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Parsha: Growing to Love

In Avi Billet, Essay, Torah, Weekly Parsha on November 13, 2009 at 12:45 pm


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Parshat Chayei Sara

by Rabbi Avi Billet

Issue of November 13/ 26 Cheshvan 5770
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Rabbi Avi Billet

Take a careful look at Bereishit 24:67. “And Yitzchak brought Rivka to his mother’s tent. He took Rivka, she became his wife, and then he loved her, and then he was comforted over the loss of his mother.”
In modern parlance, we might say “He dated her, he married her, and then he grew to love her.”
Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch points out the classic beauty of the ideal Jewish home. “The more she lived as and grew into her role of being his wife, such did his love for her grow.” This, Hirsch argues, is the fundamental ingredient to a successful Jewish marriage. (And, yes, it goes both ways!)
A Jewish home is not built on lustful thoughts and feelings; it is built upon common values and similar approaches to how to live the best Jewish life, sharing an overall gestalt that serves for a harmonious existence.
This intellectual and spiritual connection strengthens love, as the couple gives themselves the chance to get to know one another.
Hirsch emphasizes the marked distinction between pre-marital “love,” and the love which comes after the commitment to one another has taken complete effect.  It is that commitment which becomes the fuel that drives a person to achieve and to accomplish, and ultimately to make the home a model of respect and caring behavior.
The wedding is not the pinnacle of love. It is the root which allows love to blossom. This is the difference between the Western, romantic notion of love, and love as described in the Torah.
The fact that Yitzchak, a forty-year-old man, is only comforted now, three years after his elderly mother’s death, indicates not only the tremendous connection and regard a man can have for his mother, but the tremendous role a wife can play in the life of her husband.
Quoting Onkelos, Ramban explains that the love Yitzchak felt for his wife began because of her righteousness and the straightness of her deeds — things he learned of as they were living together. Could this mean that he loved her because of the things she did? Absolutely.
The Mishnah in Avot (5:16) describes two kinds of love: love which is dependent on something, and love which is dependent on nothing. If love is dependent on something, when that is lost, the love falls apart. The other kind of love never goes away.
The example the Mishnah gives of the love which can fall apart is Amnon and Tamar, two children of King David who had a very disturbing, one-sided relationship. (Samuel II:13) The other kind of love is modeled by David and his best friend, Yonatan, the son of King Shaul. As best friends who shared a vision of how each other could shine, and how they could both become leaders of Israel, all they ever wanted for each other was the very best.
A husband and wife will often begin their marriage out of love of the first kind: egotistical, what he/she can do for me, to make my life better. This is normal. In the initial stages, love based on deeds is the healthiest type of love. How does one love others just because they are there? Love, in a sense, needs to be earned. A person has to work hard to love and to be loved, to do for someone else, to be worthy of being the recipient of someone else’s true (non-lustful) affection.
Love which comes out of infatuation, or a tingly feeling a person gets, is meaningless. It doesn’t take long for that tingly feeling to go away once the excitement becomes routine, unless the love continues to derive strength from other factors. The former and the latter sentiments can best be summarized in this distinction: the difference between “I love you because you are beautiful” and “You are beautiful because I love you.”
Yitzchak is the first person in the Torah who expresses love.
And he does so with thought, with consideration, and most importantly, with time.
Yitzchak teaches us that the ideal state of love in a marriage begins when people do things for one another. This is love which is dependent upon something.
But as the two sides grow together, and create their home in such a way that they think alike, feel alike, believe alike and have common goals, their love will no longer be dependent upon anything. Their love will last till eternity as they live out their lives as the best of friends.

Classy comment

In News on November 11, 2009 at 6:25 pm


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By The Jewish Star Staff

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

Graffiti-LawrenceLong Island Rail Road commuters at the Lawrence station early Tuesday came face to face with crude social commentary presumably authored by one of their neighbors.
LIRR Police were summoned after words in blue marker were found scrawled on the side of an automated ticket machine on the platform.
The machines are equipped with cameras, raising the possibility that an image of the vandal was recorded.
This is at least the fourth such episode on the rail road this year, including two swastikas  discovered in separate incidents — one on a platform, another carved inside a train.

Opinion: Just doing the right thing

In Opinion on November 11, 2009 at 5:49 pm


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by Michael J. Salamon

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770
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Michael J. Salamon

Early one Shabbos not that many years ago, a car accident took place just outside a shul. The 300-family congregation had just started services when they heard the loud boom of a car and truck colliding. Several shul members ran outside to see if they could help. The rabbi of the congregation waited a few minutes and he too walked out for a moment to see if he could be of assistance. Read the rest of this entry »

Seidemann: Put me on the welcoming commitee

In David Seidemann, Essay on November 11, 2009 at 5:44 pm


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From the other side of the bench

by David Seidemann

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770
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David Seidemann

The following conversation did not take place although I wish it had. It is not meant to disparage any one particular individual. It is not meant to discredit the efforts of wonderful people who open their homes and hearts to various guests from outside of our community. Nor do I mean to imply that recent visitors to the Five Towns were anything other than lovers of all Jews. To do so would be patently wrong as I do not know how to read people’s hearts.
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Opinion: Answering your political questions, but asking others

In Opinion, Politics on November 11, 2009 at 5:24 pm

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By Michael Fragin

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770
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Michael Fragin

Politics is a cyclical business. Five short years ago, in 2004, Karl Rove spoke of a realignment in American politics in which he envisioned Republicans winning a permanent majority. Within one election cycle, in 2006, the GOP was swept from the majority in both houses of Congress and then from the White House in 2008, coupled with a loss of even more House and Senate seats.
The nation realigned in four years, but not in the way that Rove had predicted.
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Letters to the Editor 11-13-09

In Letters to the Editor on November 11, 2009 at 3:30 pm

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Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

A fresh start

To the Editor:
Our community voted to start fresh last Tuesday night. I can not thank the homeowners and working families of the 7th District enough for their Read the rest of this entry »

Slice of Life: Mac and Cheese

In Food, Kosher, Recipes on November 11, 2009 at 3:26 pm

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By Eileen Goltz

Issue of November 13, 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

Ah, the rains of fall. The drenching, sometimes bone-numbingly cold weather mac-and-cheese-1makes me long to curl up with a nice big dish of my favorite comfort food, macaroni and cheese.
I was actually reminded of how much I love my Mac and cheese when my friend Debbie Burg served her take on this delicious dish to break a fast. I wanted to eat the whole pan myself. Her three-cheese, crunchy topped, slightly spicy rendition was gooey perfection and made me realize that anyone “making do” with the boxed stuff need to step up to the plate and try the real thing.
Macaroni and cheese is not just for kids. It’s a wonderful side dish, terrific as a light supper or dinner and perfect anytime you want to share Read the rest of this entry »

New York Mets tell liberals to ‘take a walk’

In News on November 11, 2009 at 3:10 pm

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By The Jewish Star Staff

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

new_york_mets_logoDie-hard New York Mets fans have one thing to be proud of this year: the Mets’ new ballpark will be the site of the Hebron Fund annual dinner, despite protests by a number of liberal organizations.
Eleven organizations including Jews Against the Occupation-NYC and the American-Arab Anti-Discrimination Committee called for the cancellation of the dinner, which will go on as planned at the Caesar’s Club at Citi Field on November 21.
“The New York Mets will be facilitating activities that directly Read the rest of this entry »

New Age hot chocolate

In Kosher, News on November 11, 2009 at 3:07 pm

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By Felisa Billet

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

Felisa BilletWhat can be better than a cup of hot cocoa on a cold winter’s day?  A mug of hot chocolate.  And make that the haute kind.

Not to be confused with cocoa powder mixed with milk, real hot chocolate is made by melting solid bars of chocolate, preferably a dark variety containing a high percentage of cacao, with cream and Read the rest of this entry »

Grill Point, Kew Garden Hills

In Kosher, News on November 11, 2009 at 3:04 pm

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By Judah S. Harris

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

Culinary-Grillpoint_exteriorIf you’re searching for authentic shwarma and other Israeli and Middle Eastern grilled meats and salads, a quick trip to nearby Queens offers at present about five glatt kosher choices within less than a two-mile radius.
Most of these Israeli restaurants are situated on Main Street, the commercial Read the rest of this entry »

Rav Chaim of Volozhin

In Alan Jay Gerber, Essay, Kosher Bookworm on November 11, 2009 at 3:00 pm

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The Kosher Bookworm

By Alan Jay Gerber

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

Alan Jay GerberThe beginning of the 19th century witnessed many historical events that were to foreshadow much of the next two centuries. With American independence secure under President Thomas Jefferson and the French revolution morphing into a dictatorship of Napoleonic proportions, the Jewish world was to witness institutional changes that would redefine Read the rest of this entry »

Overtime windfall for Lawrence administrator

In Lawrence, News on November 10, 2009 at 11:51 pm

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By Michael Orbach

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

The Village of Lawrence is investigating how a former village administrator managed to earn close to $200,000 in the last year, much of it in overtime, according to a board trustee.
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Thanksgiving is not just for Americans

In Cover/Print edition, Food, Recipes on November 10, 2009 at 6:21 pm

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By Naomi Nachman

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770
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Naomi Nachman

Even though I may sound Australian with my heavy “Aussie” accent, I am definitely American in my heart. My favorite time of the year is the American holiday of Thanksgiving. I came to the US 18 years ago on Thanksgiving and I met my husband one year later, also on Thanksgiving – so I always consider it a time Read the rest of this entry »

Opinion: 71 years ago this week

In Anti-semitism, Essay, History on November 10, 2009 at 6:07 pm

Cartoonists’ response to Kristallnacht

by Dr. Rafael Medoff

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Halpern: Politics, Palestinian-style

In Anti-semitism, I'm Thinking, by Micah Halpern on November 10, 2009 at 5:56 pm

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I’m thinking

by Micah D. Halpern

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

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Micah D. Halpern

By announcing that he will not run for re-election in the election that he himself called, Palestinian President Mahmoud Abbas, leader of the Fatah movement, is sacrificing his position of power for the good of his people – or so he would have us believe. The implications of Abbas’s decision reach further than his Fatah party, further than the Palestinian people, and further than Israel-Palestinian relations.
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Editorial: Where political correctness leads

In Editorial on November 10, 2009 at 5:32 pm


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Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

A counter-intelligence sting last month brought to the fore simmering complaints that the CIA and FBI single out Jews as likely security risks on account of supposed dual loyalties to Israel.
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On the calendar

In Calendar on November 10, 2009 at 5:25 pm


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Cedarhurst – The JCC of the Greater Five Towns offers “Kids Corner,” a program for special needs children, on Sundays, from 12:15 p.m. to 1:30 p.m.  A light lunch is provided.  For further information please call 516-569-6733, ext. 205.

Bayswater – The Agudah of Bayswater will be hosting Rabbi Dovid Heber — Rav of Kehilas Ahavas Yisroel in Baltimore, MD, noted lecturer, author of Sefer Shaarei Zmanim and Kashrus Administrator for the Star-K – on Shabbos Parshas Chayei Sarah, November 13th-14th. He will be speaking at the Oneg Shabbos (for men and women) at 8:15 p.m. on the topic of “Strengthening Our Bein Adam Lachaveiro– The Road to Family and Communal Success.” Following Shachris, Rabbi Heber will deliver a lecture for women at 11:00 a.m. entitled, “The Role of the Jewish Woman — Bringing Kedushas Shabbos into our Home” and he will speak on motzei shabbos at 7:30 p.m.  on “The Kashrus of Medicines” with a question & answer session_

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See The Jewish Star as it appears in print 11-13-09

In Cover/Print edition, News on November 10, 2009 at 3:43 pm

Only Simchas in The Jewish Star

In News on November 10, 2009 at 3:15 pm

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Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

Weddings

Rachel Farber and Jordan Amrani

Rachel Farber and Jordan Amrani

Wedding of Rachel Farber (Woodmere, NY) & Jordan Amrani (Milwaukee, WI) — Nov. 8, 2009
Wedding of Yechiel Ebstein (Monsey, NY) & Dassi Feuer (Cleveland, OH) — Nov 5, 2009’

Engagements

Engagement of Yaakov Tischler (Massachusetts) & Hadass Czitron (Israel) — Nov. 7, 2009
Mendy Seidenfeld (Montreal, Canada) & Malky Sternhell (Brooklyn, NY) — Nov. 7, 2009
Engagement of Tzipora Tendler (Monsey, NY) Read the rest of this entry »

German diplomat promises action on Nazi in Queens

In Anti-semitism, Community, Mayer Fertig, News, Rambam Mesivta, Shalhevet School for Girls, Shoah/Holocaust on November 10, 2009 at 2:17 pm

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Rambam and Shalhevet students picket consulate and war criminal’s home

By Mayer Fertig

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770
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Andreas Zimmer, head of the legal department of the German consulate, addressed Rambam students

Rambam and Shalhevet students drew reactions from a German official and, apparently, from a known Nazi war criminal whose U.S. citizenship has been revoked. The students held a pair of demonstrations on Monday marking the 71st anniversary of Kristallnacht.
Jakiw Palij obtained his U.S. citizenship by concealing his Nazi past, the Justice Read the rest of this entry »

Far from Yemen

In Community, Cover/Print edition, Exclusive, Michael Orbach on November 10, 2009 at 2:13 pm

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Yemenite Jews struggle to find a new home in Monsey

By Michael Orbach

Issue of November 13 2009/ 26 Cheshvan 5770

Yemen-after dinner family timeZohar Qafni rubbed his forehead, which bears scars from rocks thrown at him by Muslims in Yemen.

“We are grateful to America that saved us from Arabs,” he said in Arabic as several of his children played around a car in rural Monsey, NY. The boys were dark skinned with long curling sideburns, which  Jews from Yemen call simonim (signs). Qafni earned a living in Yemen making shoes by hand. He said he hopes to continue practicing his trade in America.

Shukri Karni, who sheared sheep in Yemen, Read the rest of this entry »

Editorial: Is this really a smart move?

In Editorial, Hashkafah, Israel, Kosher, Lawrence, Mayer Fertig, Money, Opinion, Shabbos, Torah, Travel, Zionism on November 5, 2009 at 5:00 am

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Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

The smart money says criticism of this weekend’s visit to Lawrence by an anti-Zionist chassidic rebbe from Jerusalem aligned with the Neturei Karta will be dismissed by some as the work of troublemaking bloggers (or perhaps of a muckraking newspaper that’s too modern for its own good).

