

In Avi Billet, Torah, Weekly Parsha on November 3, 2009 at 5:59 pm

Parshat Vayera

By Rabbi Avi Billet

Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770
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I always thought the story of Lot’s daughters was not taught in grade school because the material is inappropriate for children.
Reading it again, the initial sentiment still holds true. But an even bigger problem exists: the story makes no logical sense. Zero. Read the rest of this entry »

Only Simchas in the Jewish Star

In Only Simchas on November 3, 2009 at 5:55 pm


 

Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

 

Engagements

Simchas-Goldblatt_Selzer

Tamara Goldblatt & Mike Selze

Engagement of Moshe Axelrod (Brooklyn, NY) & Esty Breban (Brooklyn) — Nov. 1, 2009

Engagement of Yossi Weichbrod (Brooklyn, NY) & Malky Berkowitz (New York, NY) — Nov. 1, 2009
Engagement of Tamara Goldblatt (Monsey, NY) & Mike Selze (Monsey, NY) — Oct. 29, 2009
Engagement of Yanky Rosenberg (Monsey, NY)& Leah Smilovitz (Cleveland, OH) — Oct. 28, 2009
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Nussin Rieber & Miriam Gober

Opinion: But I still haven’t found what I’m looking for

In HAFTR, Hashkafah, Kulanu, Opinion on November 3, 2009 at 5:48 pm

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By Matis Friedman
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770
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I recently took my son to shul in his new jacket, the one that never made it back home. Out of fear of my wife, I’ve been desperately trying to recall in which shul — out of the many I frequent — that the jacket might be in. Last week I went to a shul office to ask if it had turned up there. As I was talking to the receptionist about the missing jacket, I looked down on Read the rest of this entry »

Seidemann: A dash of poetic justice

In David Seidemann, Essay, Humor, Legal, Opinion, Parenting, Shabbos on November 3, 2009 at 5:46 pm

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From the other side of the bench

By David Seidemann

Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

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He’s not even Jewish — Irish Catholic I believe — but he considers himself to be my youngest daughter’s godfather. In fact, they have never met. Oh, he’s seen pictures; I make sure to show him pictures at periodic intervals when we see each other in the courthouse. He is an excellent trial attorney for one of the country’s largest insurance companies. We first met in October Read the rest of this entry »

Micah Halpern: Diplomacy by whining

In Essay, History, Israel, Micah D. Halpern, Muslem, News, Opinion on November 3, 2009 at 5:44 pm

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I’m thinking

By Micah D. Halpern
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770
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The Arabs never miss an opportunity to miss an opportunity.” Israel’s revered statesman, respected diplomat and global thinker Abba Eban — a man intimately familiar with the Arab world and Arab diplomacy — made that observation. And the words ring as Read the rest of this entry »

Toldos Avrohom Yitzchok Rebbe draws blog spotlight to Lawrence

In Charity, Economy, Far Rockaway, Five Towns, Hashkafah, Israel, Mayer Fertig, Media, Money, News, Shabbos, Travel, Zionism on November 3, 2009 at 5:25 pm

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By Mayer Fertig
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

 

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The Toldos Avrohom Yitzchok Rebbe, Rabbi Shmuel Yaakov Kohn. Photo courtesy of theyeshivaworld.com

In Jerusalem and Beit Shemesh, followers of Rabbi Shmuel Yaakov Kohn, known as the Toldos Avrohom Yitzchok Rebbe, and his brother, Rabbi Dovid Kohn, Toldos Aharon Rebbe, are among those responsible for religiously-motivated vigilante attacks on women, and violent protests against chillul Shabbos (Sabbath desecration) that shocked the Jewish world several months ago.

The two rabbis are crisscrossing the New York-New Jersey region this week seeking funds for their communities with stops scheduled in Flatbush, Monsey, Lakewood and the Five Read the rest of this entry »

Beit Shemesh mayor in Five Towns

In Economy, Five Towns, Israel, Zionism on November 3, 2009 at 3:49 pm


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Speaks to relatives and friends of olim

By Daniella Adler
Issue of November 6 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

It’s an interesting way to reach voters in your Israeli city: visit their family and friends back in the States.
The mayor of Beit Shemesh, Israel and several city officials were in Cedarhurst on Read the rest of this entry »

Election 2009: Kopel unseats Toback in Five Towns race

In Five Towns, Lawrence, Mayer Fertig, News, Politics on November 3, 2009 at 3:14 pm

County Executive and Comptroller races too close to call; Rice wins second term as Nassau D.A.

By Mayer Fertig

Updated Nov. 5, 2009

Legislator-elect Howard Kopel before he was introduced by Coucilman Anthony Santino at Republican Election Headquarters Tuesday night.

Legislator-elect Howard Kopel (left) at Republican Election Night headquarters, before he was introduced by Councilman Anthony Santino (Photo by Christina Daly)

Republican businessman Howard Kopel of Lawrence, running his second political campaign, unseated five-term Democratic Legislator Jeffrey Toback Tuesday night by more than 1100 votes, and tilting Nassau County’s legislature back to Republican control in the process.

“I was here two years ago, but this time is much more fun,” Kopel, 58, said in his victory speech at Republican headquarters in Read the rest of this entry »

Sports: Degel league standings

In Sports on November 3, 2009 at 2:48 pm

DEGEL Standings

Early Division
Team                              Record                PF       PA     Point Diff
Cartridge World          3 – 0                     138     70       68
Carlos and Gabby’s    3 – 0                      93      13        80 Read the rest of this entry »

On the Calendar 11-6-09

In Calendar, News, Shoah/Holocaust on November 3, 2009 at 2:07 pm

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Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

Cedarhurst – Five Towns Kristallnacht Commemorative featuring guest speaker Yaakov Gade, noted lecturer on modern anti-Semitism. Tuesday, Nov. 10, 2009 at 7:30 p.m., at Kehillas Bais Yehuda Tzvi — the Read the rest of this entry »

See The Jewish Star as it appears in print 11-6-09

In Cover/Print edition, News on November 3, 2009 at 5:16 am