By Michael Orbach
Issue of Jan. 16, 2009 / 20 Teves 5769
On a blustery Thursday evening, the Orthodox Jewish community of the Five Towns and Far Rockaway felt distinctly like a nation in exile. A crowd of over seven hundred men and women filled the Young Israel of Woodmere to capacity for a community recitation of Tehillim (Psalms) on behalf of Israeli troops in action on the ground in Gaza.
Emotions over Israel’s operation to end Hamas rocket attacks on southern Israel ranged from feelings of camaraderie to fear, grief and, perhaps most importantly, pride.
“This is long overdue,” said Dr. Debbie Dienstag, a pediatrician from Lawrence, moments before the Tehillim recitation began. Her eldest son, Aryeh, attends a medical school in Beersheba that closed because of rocket attacks. “We’re sorry for the children and the innocent victims who’ve died but clearly innocent victims were put in the way of military operations by their own brethren,” she said.
Rabbi Kalman Topp of the Young Israel of Woodmere, the first speaker of the evening, spoke of biblical parallels to the war and what the worldwide Jewish community’s response to Israel must be.
“The only permit to reside in galut (the Diaspora) is dependent upon our doing all we can to help the fight,” Topper told the audience.
The program included tehillim readings by Rabbi Kenneth Hain of Congregation Beth Sholom, Rabbi Avrohom Halpern of Yeshiva Shor Yoshuv, and Rabbi Yitzchok Knobel of the Yeshiva Gedolah of the Five Towns, proving the words of Rabbi Eytan Feiner, the young interim rabbi of the White Shul that “tragedy brings Jews together.”
“Let’s love every Jew regardless of background and upbringing,” Rabbi Feiner said before segueing into a discussion about prayer, the true point of the evening: “We daven for all Jews in a time of need. We reach out and unite regardless of our differences.”
As Menachem Leff, a portfolio manager at a bank in New York, put it: unity is a necessity.
“It’s a desperate time for Jews throughout the whole world. Anybody who thinks that something bad that happens in Israel won’t affect us is kidding themselves. We have to get together, secular and non-secular. We’re on the precipice of a calamity and we have to reverse the course.”
Defiance was in the air, especially among younger people.
“You need to do what you need to do,” said Shalom Rosenbaum of DRS. Gilad Katz, a sixteen year-old student at Rambam, echoed his sentiment. “I think it shows Israel is Israel and not a third world country.”
Ilan and Amy Mosery currently have two children, Jonathan and Chelsea, serving in the IDF. The Mosery’s spoke of the pride they have in their children, and the pride their children have in serving. Still, the war hasn’t allowed them much sleep.
“Thank God for cell phones,” Amy said.
Miriam Gottlieb, an executive with an Israeli group Standing Together, had flown in that morning to New York, described the mood in Israel.
“The moral is up. We’re very proud but there is the fear — our boys, our girls, our sisters, brothers, mothers and father. We want the army to accomplish what they need to accomplish with the least loss of life.”
Standing Together (stogether.org) provides soldiers with items that, in Gottlieb’s words, the IDF doesn’t “need, but they deserve.” Amenities like pizza and coffee for soldiers on the borders as well as necessities such as toothpaste and shampoo. Recently, Standing Together began transporting a computer to soldiers on the frontlines that allows them to communicate with family and friends via email and the Internet phone service known as Skype. Standing Together also provides a mobile charging station to allow groups of soldiers to recharge their cell phones.
At the close of the evening at the Young Israel of Woodmere the parents of people serving in the IDF gathered at the front of the shul to recite the prayer for the welfare of the Israel Defense Forces.
People slowly filed out to, some to learn in the Beit Midrash, others to watch the college football game, or to get back to cooking for Shabbat. Perhaps the mood is best described in the words of Hillel Schreier, a precocious eleven year old whose largest worry other than the war is the looming specter of high school:
“As long as the Jews have faith, Hashem will help us.”