What chutzpah! defenders of the Toldos Avrohom Yitzchok Rebbe will fume. Rabbi Shmuel Yaakov Kohn is an adom gadol — a great man — a tzaddik, a talmid chachom, and a paragon of Yiras Shamayim and gemilas chasodim, too.

Very likely, that’s all true.

It is, however, not at all the point.

The Rebbe’s followers — at least a good number of them — are thugs and criminals who created an unprecedented desecration of G-d’s name with their violent street protests in Jerusalem.

In a few short weeks they managed to undo and turn around — v’nahafoch hu — a general perception of observant Jews as peaceful and genteel. In some cases they Read the rest of this entry »

You know you had a good time if your stomach hurts

In Essay, Exclusive, Feature, Food, Humor, Kosher, Michael Orbach, News, Photo Essay, Wine, Yeshiva University on November 4, 2009 at 1:00 am

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A reporter’s journey to the inside of Kosherfest

By Michael Orbach
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

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Native Americans have vision quests, college fraternities have hazing, and Jewish reporters have Kosherfest as their rite of initiation. The annual two-day festival highlighting the newest kosher products was held on October 27-28 at the Meadowlands in New Jersey. Before the big day my colleagues gave me strict instructions: wear large pants, don’t bother with a belt and the more pockets the better. Skip dinner the night before, don’t eat breakfast, and if it looks edible, it probably is (or if it’s not, poison control has a booth somewhere at Kosherfest.)
I met up with two old friends before the event: Read the rest of this entry »

Kosher soup kitchen expands to Brooklyn and Queens

In Brooklyn, Charity, Community, Exclusive, Food, Kosher, News on November 3, 2009 at 7:24 pm

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By Michael Orbach
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

Masbia Soup Kitchen, the only kosher soup kitchen in New York, plans to open new branches in Flatbush, Williamsburg and, later, Queens.
“Williamsburgh is the mecca of Jewish poverty,” said Alexander Rapaport, director of Read the rest of this entry »

Letters to the editor 11-6-09

In Letters to the Editor on November 3, 2009 at 6:29 pm

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Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

More on secular college

To the Editor:
I was quite surprised to see the vehemence of the reaction to Rabbi Reuven Spolter’s article criticizing those who send their kids to out of town residential Read the rest of this entry »

Victory at last!

In Sports, West Hempstead, Woodmere on November 3, 2009 at 6:25 pm

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Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770
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The end of the Young Israel Little League season was supposed to be on June 21, not during the Major League’s World Series. However, after an end-of-summer rainout, Read the rest of this entry »

Civil War spy games

In Books, Entertainment, Essay on November 3, 2009 at 6:22 pm

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A review of All Other Nights by Dara Horn

Reviewed by Miriam Bradman Abrahams
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

All Other NightsDara Horn is often asked what makes a book Jewish. It used to mean it was written in Yiddish or Hebrew, she replies. In the U.S. we have one of the largest Jewish communities in history, but we don’t necessarily communicate in a Jewish language. Horn interjects into her writing many ideas and phrases from the prayers and Tanach. She writes about morality, religious and biblical themes. Her latest, All Other Nights, “is not realistic,” she said. Rather, “it is a potboiler about the Civil War, written like a dime store novel with outrageous plot twists similar to some stories in the Torah.”
Jacob Rappaport is a Jewish soldier in the Union Read the rest of this entry »

Parenting through positive reinforcement

In Children, Community, Health, Mayer Fertig, Special Section, Your Health on November 3, 2009 at 6:18 pm

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Classes offered in Hewlett

By Mayer Fertig
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

Ron Markovitz describes himself these days as Mr. Mom. He operates his web design business from home and, as a result, spends more time doing hands-on Read the rest of this entry »

New treatment for common sleep disorder

In Health, Malka Eisenberg, News, Special Section, Your Health on November 3, 2009 at 6:16 pm

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By Malka Eisenberg
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

Health-Sleep_sleeping on sideIf the silence of the night in your home is broken by grating snores from a sleep apnea sufferer, or the whooshing air sound of a CPAP machine commonly used to treat the disorder, you’ll be interested in a new prescription therapy, Provent, now being offered on Long Island.
Over 40 million Americans suffer from obstructive sleep apnea (OSA). It is the most Read the rest of this entry »

Opinion: What is self-esteem really worth?

In Children, Community, Health, Opinion, Special Section, Your Health on November 3, 2009 at 6:12 pm

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By Michael J. Salamon
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770
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I received a call from concerned parents the other day. Their child is not doing well in school and his rebbe and teacher told them that the boy suffers from low self-esteem. As would any caring and involved parents, this couple wants to help and Read the rest of this entry »

Test is a lot to swallow, but worth it

In Community, Health, Malka Eisenberg, News on November 3, 2009 at 6:09 pm

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Invasive exam helps patients get back on solid food

By Malka Eisenberg
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

Michaelle Gorman screens all new admissions at Woodmere Rehabilitation and Health Care Center, evaluating and treating for speech, language and swallowing Read the rest of this entry »

Slice of life: You can make friends with salad

In Food, Recipes on November 3, 2009 at 6:05 pm

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By Eileen Goltz
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

Having a huge salad for lunch or dinner is a good thing. All your nutrition and healthy stuff lumped saladtogether in one bowl topped with a nice vinaigrette or creamy ranch is just about (calories aside, of course) the best meal you can make.  I am a big fan of the Cobb salad. Ok, let me modify that, I really like everything about the concept of a Cobb salad EXCEPT for the blue cheese and the bacon that are Read the rest of this entry »

Parsha: What happens when we assume

In Avi Billet, Torah, Weekly Parsha on November 3, 2009 at 5:59 pm

Parshat Vayera

By Rabbi Avi Billet

Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770
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I always thought the story of Lot’s daughters was not taught in grade school because the material is inappropriate for children.
Reading it again, the initial sentiment still holds true. But an even bigger problem exists: the story makes no logical sense. Zero. Read the rest of this entry »

Only Simchas in the Jewish Star

In Only Simchas on November 3, 2009 at 5:55 pm


 

Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

 

Engagements

Simchas-Goldblatt_Selzer

Tamara Goldblatt & Mike Selze

Engagement of Moshe Axelrod (Brooklyn, NY) & Esty Breban (Brooklyn) — Nov. 1, 2009

Engagement of Yossi Weichbrod (Brooklyn, NY) & Malky Berkowitz (New York, NY) — Nov. 1, 2009
Engagement of Tamara Goldblatt (Monsey, NY) & Mike Selze (Monsey, NY) — Oct. 29, 2009
Engagement of Yanky Rosenberg (Monsey, NY)& Leah Smilovitz (Cleveland, OH) — Oct. 28, 2009
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Nussin Rieber & Miriam Gober

Opinion: But I still haven’t found what I’m looking for

In HAFTR, Hashkafah, Kulanu, Opinion on November 3, 2009 at 5:48 pm

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By Matis Friedman
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770
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I recently took my son to shul in his new jacket, the one that never made it back home. Out of fear of my wife, I’ve been desperately trying to recall in which shul — out of the many I frequent — that the jacket might be in. Last week I went to a shul office to ask if it had turned up there. As I was talking to the receptionist about the missing jacket, I looked down on Read the rest of this entry »

Seidemann: A dash of poetic justice

In David Seidemann, Essay, Humor, Legal, Opinion, Parenting, Shabbos on November 3, 2009 at 5:46 pm

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From the other side of the bench

By David Seidemann

Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

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He’s not even Jewish — Irish Catholic I believe — but he considers himself to be my youngest daughter’s godfather. In fact, they have never met. Oh, he’s seen pictures; I make sure to show him pictures at periodic intervals when we see each other in the courthouse. He is an excellent trial attorney for one of the country’s largest insurance companies. We first met in October Read the rest of this entry »

Micah Halpern: Diplomacy by whining

In Essay, History, Israel, Micah D. Halpern, Muslem, News, Opinion on November 3, 2009 at 5:44 pm

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I’m thinking

By Micah D. Halpern
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770
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The Arabs never miss an opportunity to miss an opportunity.” Israel’s revered statesman, respected diplomat and global thinker Abba Eban — a man intimately familiar with the Arab world and Arab diplomacy — made that observation. And the words ring as Read the rest of this entry »

Toldos Avrohom Yitzchok Rebbe draws blog spotlight to Lawrence

In Charity, Economy, Far Rockaway, Five Towns, Hashkafah, Israel, Mayer Fertig, Media, Money, News, Shabbos, Travel, Zionism on November 3, 2009 at 5:25 pm

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By Mayer Fertig
Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

 

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The Toldos Avrohom Yitzchok Rebbe, Rabbi Shmuel Yaakov Kohn. Photo courtesy of theyeshivaworld.com

In Jerusalem and Beit Shemesh, followers of Rabbi Shmuel Yaakov Kohn, known as the Toldos Avrohom Yitzchok Rebbe, and his brother, Rabbi Dovid Kohn, Toldos Aharon Rebbe, are among those responsible for religiously-motivated vigilante attacks on women, and violent protests against chillul Shabbos (Sabbath desecration) that shocked the Jewish world several months ago.

The two rabbis are crisscrossing the New York-New Jersey region this week seeking funds for their communities with stops scheduled in Flatbush, Monsey, Lakewood and the Five Read the rest of this entry »

Beit Shemesh mayor in Five Towns

In Economy, Five Towns, Israel, Zionism on November 3, 2009 at 3:49 pm


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Speaks to relatives and friends of olim

By Daniella Adler
Issue of November 6 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

It’s an interesting way to reach voters in your Israeli city: visit their family and friends back in the States.
The mayor of Beit Shemesh, Israel and several city officials were in Cedarhurst on Read the rest of this entry »

Election 2009: Kopel unseats Toback in Five Towns race

In Five Towns, Lawrence, Mayer Fertig, News, Politics on November 3, 2009 at 3:14 pm

County Executive and Comptroller races too close to call; Rice wins second term as Nassau D.A.

By Mayer Fertig

Updated Nov. 5, 2009

Legislator-elect Howard Kopel before he was introduced by Coucilman Anthony Santino at Republican Election Headquarters Tuesday night.

Legislator-elect Howard Kopel (left) at Republican Election Night headquarters, before he was introduced by Councilman Anthony Santino (Photo by Christina Daly)

Republican businessman Howard Kopel of Lawrence, running his second political campaign, unseated five-term Democratic Legislator Jeffrey Toback Tuesday night by more than 1100 votes, and tilting Nassau County’s legislature back to Republican control in the process.

“I was here two years ago, but this time is much more fun,” Kopel, 58, said in his victory speech at Republican headquarters in Read the rest of this entry »

Sports: Degel league standings

In Sports on November 3, 2009 at 2:48 pm

DEGEL Standings

Early Division
Team                              Record                PF       PA     Point Diff
Cartridge World          3 – 0                     138     70       68
Carlos and Gabby’s    3 – 0                      93      13        80 Read the rest of this entry »

On the Calendar 11-6-09

In Calendar, News, Shoah/Holocaust on November 3, 2009 at 2:07 pm

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Issue of November 6, 2009/ 19 Cheshvan 5770

Cedarhurst – Five Towns Kristallnacht Commemorative featuring guest speaker Yaakov Gade, noted lecturer on modern anti-Semitism. Tuesday, Nov. 10, 2009 at 7:30 p.m., at Kehillas Bais Yehuda Tzvi — the Read the rest of this entry »

See The Jewish Star as it appears in print 11-6-09

In Cover/Print edition, News on November 3, 2009 at 5:16 am

Reviving Kasztner

In News on October 30, 2009 at 12:14 pm


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By Michael Orbach
Issue of October 30th/ 12 Cheshvan 5770

Rudolph Kasztner may be the greatest hero of the Holocaust. Oscar Schindler himself called Kasztner’s efforts to save Jews “unsurpassed,” but most people have never heard of the man. And many who have think of him as a Nazi collaborator, a man who, in the words of the presiding judge at his 1955 trial, “sold his soul to the devil.”

Gaylen Ross and Zsuzsi Kasztner, Kasztner's daughter

Gaylen Ross and Zsuzsi Kasztner, Kasztner's daughter

Fifty years dead, it wasn’t until Tuesday, Oct. 20, that
Rudolph Kasztner, beleaguered Jewish hero, truly received his due.
The occasion was the screening of Killing Kasztner: The Jew Who Dealt with Nazis, a new documentary by Gaylen Ross, at the YIVO Institute for Jewish Research in Manhattan. Ross, whose earlier work includes Blood Money: Switzerland’s Nazi Gold, spent eight years making the film.
Killing Kasztner is a remarkable work examining Kasztner’s legacy. At the height of the genocide of Hungarian Jewry, when 12,000 Jews were being murdered each day, Kasztner, a Jewish journalist and lawyer, organized a train that carried 1,658 Jews to safety. He also managed to bluff Adolf Eichmann into keeping alive 20,000 Jews in a work camp.
Kasztner’s train of cattle cars rattled out of Budapest in 1944. It stopped at Bergen Belsen, then continued on to Switzerland, loaded with passengers whose lives had been bought for approximately $1,000 a head. The rich paid their own way, and the poor paid nothing, with Kasztner making up the difference with money he collected. The late Satmar Rav, Rabbi Yoel Teitelbaum zt”l, was a passenger. So were young non-religious Zionists. Kasztner’s daughter, Zsuzsi Michaeli, said Kasztner called the train his “Noah’s Ark.”
Rabbi Jacob Jungreis was eleven when he boarded the train with his family. His aunt, who ran an orphanage in Budapest next door to Kasztner’s office, was told by Kasztner to give him the names of orphans. The train, Rabbi Jungreis says, also had a disproportionate number of clergy.
“He [Kasztner] was a secular Zionist, but he felt after the war the Jewish nation needs to be rebuilt and we need the rabbis and sages,” said Rabbi Jungreis, now a Brooklyn rabbi and educator.
Kasztner was modest about his accomplishments.
“I was a product of the circumstance,” Kasztner told a nephew, “and under the circumstance I was a hero.”
After the war Kasztner emigrated to Israel with his wife and young daughter, and was at first lionized as a hero, responsible for the largest single act of salvation during the war. He was also a rising star of the Mapai Socialist party. Malchiel Gruenwald, an elderly self-styled journalist who lost family in the Holocaust, self-published accusations that Kasztner was a Nazi collaborator. The government sued for libel on Kasztner’s behalf. The first days of the trial were a success for Kasztner as his war efforts were retold, but then Gruenwald’s lawyer, Shmuel Tamir, called Kasztner to the stand and interrogated him mercilessly until Kasztner broke down and sobbed. It was revealed that Kasztner had written affidavits for high-ranking Nazis; he was accused of not saving enough Jews; he was accused of knowing about the Holocaust and not doing enough.
“Don’t forget,” Kasztner pleaded, according to Time magazine, “I saved lives that otherwise would have been snuffed out.”
Kasztner asked the Satmar Rav to testify on his behalf. According to Kasztner’s daughter, the Satmar Rav replied, “You didn’t save me. G-d saved me.”
“He didn’t know that G-d sent my father as his messenger,” Zsuzsi said, sadly.
The guilty verdict brought down the Mapai government in the 1955 elections. In 1957, at the age of 51, Kasztner was assassinated by Ze’ev Eckstein, a member of a radical right-wing group. In 1958
Israel’s Supreme Court exonerated Kasztner, but the damage was done.
Killing Kasztner begins with Ze’ev Eckstein, now living free in Jerusalem after serving seven years of a life sentence. Insomuch as the film is about Kasztner, the film’s real protagonist is Eckstein, an elderly Billy Bob Thorton-look alike. He meanders across the film looking for some sort of solace, while at the same time eschewing any guilt for it. He denies his culpability, saying he was just a pawn and then tosses up conspiracy theories about the event like a second shooter.  There is some weight to the theories, as the Shin Bet initially recruited Eckstein and three members of the right wing group were undercover agents, but the film is more concerned with Kasztner’s ostensible guilt, not Eckstein’s very real guilt.
The film by and large exonerates Kasztner by placing his trial in the context of a contemporary Israel. The Mapai government had just negotiated restitution from the Germans and had largely blocked out the right-wing political factions. Gruenwald’s lawyer, Shmuel Tamir, a Yerushalmi who served in the Irgun and later as Menachem Begin’s Justice Minister, wanted to bring down the left wing government; Kasztner was collateral damage. The most damning piece of evidence against Kasztner, the affidavits he wrote for the high ranking Nazis, were written at the behest of the Jewish Agency which needed funding for the fledgling Israeli army, a charge the Jewish Agency denied at the time of the trial.
The filmmaker, Ross, maintains that Kasztner’s exoneration wasn’t her main goal.
“I only propose that there was a context and emotions and passions and history that affected the legacy of this man. I say look at this like a great Shakespearian tragedy that happened in Israel,” explained Ross.
Kasztner was also caught in the nexus of a new Israeli reality, the film maintains. Israel wanted to remember the martyrs of the Warsaw Ghetto, and brave dead soldiers – not negotiators who managed to survive. In the words of a nameless student who appears in the film, you can educate a generation of soldiers on the legacy of Hannah Senesh, the Jewish woman who parachuted behind enemy lines and was killed, but you can’t educate a generation of soldiers on the legacy of Rudolph Kasztner.
Anna Porter, whose 2007 book, Kasztner’s Train: The True Story of an Unknown Hero of the Holocaust, largely agrees with the rehabilitated view of Kasztner. While the train is the best known of Kasztner’s efforts to save lives, was not the only one, she said. Kasztner was also responsible for saving between 14,000 and 20,000 Jews in the Strasshof labor camp.
“People ask why he didn’t do more,” Porter told the Jewish Star. “No one ever asked Schindler why he didn’t do more. The question asked of Schindler is why he did anything at all. There’s a big difference: that Kasztner was a Jew and Schindler’s wasn’t. Of Schindler nothing was expected, of Kasztner vastly more. “
The negative view emerges from a forced truth.
“The word selection keeps on cropping up,” she said referring to Kasztner, “and there a few words more loaded for an audience of Holocaust survivors than ‘selection’ and you know why.”
For the train survivors, who arrived early to the screening in Manhattan last week, many walking with the aid of canes and walkers, and surrounded by children and grand children, there is little doubt about the man. Harry Klein’s father, a rabbi in Hungary, was given scant minutes notice before the train left. He father wrapped all the food on the Shabbos table into the tablecloth and took his family to the train station.
“We didn’t know Kasztner from a hole in the wall,” Klein related, “To us Kasztner is a hero because he saved our lives and 1600 people.”
George Bishop, a manufacturer from Los Angeles, flew in for the premiere
“If Kasztner knew more he could have left in the middle of the night and driven across the border to Romania, but that’s not what he did. Even after his family was in Switzerland he went back again and again and exposed himself to going to concentration camp and pulling people out and saving their lives.”
Rabbi Jungreis has visited the cemetery in Israel where Kasztner is buried.
“I went to his grave and I expressed hakarat hatov, to thank him and say the Kale Malei. I’m very sorry that the tombstone has nothing written on it,” he said.  “We all called him a Tzaddik. Of course, when you can save a certain number of people, the other hundreds got upset and accused him of false accusations. It is utter nonsense. If you have a $100,00 to give tzedakah you can’t give a million.”
He said that they would have testified on Kasztner’s behalf had they been aware of it.
“I don’t know if I’d seen Kasztner as a friend,” explained Emmanuel Mandel, who was eight-years-old when he rode Kasztner’s train, “but it was the arrogance and the chutzpah that made it possible for him to negotiate with Eichmann; the kind of arrogance to go into the Majestic Hotel and face Eichmann in Budapest. That tells you something. The man had clear notions of wanting to help.”
Zsuzsi Michaeli, who was hugged by survivors at the screening, hopes the lesson of her father is understood. “You don’t die honorably. You just die. It’s against Judaism. Life is above Shabbos; life is above Yom Kippur. We were given life,” she explained. “You can be a hero without a gun.”
Gaylen Ross says Kasztner’s story raises a far more troubling point, one that is anathema to the Jewish community.
“It’s all about Jewish rescue. That’s at the heart of it. It’s taken so long for Jewish rescue to be honored and noted. It’s a different element when it’s a Jew rescuing other Jews. What does it say about the rest of the Jews? “
In an early scene, Ross attempts to visit the only memorial for Kasztner: a small patch of trees dedicated to him in a Tel Aviv forest. Ross and a bemused caretaker are unable to locate the trees and instead find a bald clearing. At the film’s close, Yad Vashem finally agrees to accept Kasztner’s archive, and there is a small memorial to him in the museum, narrated by Kasztner’s granddaughter Merav Michaeli, a popular Israeli television host.
The final scene of the documentary is of Eckstein, Kasztner’s killer, walking away with his back to the camera. A voice-over of Eckstein begins. He is speaking about a play by John Paul Sartre that he once read.
“People put in hell that start to tell each other stories and the hell is that they keep on retelling the [same] story. They cannot stop telling the story. They cannot escape and there is no liberation. This is hell.”
The Jewish community will once again have to tell Kasztner’s story; it is a story that must be told about what it means to be a hero and what it means to be a hero of circumstance. It is a story that must be told and told again until we finally accept what it means. Killing Kasztner is not the end of Rudolph Kasztner’s legacy, but this flawless documentary is a very wise place to begin.

Killing Kasztner’s will be shown, beginning November 6th, at the Kew Gardens Cinema.

Opinion: The Post-Shidduch Crisis

In Avi Billet, Community, Essay, In My View, Opinion, Parenting, Politics on October 27, 2009 at 8:48 pm

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By Rabbi Avi Billet

Issue of October 30th/ 12 Cheshvan 5770

Billet, Avi_headshotOur community has a lot to say about the “shidduch crisis.” First, we blame the singles themselves. Why can’t young people date like we did? Why can’t they meet people in normal ways? Why can’t they have social functions like we had? Why can’t they get over Read the rest of this entry »

Running, shooting and scoring for charities

In Charity, Economy, News, Sports on October 27, 2009 at 8:05 pm

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Sports as the new fundraising

By Michelle Bortnik

Issue of October 30 2009/ 12 Cheshvan 5770

Martin Bodek had been running the NYC Marathon for 13 years when he finally ran out of steam. Then Derek Saker, director of communications for OHEL Children’s Home and Family Services, approached him and suddenly Read the rest of this entry »

On the Calendar 10-30-09

In Calendar on October 27, 2009 at 5:50 pm

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Issue of October 30 2009/ 12 Cheshvan 5770

Cedarhurst – The JCC of the Greater Five Towns Kosher Culinary Institute presents Japanese cooking with Chef Cynthia Legaspi on Wednesday, Read the rest of this entry »

Letters to the Editor 10-30-09

In Education, Letters to the Editor, Parenting on October 27, 2009 at 5:22 pm

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Issue of October 30 2009/ 12 Cheshvan 5770

Fair shake for secular college

To the Editor:

As a father of two high school yeshiva girls I would like to point out something Rabbi Spolter missed in his column on sending our kids to secular colleges (The elephant in the room; Oct. 16, 2009). My family spent Read the rest of this entry »

Editorial: A very difficult decision (Endorsement)

In Editorial, Mayer Fertig, Politics on October 27, 2009 at 5:20 pm

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Issue of October 30 2009/ 12 Cheshvan 5770

Here’s a surprising fact you may not know: it doesn’t actually matter for whom you vote on Election Day, on Tuesday, November 3. Not at all. What Read the rest of this entry »

Slice of life: Ginger, the spice, not the actress

In Food, Kosher, Recipes on October 27, 2009 at 5:20 pm

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Slice of life

By Eileen Goltz

Issue of October 30 2009/ 12 Cheshvan 5770

As I sat there on the sofa, watching a little TV, trying to figure out what to make for dinner I turned to my husband and said, “So, tell me, what do you think about ginger?” He replied without missing a beat or even looking at me, “Not much, I guess I was always a Mary Ann kind of guy”. So much for my Gilligan helping Read the rest of this entry »

The Kosher Bookworm: Two legacies worthy of your attention

In Alan Jay Gerber, Environment, Exclusive, Kosher Bookworm on October 27, 2009 at 3:48 pm

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The Kosher Bookworm

By Alan Jay Gerber

Issue of October 30 2009/ 12 Cheshvan 5770

Alan Jay GerberJust when I thought that all that had to be recorded on Sefer Bereishit was now safely behind us, along comes two new works Read the rest of this entry »

An author any mother could be proud of

In Entertainment, Essay, Exclusive, Media, News on October 27, 2009 at 2:37 pm

A review of the Last Ember and Daniel Levin

By Miriam Bradman Abrahams

Issue of October 30 2009/ 12 Cheshvan 5770
LastEmber_coverA series of coincidences led me to realize I was destined to meet Daniel Levin, author of the new novel, The Lost Ember. It began when I mistakenly received an uncorrected proof of the book in the mail meant for Read the rest of this entry »

Two good deeds for the price of one

In Entertainment, Malka Eisenberg, News on October 27, 2009 at 2:27 pm

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By Malka Eisenberg

Issue of October 30 2009/ 12 Cheshvan 5770

A unique program at Woodmere Rehabilitation and Health Care Center combines the commandment of visiting the sick (bikur cholim) with the Read the rest of this entry »

Halpern: History of nations

In I'm Thinking, Micah D. Halpern, News, Opinion on October 27, 2009 at 2:23 pm

I’m thinking

By Micah D. Halpern

Issue of October 30 2009/ 12 Cheshvan 5770

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Like family lore, the history of a nation is handed down from generation to generation. In families, personalities and stories are turned into larger than life figures and events. Nation’s take it a step farther. The history of a nation is grounded in myth, in Read the rest of this entry »

Seidemann: Modern spiritual conveniences

In David Seidemann, Opinion, Parenting on October 27, 2009 at 2:20 pm

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From the other side of the bench

By David Seidemann

Issue of October 30 2009/ 12 Cheshvan 5770

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My children probably will not like this article, and from hearing many of the conversations with their friends I would imagine they would not be alone. I can’t begin to tell you how many Read the rest of this entry »

A pillar of salt (and pepper)

In Entertainment, News on October 27, 2009 at 2:15 pm

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LOT shakersIssue of October 30 2009/ 12 Cheshvan 5770

Just in time to discuss Parshat Vayera at the Shabbat table next week, these Read the rest of this entry »

Parshat Lech Lecha: “Three” is one opinion

In Avi Billet, Hashkafah, News, Opinion, Torah, Weekly Parsha on October 27, 2009 at 2:04 pm

By Rabbi Avi Billet

Issue of October 30 2009/ 12 Cheshvan 5770

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On my children’s bookshelf there is a book entitled “A Little Boy Named Avram.” The book follows one of the midrashic interpretations that suggests little Avram lived in a cave as a child Read the rest of this entry »

Back from Iraq, HANC alum returns

In Hebrew Academy of Nassau County (HANC), Media, News on October 27, 2009 at 12:40 pm

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Private Yosef Salzbank speaks about Jewish life in the army

By Michael Orbach

Issue of October 30 2009/ 12 Cheshvan 5770

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Private Yosef Salzbank speaking to students.

An unusual alumnus returned to HANC High School this past Wednesday.

Private 1st Class Yosef Salzbank, a 2002 graduate who enlisted in the United States Army 18 months ago, gave a moving, often hilarious, talk about what it’s like to be an Orthodox Jew in the American military.

“Soldiers come from places where they’ve never seen a religious Jew,” Read the rest of this entry »

Challah biz rises in Far Rockaway

In Exclusive, Far Rockaway, Five Towns, Food, Kosher, Mayer Fertig, News, Parenting, Shabbat, Shabbos on October 27, 2009 at 10:07 am

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Father of four makes bread out of lemons

Fresh challahBy Mayer Fertig

Issue of October 30 2009/ 12 Cheshvan 5770

The first and most important thing you need to know about Laizer Solash’s challah is that it really is as good as his friends and customers say it is: doughy and satisfying in a way that means if you indulge too many times in the urge for just one more slice, you might not have room for the rest of the meal.

Solash, 36, of Far Rockaway, began baking challah for sh’lom bayit purposes, you might Read the rest of this entry »

See The Jewish Star as it appears in print 10-30-09

In Cover/Print edition, News on October 27, 2009 at 9:12 am

Elder Rabbi Kamenetzky injured in fall [UPDATE]

In Exclusive, Five Towns, Hewlett, Mayer Fertig, News, Yeshiva of South Shore on October 22, 2009 at 7:50 pm

Suffered blow to head; some effects linger

By Mayer Fertig / TheJewishStar.com

Nov. 23, 2009 / 5 Cheshvan 5770

Rabbi Binyamin Kamenetzky

Rabbi Binyamin Kamenetzky

Rabbi Binyamin Kamenetzky, founder of Yeshiva of South Shore and many other Five Towns institutions, is hospitalized in stable condition and described as “recovering.”

He suffered a fall and a blow to the head at the Sephardic shul on Peninsula Boulevard in Cedarhurst. He was there to borrow a Sefer Torah for the  minyan for Sefardi boys held in the yeshiva on Rosh Chodesh.

“He went to get a Sefer Torah from Read the rest of this entry »

Editorial: Maybe they’ll listen to these guys

In Editorial, Israel on October 21, 2009 at 10:24 pm

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wo remarkable things happened this week. Two men whose credentials cannot possibly be impeached by the lunatic left stepped forward in defense of Israel and its principled conduct of the war in Gaza.
A former commander of British forces in Afghanistan, Col. Richard Kemp, told a special session of the United Nation’s  Human Rights Council that the Israeli military “did more to safeguard the rights of civilians in a combat zone than any other army in the history of warfare.”
Since its recent inception the Human Rights Council has ignored myriad human rights crises around the globe, instead busily criticizing Israel.
“Hamas, like Hizballah, are expert at driving the media agenda,” Kemp said. “Both will always have people ready to give interviews condemning Israeli forces for war crimes. They are adept at staging and distorting incidents.”
“It is the automatic, Pavlovian presumption by many in the international media, and international human rights groups, that the IDF are in the wrong, that they are abusing human rights.”
“The truth is that the IDF took extraordinary measures to give Gaza civilians notice of targeted areas, dropping over 2 million leaflets, and making over 100,000 phone calls. Many missions that could have taken out Hamas military capability were aborted to prevent civilian casualties. During the conflict, the IDF allowed huge amounts of humanitarian aid into Gaza. To deliver aid virtually into your enemy’s hands is, to the military tactician, normally quite unthinkable. But the IDF took on those risks.”
“Despite all of this, of course innocent civilians were killed. War is chaos and full of mistakes,” Kemp said. “But mistakes are not war crimes.”
Israel’s defenders have been making similar statements for many months, but perhaps someone of Kemp’s stature will be impossible to ignore.
For Human Rights Watch, Robert L. Bernstein should be impossible to ignore. He co-founded the group and was its chair for 20 years until 1998.
In a New York Times Op-Ed Bernstein wrote that his former colleagues have “lost critical perspective on a conflict in which Israel has been repeatedly attacked by Hamas and Hezbollah, organizations that go after Israeli citizens and use their own people as human shields.”
The original mission of HRW, Bernstein said, was “to pry open closed societies, advocate basic freedoms and support dissenters. But recently it has been issuing reports on the Israeli-Arab conflict that are helping those who wish to turn Israel into a pariah state.”
The organization “casts aside its important distinction between open and closed societies,” issuing “far more condemnations of Israel for violations of international law than of any other country in the region.”
Israel, population 7.4 million, “is home to at least 80 human rights organizations, a vibrant free press, a democratically-elected government [and] a judiciary that frequently rules against the government,” the former human rights watcher pointed out.
His successors “know that Hamas [chose] to wage war from densely populated areas … yet Israel, the repeated victim of aggression, faces the brunt of [the] criticism,” Bernstein said.
Do you suppose anyone is listening?
Issue of Oct. 23, 2009 / 5 Cheshvan 5770

Two remarkable things happened this week. Two men whose credentials cannot possibly be impeached by the lunatic left stepped forward in defense of Israel and Read the rest of this entry »

Seidemann: Parenting, personally

In David Seidemann, Opinion on October 21, 2009 at 10:19 pm

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I don’t know if  G-d is a Democrat or a Republican. But one thing I do know for sure is G-d is not a Socialist, a Communist or a Fascist. He does not believe in totalitarianism. G-d does not believe that what is good for one is good for all. In theory and in practice, we are all supposed to comport ourselves along the same highway. But the individual lane that we drive in, the speed at which we operate and the stops we make along the way all are to be tailored to the individual.
It always struck me as odd that the response to the generation that embarked on the building of the Tower of Bavel, was to disperse them across the face of the earth. Not wanting to run out of ideas, G-d could have visited a flood upon earth like he did in the times of Noah or 10 plagues like he did in the times of Pharaoh.
There is much debate between Talmudic scholars as to what precisely were the intentions of the tower builders. Some posit that their intention was to poke a hole in the clouds so that rainwater would gradually fall to the earth, obviating the possibility of a destructive flood in response to future sins. Other Talmudic scholars advance the theory that the tower builders intended to pierce the heavens so that rain would fall freely at their request and not as result of G-d’s decision. This would allow them to either sin without fear of retribution or to control the climate without G-d’s involvement. Other rabbis argue that their intention was to build a tower so high that the rulers of Babel would be able to see worldwide and thus control the movements of all individuals.
In any event, the common denominator seems to be centralized power, the idea of not having to answer to any higher authority and treating everyone the same. G-d realized the inherent danger in such a society. If everyone were to think exactly alike, or if everyone was forced to think exactly alike, there would be no check and balance system. As soon as the powers that be would impose their point of view they would be free to act with impunity.
Dissenters would either not exist or would be afraid to raise their voice in opposition and the misguided views of the ruling faction would permeate the entire world. As such, G-d’s response to the generation of Bavel’s planned tower of communism, socialism, fascism, totalitarianism and atheism was right on the mark. The only possible solution was to disperse them worldwide which resulted in them focusing on problems, ideas, and circumstances germane to their locale. Soon each had individual needs based on their respective individual climates, and sources of food and energy. The tower builders developed different philosophies, languages and beliefs based on their lifestyles.
The only appropriate response to the tower was to create a situation where what was good for one was not good for the other. Man therefore could not control the weather worldwide and the economy. Differing ideas and a robust exchange of dissenting views is necessary and appropriate in order for any society to function in a manner where the best of mankind is creating the best for mankind.
The same mindset is true not only for governments and countries, but also for families. What is good for one child is not necessarily good for the next. The easy way to parent is to treat all children the same — lump them all in the same category and address your children’s needs as those of a collective bunch. Such an approach might create a great family but will not create great individual children. When those children leave the house to marry and create children of their own they will not possess the individual talent to create individuals with talent.
A common refrain I hear from my children is that,  “It’s not fair to me.” My response, which I believe is correct, is always that it might not be fair to you, but it is fair for you. Getting to know your children’s individual strengths and weaknesses, likes and dislikes, and individual personalities, is one of the most challenging, yet rewarding, facets of parenthood. I come from a family of eight children and my parents, in addition to taking out time for themselves, would make it a point of taking each one of us for our own individual trip to the local ice cream parlor. The owners of the ice cream parlor must’ve thought my parents were operating an orphanage — showing up every other day with a different child. Nevertheless the lesson to us as their children was a most important one.
A woman from Jerusalem was in Tel Aviv recently when she went into labor with her 14th child. After the delivery the doctor turned to her and asked, “Was it really necessary to have all 14?” His comment was half in jest but nevertheless touched a nerve in the woman. She immediately called her eldest daughter in Jerusalem and asked her to bring her 12 other siblings to the hospital in Tel Aviv. Somehow, she was able to sneak all of them into the hospital. Dressed in their finest clothing they stood surrounding her bed. She paged the doctor to her room, and as he gazed at all 14 children, the 13 standing around her bed and the one newborn in her arm, the woman asked the doctor, “Which one should I not have had?”
The summer has passed and chalkboards have replaced skateboards. The bicycles have been put away in the shed with the bats and balls. Our children will be spending a lot more time in the home. What a wonderful opportunity to get to know them as individuals.
David Seidemann is a partner with the law firm of Seidemann & Mermelstein.  He can be reached at (718) 692-1013 and at ds@lawofficesm.com.

From the other side of the bench

David Seidemann

By David Seidemann

Issue of Oct. 23, 2009 / 5 Cheshvan 5770

I don’t know if  G-d is a Democrat or a Republican. But one thing I do know for sure is G-d is not a Socialist, a Communist or a Fascist. He does not believe in totalitarianism. G-d does not believe that what is good for one is good for all. In theory and in practice, we are all Read the rest of this entry »

Canaan, son of Cham

In Avi Billet, Opinion, Torah, Weekly Parsha on October 21, 2009 at 6:38 pm

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Parshat Noach

By Rabbi Avi Billet

Issue of Oct. 23, 2009 / 5 Cheshvan 5770

Rabbi Avi Billet In 7:7, Noach and his wife, along with his three sons and their wives, entered the ark. The Ba’al Haturim points out in 2:21 that the word “vayisgor” — and he closed — appears only twice in the Torah. We read the first one last week when G-d Read the rest of this entry »

Snap into a slim yid

In Kosher, Michael Orbach, News on October 21, 2009 at 6:16 pm

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Holy cow! Kosher beef jerky

By Michael Orbach

Issue of Oct. 23, 2009 / 5 Cheshvan 5770

KosherSalamisBolognasChubsBeefJerky-HolyCowKosher153BeefJerkyOriginal_zoom_image1_41361 The owners of the first nationally available kosher beef jerky have no bones with being known as “kosher.”

“We wanted a little bit of holiness in the name,”  explained Gabi Harkham, the co-founder of Holy Cow Kosher which produces Holy Cow Kosher Beef Jerky. “We’re not afraid of being kosher. Kosher is part of our brand name and we have a beis-samach-daled on our packages. It helps the brand, more non-Jews purchase kosher Read the rest of this entry »

Halpern: Taste of their own medicine

In I'm Thinking, Micah D. Halpern, News, Opinion on October 21, 2009 at 4:20 pm

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Iran’s Revolutionary Guard is the most feared of all the authoritative arms within the Iranian regime; it is Iran’s elite fighting force. So when a suicide bomber successfully targets and kills six guard members gathered together in an automobile, you know there will be significant ramifications.
The death toll has reached 35; the number of wounded tops sixty. The dead and wounded are from provinces far beyond the southeast Iranian town in which the bombing took place. The Iranian leadership is angry. And they are embarrassed.
According to IRNA, the official Iranian News Agency, two of the Iranian Revolutionary Guard members killed in the bombing were very high-level officers. General Noor Ali Shooshtari was the deputy commander of the Guard’s ground force and Rajabali Mohammadzadeh was the Guard’s chief provincial commander. With them in the car were other senior commanders.
This attack sent a dagger deep into the very heart of the Iranian leadership. It was daring and it was successful.  It has had much more of an impact than any other act heretofore perpetrated against the established leadership.  Iranian President Ahmadinejad responded to the news by saying, “the criminals who committed these crimes against humanity will be seriously dealt with.” Crimes against humanity, those were the words chosen by the president of one of the most oppressive, dictatorial regimes in the world today.
The Iranian National Guard, at a lost to explain how an act of this type was not only planned but successfully perpetrated, laid the blame at the feet of the United States. “Surely foreign elements, particularly those linked to the global arrogance, were involved in this attack,” they said. The term “global arrogance” is Iranian-speak for the United States. According to another Iranians news agency, FARS, the Iranian Defense Ministry came out with an even bolder statement, claiming that the “terrorists” were supported by, “the Great Satan America and its ally Britain.”
That the Iranians responded by blaming the United States and even Great Britain is neither surprising nor unexpected.  What is surprising and totally inappropriate is that the US State Department felt a need to respond. Ian Kelly, State Department spokesperson, said, “We condemn this act of terrorism and mourn the loss of innocent lives. Reports of alleged US involvement are completely false.”
Of course the United States was not involved. Why the disclaimer? Why give credibility to an outlandish, preposterous, accusation? Why allow Iranian leadership to save face in a situation in which no outside force could have possibly been involved?
Iran knows that there is barely a CIA presence in Iran and whatever presence there is could not pull off a mission of this kind. And everyone knows that the United States does not run suicide bombers. Why get into the mud and dignify the accusations with a response?
This mission required excellent intel and excellent planning. The use of a suicide bomber insured that the bomb got as close to the target as possible. This has all the markings of a Sunni attack. It was probably the work of serious anti-Iranian anti-Shiite units with experience in Iraq fighting Shiites. It was probably the work of an al Qaeda affiliate.
That certainly puts a different spin on the event. A spin Iranian leadership does not want to acknowledge but will certainly avenge.
Micah D. Halpern is a columnist and a social and political commentator. Read his latest book THUGS. He maintains The Micah Report at www.micahhalpern.com

I’m thinking

By Micah D. Halpern
Issue of Oct. 23, 2009 / 5 Cheshvan 5770

Iran’s Revolutionary Guard is the most feared of all the authoritative arms within the Iranian regime; it is Iran’s elite fighting force. So when a suicide bomber Read the rest of this entry »

Letters to the editor 10-23-09

In Education, Letters to the Editor on October 21, 2009 at 4:13 pm

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The real elephant in the room
To the Editor:
As a former president of Yavneh, Columbia University’s Orthodox Jewish community, and on behalf of the vast majority of frum Orthodox Jews who did attend secular college, I take deep offense to Rabbi Reuven Spolter’s myopic and vitriolic words (The elephant in the room; In My View; Oct. 16, 2009). Those who Spolter offended include great rabbis from the Soloveitchik, Twerski, Lichtenstein and other dynasties.
Spolter’s anecdotal evidence for his condemnation of secular college, e.g. “girl sits down on your lap during orientation,” “open support of binge drinking,” and poor statistics point more to his lack of attendance at a secular university and ignorance of students’ actual experiences, than his concern for our children.
At any secular college, the former behavior is more than just a “Shmirat Negi’ah” issue; it is sexual assault. The latter behavior is prevented by tight regulations, including the ban of alcohol in dormitories with students under the age of 21.  Additionally, how I was never surveyed by Avi Chai for such a statistic is baffling.
Perhaps Spolter, who only attended Yeshiva University, would disregard his fears of the “risks” of Hillel and Orthodox communities if he attended any of the 15 weekly shiurim, 6 daily minyanim, Shabbatot and yamim tovim, and many visits by Roshei Yeshiva at Columbia. Perhaps he would understand the “benefits” of secular college if he were affiliated with a secular university.  Secular college isn’t right for everyone. But it can’t be that a categorical ban on secular college suits the needs of every Orthodox Jewish family.
Jonathan Berliner
Columbia College ‘09,
Washington
1 out of 4 really?
To the Editor:
So here is the crux of Reuven Spolter’s argument (Elephant in the room; In My View; Oct. 16, 2009): because some poll shows that 1 out of every 4 Orthodox kids at secular college “chang[e] their denominational identity” while at college, no one should go. The other seventy-five percent should stay home. No Harvard, Yale or Columbia. They should shut themselves off and associate with their own kind at the ever-rightward shifting YU and already rightist Lander. Or better yet, they should go to Israel. (I’d like to see that poll, the one that surveys Modern Orthodox kids who spend the year in Israel after high school. How many of them change their affiliation after that experience?)
Modern Orthodox parents encourage their kids to go to secular residential colleges, because, quite frankly, they offer the best education possible, an education that is not matched by YU or Lander. Modern Orthodox yeshivot do their part by directing kids to schools with large Jewish populations that offer kosher facilities. There are many, particularly in the Northeast. Most kids do just fine there (seventy-five percent, apparently); it is the exception rather than the rule that a student finds the atmosphere completely unpalatable. Far from an intolerance of “xenophobic tribalism”, most schools embrace diversity, and most students are only too willing to embrace those who are different. Only the feeble-minded and religiously insecure could find it impossible to exist on a Northeastern college campus where the Jewish population often exceeds twenty-five percent, an Orthodox minyan is on campus or nearby, and kosher food is readily available in the dining hall.
The average school is usually willing to accommodate any residential requests, particularly if they are necessary religiously. And for the record, though I went to one of the most liberal schools in the country, no one sat on my lap during orientation, I never binge drank or felt compelled to, and the college did not sponsor “promiscuous parties” or force anyone to attend the parties they did sponsor.
There is no elephant in this room. The elephant in Rabbi Spolter’s article is his extreme, glass-half-empty view, whereas I, and I think most people, would look at a seventy-five percent retention rate and be overjoyed.
It’s silly, dangerous, and unfair to suggest that three quarters of Orthodox Jews deny themselves the superior education that they worked hard for because the other twenty-five percent change their denominational affiliation when they are between the ages of 18 and 21, an act that is almost certainly more a product of an inferior elementary and secondary education than the result of the permissive atmosphere that sometimes prevails during college. It is so silly, that one wonders whether the real motive here is to drum up support for yeshivot failing today because of the recent economic crisis, yeshivot that are by and large not Modern Orthodox.
Michael Brenner
Woodmere
Lying figures
To the Editor:
I read “The elephant in the room” (In My View; Oct. 16, 2009) with great interest as my son plans to go to college this September. He is currently studying in a yeshiva in Eretz Yisrael. His Rosh Yeshiva did his undergraduate work at Brandeis and went on to do graduate work at Oxford. Then there were some famous rabbis who studied before the war at the University of Berlin — Rabbi Soloveitchik, Rav Hutner and others.
I am not going to knock Yeshiva University or Touro but neither institution has the space to accept all students and no one will tell you that they are going elsewhere because they were not accepted. In addition, there are many subjects that are not offered by the Jewish colleges. Finally, there is a growing fundamentalism and conformity in the Jewish colleges, which does not encourage intellectual growth.
Figures don’t lie but liars figure. The drop out rate may be higher for reasons of self-selection. Some of the students who attend secular colleges may be looking for an opportunity to drop out; some may find their way back, stronger than before. Should parents be aware of potential problems? Yes, of course. But each child is different and there is no one-size-fits-all solution. As for me, though my son was accepted into the honors program at YU, he is planning, with my blessings, to follow the footsteps of his Rosh Yeshiva at Brandeis.
Rabbi David A. Willig
Staten Island
Peak of interest
To the Editor:
Please convey to Miriam Wallach that Ricky Adler shares her love of the English language and congratulates her on her column in this week’s Jewish Star (That’s Life; Oct. 16, 2009). As Miriam is a stickler for correct English, and a lover of the English language, she must be aware that one’s interest is “piqued”, not “peaked” as she wrote of her appreciation of the “On Language” column by William Safire.
I wonder if my daughters who were all her students will notice the error. She was, by the way, one of the best English teachers they ever had.
Ricky Holder Adler
Cedarhurst

Issue of Oct. 23, 2009 / 5 Cheshvan 5770

The real elephant in the room

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As a former president of Yavneh, Columbia University’s Orthodox Jewish community, and on behalf of the vast majority of frum Orthodox Jews who did Read the rest of this entry »

That’s Life by Miriam L. Wallach

In Food, Humor, Kosher, Miriam L. Wallach, That's Life, Your Health on October 21, 2009 at 4:00 pm

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Issue of Oct. 23, 2009 / 5 Cheshvan 5770

Dear That’s Life,
As a self-declared foodie I often read recipes, kosher and not kosher, simply because they are printed in my cooking magazines and I find them interesting. While many of the recipes sound very interesting simply because of the combination of ingredients or the flavor profiles, there are certain things I would never have any interest in trying. Shrimp, for example, is one of those foods I would never eat regardless of dietary restrictions because the mere idea that shrimp recipes require you to ‘de-vein’ the shrimp before cooking is enough of a turnoff.
That being said, I don’t think ‘remove membranes and connective tissue’ should be instructions in a recipe for kosher food either. Again, there’s that ‘turnoff factor’ I was just mentioning. Yet, while making sweetbreads for the first time, each recipe I read reminded me to do just that. (No — that wasn’t a typo: I really made sweetbreads in 2009. Will all the cardiologists please stop cringing?)
Searching for guidance before beginning this project, I turned to the Internet. Each time I typed ‘sweetbreads recipe’ into the Google search bar, I was asked the following question, bolded and italicized: Did you mean sweetbreads? Well, yes I did, you judgmental search engine. And if I wanted to hear about just how bad they are for you, there are plenty of people I could have called.
And actually, I did. There were basically two reactions I received when I called some close friends of Eastern European extraction who I thought could help me. Someone had to have a mother or grandmother who made sweetbreads before catch phrases like ‘BMI’ or ‘angioplasty’ came into vogue. Reactions to my project went one of two ways: either it was, “I LOVE sweetbreads!” or, with disdain and mild disgust in their voice, it was “You’re making sweetbreads?” I could almost see their facial expressions as the words came out of their mouths. And despite their reactions, their advice was minimal.
Yet, I was determined to make them and not just because the money had already been spent and the package was in my house. Ever get something into your head that you just have to do regardless of how crazy or inane it might be? Well, this was one of those things.
I went through every heimish cookbook I had — ones that included margarine as a food group or a dozen eggs for a kugel. My friend did the same. No luck. I even pulled out a Hadassah cookbook circa 1930s that belonged to my grandmother, filled with her handwritten notes, and still came up empty. Her liver sauté recipe was in there, another cardiac favorite, but no sweetbreads. Then one of my friends called back.
“It’s in The Kosher Palate,” she said, and gave me the page number. Well, duh, I thought — it all comes back to Susie. Why didn’t I just think of that in the first place? What were the chances that Susie Fishbein had not already perfected and published a foolproof and user-friendly recipe for sweetbreads? I should have known better. Like my Webster’s Dictionary, it’s the place I should have turned to first. Of course, like Susie, there’s a note in the margin as to how to dust the plates with herbs to present the sweetbreads in an attractive manner. That made me smile — because at the end of the day, I just cooked part of a cow’s brain and am planning to serve it to my family. All the garnish in the world is not going to change that.
MLW
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Dear That’s Life,
As a self-declared foodie I often read recipes, kosher and not kosher, simply because they are printed in my cooking magazines and I find them interesting. While many of the recipes sound very interesting simply because of the combination of ingredients or the Read the rest of this entry »

The Kosher Bookworm: Continued new beginnings

In Alan Jay Gerber, Kosher Bookworm, Media, News on October 21, 2009 at 3:56 pm

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Alan Jay Gerber

Every year at this time our thoughts go back in time to an age of antiquity that beckons us to ponder the true meaning of what ”beginnings” are really all about. This is forced upon us by the mandate of our Jewish calendar and the annual reading of the Torah, a reading, as we all know, that both terminates and begins anew at this time of year.
The novelty of having to rewind our theological clock and leap back in time from Moshe at the shores of the Jordan to the very beginning of creation itself has no parallel in any other belief system. This novelty forces us to revisit and interpret events and ideas that have come to define our reasons for existence and help us refine our recognition of the rulership of G-d through his example as the Creator.
We accomplish this by the many commentaries that seem to flow endlessly from the minds of our spiritual and communal leaders. These commentaries on the Bible, starting with Genesis, help sharpen our appreciation of the text and the motivations of the characters whose lives play out annually before us.
This year is no different.
Over one hundred fifty years ago Rabbi Meir Leibush Malbim (1809-1879) wrote his commentary on the Bible in the span of thirty years. The commentary was an instant success, accepted by all sectors of Jewry for its clarity in helping readers understand the links between the written and oral law.
To date, there had been only one attempt to render the Malbim’s work into English, that of Zvi Faier’s 1978 work, published by Hillel Press in Jerusalem. In “The Essential Malbim; Flashes of Insight on Genesis” [Artscroll, 2009], edited by Rabbi Mendel Weinbach and adapted by Rabbi Reuven Subar, the Malbim again appears in English, this time in a shorter anthologized format based upon selected verses and themes.
In his introduction, Rabbi Weinbach details a brief biography of the Malbim. One historical note unknown by many was that the Malbim declined two very distinguished positions, one as the successor to Rabbi Akiva Eiger and the other as the chief rabbi of New York City.
This book consists of an adaptation of the Malbim’s commentary into a series of very well written essays that are each concise in both form and style. Each essay is anchored by a specific verse in the original Hebrew with English translation, followed by a short essay. Unfortunately, this work does not contain an index of any sort, nor is there any acknowledgement of the prior English translation noted at the beginning of this essay. That is most unfortunate.
The next work is a translation of a very special and popular work with the unusual title, “Aleinu L’Shabei’ach” on Genesis [Artscroll, 2009]. This work is based upon conversations with Rabbi Yitzchok Zilberstein, a son-in-law of Rabbi Yosef Shalom Elyashiv shlita, and compiled by Rabbi Moshe Zoren.
The book contains stories of great rabbis and poskim as well as simple folk as they relate to each parsha’s text and themes. Each chapter begins with a pasuk [verse] from the parsha and is followed with a story told in a style reminiscent of the Dubner Magid, wherein rabbis and plain simple people are set up as examples of conduct from which the reader comes away with a lesson on mussar and chesed.
In the original Hebrew version this work proved to be very popular and its translation into English was awaited by many for whom the original was too daunting to read. This work represents a classic example of how our Torah text can be expanded to represent a work that transcends simple commentary and serves as a valuable educational tool to teach Jewish ethics both to our youth and ourselves.
In contrast, the next book reflects a more cosmopolitan approach to the Book of Genesis. Titled, “The Beginning of Wisdom: Reading Genesis” [Free Press, 2003] by Dr. Leon Kass, this book recasts the original text into a contemporary mold. Kass serves as the narrator retelling every chapter of the sacred text as history, morality, philosophy and analysis, as well as probing the inner motivations of the characters in each episode.
In many respects this book reads like a commentary, helping to explain to the reader the inner meanings and motivations the text is trying to teach us. Despite the book’s fancy and sophisticated style, this is a traditional interpretation of an ancient work. The author, a professor of social thought and an expert on bioethics, clearly accepts the literal interpretation of Genesis as well as the historical nature of the Torah.
Considering the background of the author, and his spiritual journey to traditional Judaism from his prominent role as chair of the President’s Council on Bioethics during the Bush Administration, one would find it most remarkable for him to have written so detailed and comprehensive a book (it is 700 pages in length) in so lucid a style. This book is a great read and an excellent addition to anyone’s library.
I would like to conclude with the following by theologian Rabbi Dr. Nathan Lopez Cardozo, who in a recent essay noting the nature of the Torah reading cycle made this astute observation:
“This could be the purpose of the Torah reading in a synagogue. It is not conventional Torah learning but, rather, somewhat of a wake-up call. It has a therapeutic function by which man needs to be shocked by the text before he even has a chance to get used to its deeper content. And although he has read it for years before, the fact that the story appears again an entire year later, and no earlier, gives him a chance to forget it and then rediscover it as never before. In this way, it remains fresh and continues to amaze the reader with its multiple possibilities and its grand image.”
By Alan Jay Gerber
Issue of Oct. 23, 2009 / 5 Cheshvan 5770

Every year at this time our thoughts go back in time to an age of antiquity that beckons us to ponder the true meaning of what ”beginnings” are really all about. This is forced upon us by the Read the rest of this entry »

Prodigious Nobel

In Cedarhurst, East Hills, Five Towns, Opinion, Politics on October 21, 2009 at 3:51 pm

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by Dr. Michael Salamon
Issue of Oct. 23, 2009 / 5 Cheshvan 5770

Michael J. Salamon

A prodigy is someone with exceptional talents that are usually recognized at an early age. Prodigy is a word that can also be used to describe a rare or extraordinary event. The origin of the word, however, comes from the Latin prodigium which is Read the rest of this entry »

Churchill’s Jewish Deportees

In Anti-semitism, Essay, History on October 21, 2009 at 3:48 pm

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Richard Sonnenfeldt, who passed away earlier this month, had the rare distinction of being a German Jew who served as one of the American interrogators of the Nazis who were tried at Nuremberg. What is not well known, however, is that just five years earlier, Sonnenfeldt himself was arrested and treated as a possible Nazi—at the order of none other than Winston Churchill.
Several recent books have lionized Churchill as a stalwart Zionist who did all he could to rescue Jews from the Holocaust. But such one-sided portrayals pay insufficient attention to a dark episode in which Churchill ordered the mass roundup and deportation of German Jewish refugees from England— including teenage Richard Sonnenfeldt.
Like many German Jews, Richard’s parents hoped to escape Hitler by immigrating to America. But the Roosevelt administration’s harsh policies blocked their way. U.S. law permitted 25, 957 German citizens to enter annually, but in 1937, the year the Sonnenfeldts applied for visas, only 11, 127 (43% of the total) were actually admitted — because U.S. officials went out of their way to find grounds to reject applicants.  In desperation, the Sonnenfeldts sent 16 year-old Richard and his 12 year-old brother, Helmut, to a boarding school in England, expecting them to be safe there.
Churchill became prime minister on May 10, 1940. The next day, in one of his first official acts in office, he ordered the mass arrest of all “enemy aliens” (mostly Germans) between the ages of 16 and 70. Richard was taken away on a few minutes’ notice — not even enough time to say goodbye to his little brother.
The recent British failure to repulse the swift German conquest of Norway and Denmark had provoked a wave of public fear of Nazi fifth columnists within England’s own borders. Even “the paltriest kitchen-maid” might turn out to be a spy for Hitler, one British diplomat warned.
As a result, approximately 30,000 residents of England, most of them German Jewish refugees, were hauled off to makeshift internment camps. Incredibly, the Churchill government made no real effort to distinguish between German Jews, who were victims of the Nazis, and other German citizens, some of whom were indeed Nazi sympathizers. In a June 4 speech to the House of Commons, Churchill justified this bizarre policy:
“I know there are a great many people affected by the orders which we have made who are the passionate enemies of Nazi Germany. I am very sorry for them, but we cannot, at the present time, and under the present stress, draw all the distinctions which we should like to do.”
In July, the Churchill administration began deporting the internees to Canada and Australia. Richard Sonnenfeldt later recalled how, as he and the others boarded their ship, “my few possessions—textbooks, notepaper, my treasured Parker pen, my toilet articles and scant extra clothing, even my boots — were ripped from me. I had nothing left but the clothes on my back. Then soldiers with bayonets mounted on their rifles chased us down companionways to a hold far below the water line.”
After weeks on the filthy, disease-ridden ship, in the company of sadistic guards and a number of pro-Nazi prisoners, these German Jewish refugees found themselves in a detention camp in the Australian outback.
In the meantime, however, British public opinion started turning against the internment policy.  The shift began when German torpedoes sank a Canada-bound internee ship, the Arandora Star, killing 714. That was followed by press reports of Jewish internees in Canada and Australia being housed alongside Nazi supporters. A brief scandal erupted when Orthodox Jewish deportees were compelled to work on the Sabbath, after a British official in Canada decided they were “using their Sabbatarian principles as a means of avoiding work.”
In response to criticism by the press, members of Parliament, and others (including the author H.G. Wells, who said deporting German Jewish refugees was “doing Goebbels’s work”), the Churchill government reversed itself. Over the course of the next year, most of the remaining internees were freed and the majority of the deportees were brought back to England.  Many of the “enemy aliens” whose arrests Churchill ordered subsequently enlisted in the British armed forces.
Richard Sonnenfeldt never made it back to England. On the way back from Australia, his British guards inexplicably dumped the teenager in Bombay, India. From there he eventually made his way to America and joined the U.S. army. As one of the few soldiers who was both a native German speaker and completely fluent in English (due, ironically, to the time he spent in England), he was chosen in 1945 to serve as an interrogator, and chief interpreter, to the American prosecutors at the Nuremberg Trials.
Sonnenfeldt’s remarkable experiences represented the triumph of perseverance over adversity. But his experiences are also a reminder of a disturbing and long-forgotten chapter of history that needs to be considered when assessing Winston Churchill’s response to the Holocaust.
Dr. Medoff is director of The David S. Wyman Institute for Holocaust Studies, www.WymanInstitute.org
medoffBy Dr. Rafael Medoff
Issue of Oct. 23, 2009 / 5 Cheshvan 5770
Richard Sonnenfeldt, who passed away earlier this month, had the rare distinction of being a German Jew who served as one of the American interrogators of the Nazis who were tried at Nuremberg. What is Read the rest of this entry »

Push-in robbery in Hewlett

In Economy, Hewlett, News on October 21, 2009 at 3:45 pm

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By Michael Orbach
A Jewish family in Hewlett had a terrifying experience when two men dressed as utility workers pushed their way into a home and tied up the owner and the housekeeper. The men made off with what was reported to be $100,000 in cash and jewelry in what police believe was a targeted robbery.
The men knocked on the door of a home across the street from the Franklin Early Childhood Center, near Yeshiva of South Shore, at about 10:00 a.m. last Wednesday, and identified themselves as Con Edison workers, according to Detective Anthony Repalone. When the housekeeper opened the door slightly, the men forced their way in and tied her up. The homeowner heard the scuffle, and emerged from his bedroom. He struggled with the two men before he, too, was restrained. No weapon was used in the robbery, Repalone said. One of the suspects appeared to be in his 40s, the other in his 20s. The men fled in a non-descript blue van.
Mark Zimmerman, a neighbor who arrived home after the robbery, said he was surprised. “This is a quiet street, nothing happens here,” he said.
After the robbers were gone the homeowner and housekeeper freed themselves and called police. Neither was injured, though they suffered minor contusions. Repalone said the men left ten minutes after the robbery and said he believed the family was singled out in advance for the robbery.
“Right now we have no other similar crimes in this area, it appears this was a targeted incident,” he explained.
The owner’s wife was not home during the robbery and the couple’s three children were in school at the time. The homeowner declined to speak to reporters other than to say that he was “okay.”
Hours after the robbery reporters were still gathered outside the home with a large wooden mezuzah and several luxury cars in the driveway. Singing could be heard coming from the Franklin Early Education Center.
Mara Stulberger of Woodmere, a student teacher who was at the school during the robbery, said she didn’t hear a thing.
“Nothing is ever going on here,” she said.
Repalone said he would be working with the homeowners to identify the men and cautioned others to be cautious.
“If you’re not expecting someone to come to your home or you don’t have an appointment with a utility worker or cablevision or any sort of home improvement – and you’re not expecting someone to come to your home, don’t open the door,” he said. “Ask for a contact number and call the company. Don’t open the door unless you expect it and even if you do, verify it.”
By Michael Orbach
Issue of Oct. 23, 2009 / 5 Cheshvan 5770

Nassau County Police Department detectives remove evidence from the scene of a push-in robbery in Hewlett.

Nassau County Police Department detectives remove evidence from the scene of a push-in robbery in Hewlett.

A Jewish family in Hewlett had a terrifying experience when two men dressed as utility workers pushed their way into a home and tied up the owner and the housekeeper. The men made off with what was reported to be $100,000 in cash and jewelry in what police believe was a targeted robbery.
The men knocked on the door of a home across the street from the Franklin Early Childhood Center, near Yeshiva of South Shore, at about 10:00 a.m. last Wednesday, and identified themselves as Con Edison workers, according to Detective Anthony Repalone. When the housekeeper opened the door slightly, the men forced their way in and tied her up. The homeowner heard the scuffle, Read the rest of this entry »

Opinion: Art and Innovation

In In My View, Israel, Opinion on October 21, 2009 at 3:42 pm

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By Masada Siegel

Issue of Oct. 23, 2009 / 5 Cheshvan 5770

t’s the new year- and one of my resolutions is to focus on the positive, especially on people who create goodness and bring beauty into the world, be it by art or by innovation.  Most situations can have an optimistic outcome.   However, twisting positive stories out of war zones is no easy task, but just like talented artists can give meaning to a canvas with his brush, everything is in the eye of the beholder.
Wars are ugly, no matter how you paint it, but scientists both in North American and Israel are working to protect soldiers from harms way, as well as to help them lead normal lives after life altering injuries.
Scientists at the Weizmann Institute of Science in Israel have developed an ultra strong impact resistant material using nanotechnology.   Nanotechnology is the engineering of functional systems at the molecular scale.  This material created by nanotechnology is about four to five times stronger than steel and about six times stronger than Kevlar, a popular material today for bullet proof vests.
The company, ApNano, which is producing the materials, is also using the same technology to make products to enhance the performance of personal safety items such as helmets, as well as protection products for vehicles and aircraft.
So while world leaders disagree, and wars break out, scientists at Weizmann as well as innovators around the world are working to protect men and women in uniform.
American inventors such as Dean Kamen, CEO of DEKA, whose inventions include the Segway, are working for the United States Pentagon on a project called “Revolutionizing Prosthetics.”
Four years ago, the Pentagon approached Kamen to create a prosthetic arm for soldiers who had lost their arms in wars.  It needed to be computer operated and sensitive enough to pick up a raisin or grape off the table without crushing it.  Current fake prosthetic arms are so dated, they still have a hook on the end of them and were created decades ago.
The Pentagon invested $100 million in the project and now the DEKA arm is undergoing clinical testing.   The goal is to have the robotic arm available soon to the nearly 200 arm amputees from Iraq and Afghanistan.
Dean’s invention is not a classified military weapons system, so in reality it turns into advancement in medical technology.  So while wars wreak havoc, they also force creativity and innovation which will ultimately benefit more of the world at large.
Inventors are not the only people who have taken the evils of war and translated them into progress.  Artists often do the same, taking the revulsion of wars, and recreating the truth, showing no matter how just and needed a war might be the ultimate result is people die, leaving behind families to figure out ways to fill the void of a lost loved one.
One artist, Gerald Siegel who paints topics such as September 11, Kristallnacht and the Holocaust explains, “Art gives one a method of expressing the total horrors of war.” Siegel uses the experience of tragedies and translates them into works of art, in order to educate, with the additional hope it might inspire some to carefully consider their actions.
Great upheaval and misery often force people to create, innovate and invent products that ultimately change the face of the world for the better.  Some of the progress which evolved out of World War Two were the jet engine, synthetic rubber for tires and the beginning steps to the computer.
So when certain events are out of our control, perhaps the best way interpret the situation is to be like the painter who see it a situation in black and white but paints with color.

Masada Siegel

It’s the new year- and one of my resolutions is to focus on the positive, especially on people who create goodness and bring beauty into the world, be it by art or by innovation.  Most situations can have an optimistic outcome.   However, twisting positive stories out of war zones is no easy task, but just like talented artists Read the rest of this entry »

What G-d said about healthcare reform

In Economy, Exclusive, Malka Eisenberg, News, Woodmere on October 21, 2009 at 3:38 pm

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By Malka Eisenberg
Using slides, cartoons and humorous quips, Rabbi Dr. Aaron Glatt presented the halachic (Jewish legal) perspective on healthcare reform at the Young Israel of Woodmere on Sunday.
“Universal Healthcare: What Does the Halacha Say in this Public Health Debate?” was to be a shiur, a lesson in Jewish law, he noted. It would have no “agenda,” no polemics, would be apolitical and — here he apologized — would be “non-controversial.”  The goal of the talk, which was sponsored by the Orthodox Union, was to “see if we can come to a conclusion of what Halacha, what Hakadosh Baruch Hu (the Holy One, Blessed be He), has to say,” Rabbi Glatt explained. He is the assistant to the rabbi of the Young Israel of Woodmere, as well as President and CEO of New Island Hospital and Professor of Clinical Medicine at New York Medical College,
Clearly, he stressed, from a Jewish perspective, we “want every one to have all the health care they could possibly get, but what do you do when you can’t do everything?”
After building a case based on individual and communal requirements of Jewish law, Rabbi Glatt concluded that “there is no halachic obligation to provide every citizen with equal universal healthcare but there is also no halachic prohibition to provide every citizen with equal universal healthcare,” since the government may use its funds as it sees fit and has the right to spend money. “Jewish law looks favorably at healthcare reform that is economically feasible, just and fair,” he stated.
Pointing out that President Obama has called his health care plan a “moral obligation,” according to the New York Times, Rabbi Glatt emphasized that “nothing in Halacha is based on secular morals.”  The President held a conference call with a thousand rabbis, Rabbi Glatt said, asking that they assist in the ‘mitzvah’ of healthcare and saying, “We are G-d’s partners in matters of life and death.”  On the other hand, Rabbi Glatt said, Republican members of Congress consider it “morally objectionable to vote for” the President’s plan.
Judaism’s Reform movement appears to support generic healthcare reform citing ‘tikun olam’ (repairing the world) and holds that it “should be the primary focus of Judaism,” Rabbi Glatt said, and “many secular Jewish organizations have the same approach.”
Glatt also quoted the position of Agudath Israel of America, as outlined in a letter sent to President Obama, Congressional leaders and Health and Human Services Secretary Kathleen Sebelius. “Universal coverage” is a “worthy goal,” the letter said, but expressed concern that health care reform may pose a challenge regarding religious rights when cost-benefit ratios clash with quality of life issues.
“Matters of life and death cannot be measured solely in dollars and cents,” said Rabbi Chaim Dovid Zwiebel, executive vice president of Agudath Israel, in a press release, but “need to be considered through the prism of religion and morality.”
In a recent Op-Ed in The Jewish Star, Shmuly Yanklowitz of the liberal Orthodox organization Uri L’tzedek cited halachic and rabbinic sources to support his contention that universal health care is an Orthodox Jewish imperative.
“The true Jewish perspective on any issue,” said Rabbi Glatt, is determined “only after the scholarly review of authentic source material, the Torah, the Talmud, Responsa, the Shulchan Aruch and contemporary poskim; not by vote or majority opinion.”
“The Torah says that you have to guard your life,” he continued, explaining that one is therefore not allowed to overeat, smoke or drink to excess; and euthanasia, suicide and “risky behavior” are prohibited.
Rabbi Glatt, a medical doctor and infectious disease specialist, noted that a physician is required to heal by the halachic dictate of hashavat avaydah — returning a lost item — and has the right to charge for healing. If he is the only doctor in town, he may be required to treat without pay, though Rabbi Glatt noted that there is a “big machloket (difference of opinion)” on that point among halachic authorities. If there are many doctors in a town, “Society has to determine what to do with patients who can’t pay. The gemara praises doctors who provide service for free, but may not have the obligation if other doctors can do so.”
Quoting the late posek [halachic decisor] of Shaare Tzedek Hospital, Rabbi Eliezer Waldenberg zt”l, known as the Tzitz Eliezer, the “community should provide money to treat poor patients or divide the burden upon all doctors in the area, as a communal responsibility.”  However, Halacha doesn’t specify the monetary amount or percentage to be set aside or how much should come from the government, Rabbi Glatt said.
The legal source of the Jewish communal obligation regarding healthcare is the commandment of Bikur Cholim, visiting the sick, said Rabbi Glatt. “One of the critical obligations is to daven [pray] for the choleh [sick] at the bedside,” but also to be sure that all the patient’s needs — medical, physical, social, emotional, spiritual — are met.
A secular government’s obligation under Jewish law falls under the requirement to set up a just legal system, one of the seven Noahide commandments. Since the US has a “fair and just system of rules and is non-discriminating, Jewish citizens must observe such laws including taxation, public health laws and universal healthcare, that must be economically fair and feasible, since dina d’malchuta dina, [the law of the government is the law].” He further explained that a government has the right to tax its citizens to provide benefits and allow usage to its citizens, such as roads and bridges, and can thus allocate funds to where it sees fit, as in health care.
“The potential areas of concern, however, are end of life, beginning of life and reproductive issues, triage hierarchies and resource usage,” Rabbi Glatt cautioned.  He pointed out a recent article on dialysis in a medical journal. It implied that the cost of dialysis is great, but the life expectancy in older patents is not, and called into question the use of that treatment in older patients who are likely to soon die of other causes anyway and, if on dialysis, are more likely die in a hospital instead of at home or in a hospice.
Currently there is no clear definition of what constitutes universal healthcare, Rabbi Glatt noted, since there are many possibilities being debated, but said that the government needs the input of appropriate specialists in how to divide the funding.

Halachic ramifications of universal coverage

By Malka Eisenberg

Issue of Oct. 23, 2009 / 5 Cheshvan 5770
Using slides, cartoons and humorous quips, Rabbi Dr. Aaron Glatt presented the halachic (Jewish legal) perspective on healthcare reform Read the rest of this entry »

Engagement at the Garden

In Charity, Community, Great Neck, News on October 21, 2009 at 3:35 pm

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Israeli coach ejected at eventful charity game for Migdal Ohr at MSG

Engagement-FOR THE WEB

Great Neck connection: Robert Nowbakht's proposal to Sara Abdyan, on camera on the MSG scoreboard.

By Mayer Fertig

Issue of Oct. 23, 2009 / 5 Cheshvan 5770

By Mayer Fertig
Robert Shimonov didn’t plan to go to the Migdal Ohr charity basketball game. He had just finished teaching Hebrew school on Sunday when a friend called to say she had a ticket for him to join her at Madison Square Garden to see the New York Knicks play Israel’s best team, Maccabi Tel Aviv.
“Like Hashem made sure that I see it happen,” he later wrote in a Facebook message to his friend, Robert Nowbakht. Just as he was settling into his seat during the third quarter he looked up at the scoreboard in time to see the words, “Sara will you marry me?” Then, he saw Nowbakht, 28, of Great Neck, on bended knee and holding a rose and a ring, propose marriage to Sara Abdyan, 26, also from Great Neck. She said yes, to great applause.
It was significant to Shimonov, 26, of Fresh Meadows, Queens, because the shidduch was originally his idea.
“Six years ago [Nowbakht] and I went on birthright and we became really good friends. I told him I have this friend Sara and I think you and her could really hit it off,” Shimonov said Monday.
Nowbakht, perhaps conveniently for a new groom, works in the pearl business, and is also a part-time cantor at several shuls in Great Neck. He confirmed that Shimonov first suggested the match to him when they returned from Israel in winter 2003. He was Shimonov’s counselor on the trip. “I don’t know why I didn’t follow up,” he said. The couple has been dating for six months.
Robert Nowbakht, who was born and raised in Germany, said they planned to get engaged around now, but the holidays and Sara’s busy schedule have been difficult to work around — she’s currently taking courses toward her second Masters degree. He is a big fan of Maccabi Tel Aviv. “I said to myself, let’s give it a try.” The Migdal Ohr people liked the idea and agreed to help.
“They told me originally [the cameras would come to them during] a fourth quarter time out. At the last second they changed it to the third quarter. I sent them my seat number so they would know what we looked like.”
Abdyan, a fifth grade teacher at North Shore Hebrew Academy who lived in Iran until age 7, knew the big moment was coming — she just didn’t know when or just how big a moment it would turn out to be.
“Yeah right,” she said she thought at the time. “No way, come on. I was just shocked” and “lost her composure. I wanted to stand up and I fell.”
“When I go back to that moment,” Abdyan said Monday, when more than 14,000 Migdal Ohr supporters and basketball fans and, she later learned, a worldwide television audience saw her accept Nowbakht’s proposal and spontaneously kiss him, “It’s so not who he is. He is such a shy individual. I never thought in a million years that this would be such a public thing.”
Bride and groom both described the kiss as spontaneous and uncharacteristic of their shomer negiah relationship; Abdyan laughed and said, “I hope G-d can forgive us.”
“It was a little embarrassing because, never mind that it was in front of thousands of people — when he said, ‘By the way, sweetie, our family and friends were in the audience, I thought, ‘Greeeeaaaat.’
“He really went all out,” Abdyan said of her husband-to-be. “Baruch Hashem, he is definitely very special.”
The basketball game was special, too, though for an entirely different reason: it is a rare charity exhibition game in which a coach is ejected by the referees. Still more rare is one in which a prominent rabbinical figure appears on the court to attempt to mediate.
Rabbi Yitzchok Dovid Grossman, the founder of Migdal Ohr, had already appeared on Madison Square Garden’s famed hardwood floor during halftime to lead the crowd in reciting “Shma Yisroel,” and sing, “Am Yisroel Chai.” He came out again, this time sans hat, to try to convince the referees to not eject Maccabi coach Pini Gershon from the game for arguing over fouls. Rabbi Grossman was unsuccessful, but unwittingly did succeed in ensuring that the charity game made news around the world, garnering millions of dollars of free publicity. Migdal Ohr operates nearly a dozen schools in Migdal Haemek, and what is said to be the largest orphanage in the world, serving 6500 Israeli children.
Maccabi Tel Aviv was able to maintain a respectable margin against the NBA team for most of the game but when it was all over the Knicks won, 106-91. Maccabi travelled to Los Angeles to play a second benefit game for Migdal Ohr, against the LA Clippers. A spokesman for the organization called the fundraisers a “big success” and said, “Considering the economy it more than met our expectations.”

Robert Shimonov didn’t plan to go to the Migdal Ohr charity basketball game. He had just finished teaching Hebrew school on Sunday when a friend called to say she had a ticket for him to join her at Madison Square Garden to see the New York Knicks play Israel’s best team, Maccabi Tel Aviv.

“Like Hashem made sure that I see it happen,” he later wrote in a Facebook message to his friend, Robert Nowbakht. Just as he was settling into his seat during the third quarter he looked up at the scoreboard in time to see the words, “Sara will you marry me?” Then, he saw Nowbakht, 28, of Great Neck, on bended knee Read the rest of this entry »

A forgotten spy — late Israeli agent’s Five Towns ties

In Exclusive, Five Towns, Israel, Michael Orbach, News, Profile, Zionism on October 21, 2009 at 10:16 am

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By Michael Orbach
Issue of Oct. 23, 2009 / 5 Cheshvan 5770

Joshua Horesh

Joshua Horesh

When Joshua Horesh died this past July at the age of 89, he was remembered as a caring father who doted on his three children and ten grandchildren. His family eulogized him as a big-hearted man, who spoke several languages fluently including Arabic, French and Italian. Sadly, the last few years of his life were marred by dementia, according to his son, as Horesh believed he was being spied on and that his phones were being tapped.

Horesh’s dementia had elements of truth; he had in fact been a spy for most of his professional life.

“He was a big man, spirituality and physically. He loved Jews and fought for them,” Read the rest of this entry »

See The Jewish Star as it appears in print 10-23-09

In Cover/Print edition, News on October 21, 2009 at 10:08 am

See The Jewish Star as it appears in print 10-16-09

In Cover/Print edition, News on October 14, 2009 at 6:14 am

Karate for keeps at the JCC

In Community, Malka Eisenberg, News on October 13, 2009 at 5:53 pm

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Tryouts this Sunday for competitive team

By Malka Eisenberg

Issue of October 16 2009/ 29 Tishrei 5770
A young Sternberg (left) demonstrates a technique

A young Sternberg (left) demonstrates a technique

Black Belt Alex Sternberg is coming to the Jewish Community Center of the Greater Five Towns to lead a competitive karate class. And he’s not taking any prisoners.

“We will be training hard on a regular basis; it will be challenging,” Sternberg explained. “We will go to competitions and compete and if we don’t win we will train harder and analyze why Read the rest of this entry »

Parshat Bereishit: What Cain said is not important

In Avi Billet, Opinion, Torah, Weekly Parsha on October 13, 2009 at 5:47 pm

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Parshat Bereishit

By Rabbi Avi Billet

Issue of October 16 2009/ 29 Tishrei 5770

Rabbi Avi Billet

Chava bears two children, Kayin (Cain) and Hevel, and each one takes on a profession. Time passes, Kayin brings an offering to G-d, and Hevel follows suit. Then the Torah describes the events that transpire:

4:4. G-d paid heed to Hevel and his offering 5. but to Kayin and his offering, He paid no heed. Kayin became very furious and Read the rest of this entry »

Halpern: Shalit’s freedom — at what price?

In Children, Community, Gilad Shalit, I'm Thinking, Israel, Micah D. Halpern, Opinion, by Micah Halpern on October 13, 2009 at 5:44 pm

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I’m thinking

By Micah D. Halpern

Issue of October 16 2009/ 29 Tishrei 5770

Micah D. Halpern

How far would you go to save your child?

What rules would you break? What deals would you make with the devil?

What happens when the “parent” is a country? What about when the “child” is Gilad Shalit, the Israeli soldier kidnapped by Hamas in June of Read the rest of this entry »

Seidemann: Catching a poisoned apple

In Chol Hamoed, David Seidemann, Sukkot on October 13, 2009 at 5:41 pm

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From the other side of the bench

By David Seidemann

Issue of October 16 2009/ 29 Tishrei 5770

David Seidemann

A Broadway producer couldn’t have staged it better.   There I stood in the middle of an apple orchard in Congers, New York picking apples with my family. They give you a pole that seemed five times my height and four times my weight. For every apple I picked that fell into the bag attached to the pole, five more whizzed by my head, falling to the ground. What a racket. I’m convinced that after all of the “guests” leave the workers pick up the apples Read the rest of this entry »

Showbiz, but never on Shabbos

In Entertainment, News, Tova Ross on October 13, 2009 at 5:37 pm

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Elli Meyer, king of the Jewish bit part

By Tova Ross

Issue of October 16 2009/ 29 Tishrei 5770
Elli Meyer (right) has made a long career out of playing Jewish and other bit parts in television and movie productions.

Elli Meyer (right) has made a long career out of playing Jewish and other bit parts in television and movie productions.

You may not know Elli Meyer, but you’ve probably seen him before.

Meyer, 53, was the rabbi in 2 Fast 2 Furious, that Jewish guy in this year’s remake of The Taking of Pelham 1 2 3, and Read the rest of this entry »

Slice of Life: Would you like a little lamb?

In Food, Recipes on October 13, 2009 at 5:36 pm

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By Eileen Goltz

lambIssue of October 16 2009/ 29 Tishrei 5770

When my youngest son Avi was in first or second grade (lo those many years ago) a teacher asked him, in the course of getting to know everyone in the class, what his favorite animal was. He happily said, “Oh, I like lambs.” When prompted, the second time around the “getting to know Read the rest of this entry »

Miriam L. Wallach: That’s Life

In Miriam L. Wallach, That's Life on October 13, 2009 at 5:25 pm

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Issue of October 16 2009/ 29 Tishrei 5770

Dear That’s Life,

Shabbat mornings in my home as an adult mimic my Shabbat mornings growing up, including angling for a section of The Times before other family members Read the rest of this entry »

Incredible shrinking opportunity

In Ba'al Teshuva, Children, Education, Five Towns, News, Orthodox Union on October 13, 2009 at 5:23 pm

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NCSY estimates 15 more years to reach Jewish high schoolers

By Michelle Bortnik

Issue of October 16 2009/ 29 Tishrei 5770

NCSY-logoRabbi Aryeh Lightstone, regional director of New York NCSY, was speaking at a shul in the Five Towns last year when he recounted an incident in a student club he ran in an East Meadow public school. One girl was strikingly enthusiastic about everything the club discussed: Israel, Jewish continuity, holidays and Shabbos.

But there was one catch: the girl wasn’t Jewish.

When she inquired about becoming Jewish, Rabbi Lightstone told her that while she was welcome in the club, he couldn’t teach her more about Judaism unless her parents gave explicit permission, something they expressly refused to do.

The girl was dejected and spent the following Christmas break with her maternal grandparents. Seeing she was unhappy, the girl’s grandmother asked why. She wanted to learn more about Judaism, the girl said, but couldn’t since she wasn’t Jewish.

“You don’t have to convert,” her grandmother explained, Read the rest of this entry »

The Kosher Bookworm: New beginnings for Genesis

In Alan Jay Gerber, Kosher Bookworm, Torah on October 13, 2009 at 5:20 pm

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Alan Jay Gerber HEADSHOT 12-08By Alan Jay Gerber

Issue of October 16 2009/ 29 Tishrei 5770

With the songs and festivities of Simchas Torah still echoing in the background, Shabbos Bereishis is now upon us, and with the return of the regular Jewish calendar comes a spate of newly published Jewish books for your autumn reading pleasure.

Among the most creative expositions on the Book of Genesis are works by two of the most learned essayists of our sacred writings, Rabbi Sir Jonathan Sacks, chief rabbi of the United Hebrew Congregations of the Commonwealth and Rabbi Shlomo Riskin, chief rabbi of Efrat, Israel.

Rabbi Jonathan Sacks

Rabbi Jonathan Sacks

Rabbi Sacks’ volume is titled, “Covenant and Conversation: Genesis — The Book of

Beginnings” [Maggid Books and The Orthodox Union, 2009]. Contained herein is a collection of some of Rabbi Sacks’ finest essays on the twelve parashot of Sefer Bereishit.

Each portion has between four and five essays on a specific theme Read the rest of this entry »

On the calendar 10-16-09

In Calendar, News on October 13, 2009 at 5:10 pm

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Issue of October 16 2009/ 29 Tishrei 5770

Cedarhurst – OHEL Children’s Home and Family Services invites the community to Fingerprinting for Kids, a mini-fair to help keep kids safe. They’ll provide free, secure Child ID Cards that include a child’s name, weight, height, eye-color, and Read the rest of this entry »

Letter to the editor

In Cedarhurst, Israel, Letters to the Editor on October 13, 2009 at 5:08 pm

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Issue of October 16 2009 / 29 Tishrei 5770

WIKIJIHAD

To the Editor:

I want to compliment your recent article “Backyard bullies on Wikipedia” (Ari Lieberman; October 2, 2009) which exposed the Arab influence and lies spread Read the rest of this entry »

Finding inspiration in tantrums and tennis balls

In Economy, Merrick, Michael Orbach, Woodmere on October 13, 2009 at 5:05 pm

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Two local inventors bring products to market in a recession

By Michael Orbach

Issue of October 16 2009/ 29 Tishrei 5770

The economy may be slow but things are picking up for two South Shore entrepreneurs.

Two-and-a-half-years ago, Corrie Wilder of Bellmore brought her daughter to a local gym where a strict rule required children to wear socks with Read the rest of this entry »

Opinion: The elephant in the room

In Children, Community, Education, Environment, Essay, In My View, Opinion, Parenting on October 13, 2009 at 5:00 pm

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The knock on secular college

By Rabbi Reuven Spolter

Issue of October 16 2009/ 29 Tishrei 5770

Rabbi Reuven Spolter

Your son is ecstatic. He just received a letter granting him admission to the summer program of his dreams; five weeks at the highly prestigious summer science learning program in Maine where he’ll study with noted experts in physics and chemistry; areas of particular interest to him. You’ve been Read the rest of this entry »

It takes a village (or one Rabbi Grossman)

In Ba'al Teshuva, Charity, Children, Entertainment, Five Towns, Israel, Michael Orbach, News, Parenting, Sports on October 13, 2009 at 4:56 pm

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The miracle of Migdal Ohr

Rabbi Yitzchak Dovid Grossman leads Madison Square Garden in song in 2008.

Rabbi Yitzchak Dovid Grossman leads Madison Square Garden in song in 2008.

By Michael Orbach

Issue of October 16 / 2009/ 29 Tishrei 5770

After witnessing the Six Day War, Rabbi Yitzchak Dovid Grossman,  a seventh generation Yerushalmi (Jerusalem resident) figured there were enough chasidim in Meah Shearim. He asked the Israeli government what he could to do help the young country, and where was the worst possible place in Israel where he could go to help. Migdal Ha’Emek, he was told, a town to the south of Haifa. Rabbi Grossman and his new wife picked up their young daughter and took the bus to Migdal Ha’Emek.

Once there, he saw poverty — burned out homes, lines of beggars — and he asked some elderly men who were playing backgammon where he could find the local shul or yeshiva. They laughed at him Read the rest of this entry »

Thanks, from Baghdad

In Children, Education, HAFTR, Homeland Security, News, Travel on September 30, 2009 at 4:22 pm

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Thanks, from Baghdad  American soldiers at a small combat outpost outside of Baghdad said thanks after they received a little love and warm wishes from kids on Long Island who were thinking of them this summer. HAFTR's Camp Hillel launched the "From Day Camp to Base Camp" Project in conjunction with The Living Torah Museum in Fallsburg, N.Y. and the U.S. Post Office in Fallsburg. They sent boxes of gifts including baby wipes, granola bars, Ziploc bags, disposable cameras, socks, Camp Hillel T-shirts and Frisbees and fleece pillows. Sgt. Joseph Calvello wrote, “Sorry it has taken so long to respond but it has been really busy here lately. My soldiers really like the pillows your campers made and thought it was really awesome of the campers to take the time to make them by hand. I saved one of the Frisbees for us and I gave one to some Iraqi children … Thank you again for the support. My soldiers really appreciate the gifts. Attached is a picture of my platoon, I'm in the second row kneeling, 2nd from the right.” The unit is due to return to Fort Bragg, N.C. in November.

American soldiers at a small combat outpost outside of Baghdad said thanks after they received a little love and warm wishes from kids on Long Island who were thinking of them this summer.

HAFTR’s Camp Hillel launched the “From Day Camp to Base Camp” Project in conjunction with The Living Torah Museum in Fallsburg, N.Y. and the U.S. Post Office in Fallsburg.

They sent boxes of gifts including baby wipes, granola bars, Ziploc bags, disposable cameras, socks, Camp Hillel T-shirts and Frisbees and fleece pillows.

Sgt. Joseph Calvello wrote, “Sorry it has taken so long to respond but it has been really busy here lately. My soldiers really like the pillows your campers made and thought it was really awesome of the campers to take the time to make them by hand. I saved one of the Frisbees for us and I gave one to some Iraqi children … Thank you again for the support. My soldiers really appreciate the gifts. Attached is a picture of my platoon, I’m in the second row kneeling, 2nd from the right.”

The unit is due to return to Fort Bragg, N.C. in November.

Sukkot: Only joy

In Avi Billet, Opinion, Sukkot, Torah, Weekly Parsha on September 30, 2009 at 3:40 pm

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The Torah commands us twice to rejoice on Sukkot. For Shavuot it only says to rejoice one time. For Pesach “joy” is not mentioned at all: it’s hard to rejoice when you’re thinking about the chametz you might still have in your house.
“V’samachta b’chagekha… v’hayita’ akh sa’me’ach.” [Devarim 16:14-15] You shall rejoice, and be only happy.
Only happy! Does that mean you can’t be sad at all? Does that mean you can’t have any not-so-happy thoughts or feelings? How does a person do that?
Rabbi Nachman of Braslav introduced the idea which has become a popular song — most of us probably know the song better than we know how to live up to its teaching — Mitzvah Gedolah Lihyot B’simcha Tamid. It’s a great mitzvah to be joyous always.
Rabbi Nachman acknowledges that it is human nature to be more easily depressed than overjoyed, and that life has its ways of doing that to a person. So a person must strive to overcome the difficulties. “For all ailments come only from sadness and depression. Therefore we must rejoice with all that we can, even with words of nonsense.” This could mean to tell jokes. It could mean to talk about nothing. It could mean to act silly. Whatever it takes to help you be happy, that’s what you need to do.
The Talmud (Taanit 8a) says, “Rabbi Yehoshua Ben Levi says, ‘if you are happy (or accepting) of the trials life gives you — you bring salvation to the world!’”
Life is a test. Sometimes there are ups and sometimes there are downs. The economic climate this year is not what it was a year ago. Some of us are not doing as well as we were before things took a bad turn. Some of us are out of work and are struggling.
The Mishnah in Avot (4:1) says, “Who is wealthy? The one who is happy with his portion.” In other words, non-physical wealth is determined by the state of your heart. If you are at peace with the situation life puts you in, you are “wealthy.”
The Torah tells us in the middle of the tokhacha of Ki Tavo, one of the reasons why these curses come upon us is “when you had plenty of everything, you would not serve G-d your Lord with happiness and a glad heart.” When times were good, the Torah is saying, we needed to serve G-d with pure joy.  We need to remember to thank G-d for the good things in our lives: “Thank you, G-d. Thank you for all the good in my life. Thank you for the friends and the love in my life. The joy I experience from being alive. The joy I experience from serving you. The joy I get out of being a Jew. The joy I get out of doing for others. The joy I get from learning Torah. The joy I get from living Shabbos. The joy I get from celebrating that we have the Torah. The joy I get from having a relationship with You!”
On these verses in Devarim, Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch says, “the joy of your blessedness comes not from your source of income, or your sources of entertainment, but from the Lord your G-d Who bestows this bountiful blessing on you from the place of His Torah and through the means of His Teaching, if you dwell in His tent faithfully.”
It was King David who wrote in Psalm 122, “I rejoiced with those who said ‘Let us go to the House of G-d.’” David himself provided an example of how a person can completely rejoice — letting go of all inhibition — in the service of G-d. Samuel II chapter 6 tells the tale of how he danced in front of the Ark as it was brought to Ir David, Jerusalem, in anticipation of the building of the Temple.
This is how we begin to experience true joy.
Twice a day synagogue-goers have been saying “L’David Hashem Ori” for close to two months. “One request I ask of G-d,” L’David reads. “Let me dwell in the House of G-d all the days of my life. To gaze upon the pleasant ways of G-d and to meditate in His sanctuary.” If you had one request to make of G-d, what would it be? Why would King David write this as his sole request? Maybe King David did not have a mortgage and tuition bills.
Only one thing mattered to King David — the joy he could get out of life. And he knew, all real joy emanates from where it begins. Joy starts in the House of G-d where we seed our relationship with Him; where we can let go of every inhibition, where we can sing and dance and rejoice in our lives dedicated to the service of G-d. When everything else goes, we still have G-d.
And that is something for which we all can be truly joyous.
Avi Billet_headshotBy Rabbi Avi Billet
Issue of Oct. 2, 2009 / 14 Tishrei 5770
The Torah commands us twice to rejoice on Sukkot. For Shavuot it only says to rejoice one time. For Pesach “joy” is not mentioned at all: it’s Read the rest of this entry »

Editorial: Can’t anybody see he’s trying to tell us something?

In Editorial, Mayer Fertig, Shoah/Holocaust on September 30, 2009 at 3:36 pm

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Issue of Oct. 2, 2009 / 14 Tishrei 5770

hen someone shows you who they really are, believe them. It’s good advice in the schoolyard and in the workplace, but on the stage of history that truism is often ignored.
If there’s anything in the world you could say for Adolf Hitler it’s that he didn’t try to hide who he really was. He published his plans for the Jews and for the world a number of years before he tried and failed to bring them to fruition. “Mein Kampf” is still available; anyone can read it and see how the evil Hitler laid out just what he hoped to accomplish. Britain’s Chamberlain was an eternal optimist, or perhaps he just didn’t read very well. He was convinced there could be “peace in our time” and for his naïveté, history has not treated him kindly. Of course, that was hardly the worst result of his folly. For not taking Hitler at his word, the world eventually went to war at the cost of twenty million lives, including six million Jews targeted for extermination.
Comparisons to Hitler usually strike us as hyperbole. Charges of Nazism are invariably overblown and inappropriate. Several years ago The Jewish Star was called “Nazi” for thoughts that appeared on this page. Nonetheless, descriptions of Iran’s Mahmoud Ahmadinejad as “the new Hitler” seem right on the mark. Astoundingly, despite his persistent Holocaust denial, despite his open threats to destroy Israel, and despite his dogged pursuit of nuclear weapons, few seem to take him seriously. Or, seriously enough.
Even now that Iran has been revealed as constructing a second nuclear facility believed capable of producing weapon grade material, kept secret until just the other day, the UN is gearing up to demand another round of facility inspections. If history is any guide, and for heaven’s sake, it ought to be, this effort will soon deteriorate to ‘catch me if you can’ pseudo-diplomacy, and empty threats by the world body.
Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu’s angry denunciation of the UN’s tolerance for Holocaust-denial was welcome and heartening, but it’s far from certain his speech did not fall on deaf ears.
The consequences of an Israeli military strike on Iran are sure to be heavy but unfortunately the consequences of Israel not attacking Iran’s nuclear capabilities may be far, far worse.
That somber fact, in 2009, is a direct result of virtually the entire world’s foolish refusal to take Ahmadinejad at his word, even though he’s clearly been telling us all exactly who he is.
When someone shows you who they really are, believe them. It’s good advice in the schoolyard and in the workplace, but on the stage of history that truism is often Read the rest of this entry »

Letters to the Editor 10-2-09

In Anti-semitism, Great Neck, Hate, Kosher Bookworm, Letters to the Editor on September 30, 2009 at 3:22 pm

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Issue of Oct. 2, 2009 / 14 Tishrei 5770

Stalin
not such a bad guy?
To the Editor:
A recent article by Jay Gerber (“A myth destroyed”; September 4, 2009) alleges that Stalin was responsible for the Holocaust. Nothing is further from the truth. Gerber bases his allegations on some books he read. You can read books that will prove anything that you want to hear. I can tell you from personal experience, spending two years in concentration camps, that the Soviet army liberated us from the Germans. They were our saviors. They liberated Auschwitz and many other camps. They not only liberated us but also fed us and treated us with dignity and great care.
To say that Stalin was responsible for the Holocaust is totally ludicrous. To set the record straight, he was no saint and he liquidated many so-called enemies of the revolution, but we as Jews owe him a lot hakoras hatov. I estimated that he saved millions of Jews, those that were liberated from the camps and hundreds of thousands of Jews that received refuge escaping from the Germans by going from Poland to Russia.
All this could not have happened without the approval of Stalin. Also, he appointed the prime ministers of the eastern European countries, Poland, Hungary and Romania and they were all Jews.
We Jews are known to show hakoras hatov to those who save Jews. I object to Mr. Gerber’s article. He can’t make a judgement on reading misguided books.
Paul Gross
Cedarhurst
Bringing back nightmares
To the Editor:
Your article (“Fringe Baptist  group brings hate to Great Neck”; September 25, 2009) triggered nightmares for my mother. The words of these virulent Anti-Semites reopened the traumatic events of her childhood during the days of Father Charles Coughlin when Hitler was coming to power. Like other vulnerable Jewish children, her life was made hellish in Brooklyn. She was frequently taunted for being a Christ-killer in addition to being beaten up for daring to set foot on a Christian street. The single worst episode was, as a child of no more than age ten, my mother was tied up to a fence and had her hair burned until a righteous Christian woman intervened to rescue her.
Rabbi Benjamin Blatt
Wisconsin

Stalin not such a bad guy?

To the Editor:
A recent article by Jay Gerber (“A myth destroyed”; September 4, 2009) alleges that Stalin was responsible for the Holocaust. Nothing is further from the truth. Gerber Read the rest of this entry »

Two books parents should know about: “Talking to your children about Intimacy: a guide for Orthodox Jewish parents” by Sara Diament

In Books, Children, Education, Mayer Fertig, Opinion, Parenting, Review, Sexual abuse on September 29, 2009 at 5:31 pm

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Several years ago it seemed the height of irony when Madonna told an interviewer about the strict limits she set on her young daughter’s television viewing since so much of what is on TV these days is inappropriate for children. The irony of course lay in the fact that it was the singer’s own determined pushing of the envelope beginning in the eighties that helped drag the popular culture down to where it is today. But Madonna is famous for reinventing herself and she seemingly reinvented herself as a concerned parent, even as she helped make other parents’ lives so much more complicated.

It’s disconcerting when mothers and fathers of even the most sheltered child realize they are fighting a losing battle. Even children from homes with no television pass billboards and buses in the street; almost no age-appropriate, quality reading material exists for Jewish children who read above their grade level; and there’s almost always a friend’s house at which to sneak some time in front of the tube.
Translation: it is crucial to have age-appropriate talks with children about matters related to the Torah perspective on the beauty of intimacy and family life. Parents who fail to do so must resign themselves to the fact that their children will get information and form opinions based on Hollywood’s view of these matters.
In “Talking to your children about intimacy: a guide for Orthodox Jewish parents,” Sara Diament, a mother of four from Bergenfield, N.J., who holds a Masters in Jewish Studies from YU and a Masters in Health and Behavioral Science from Columbia, offers a blueprint to Orthodox parents who are unsure about how to go about discussing puberty or having “the talk” with their kids.
It offers scenarios for conversations with children who range in age from very young to the pre-teen years and beyond, with an appendix dealing with the subject of abuse and another offering a review for parents themselves about the pertinent biology.
The self-published book includes letters of approbation from HaRav Hershel Schachter of Yeshiva University and Rabbi Mordechai Willig of Young Israel of Riverdale. A future printing is to include a letter from Rabbi Abraham J. Twerski, who wrote “we must prepare our children to live decent lives in an environment where there is no restraint on what may be said, shown or printed … to avoid dealing with these issues under the guise of tznius falls under the category of chasid shoteh, foolish piety.”
It’s a quick read and it proved invaluable in a field test with a grade-schooler during a long walk this past Shabbos.
The book can be ordered online at www.torahparenting.com.
By Mayer Fertig
Issue of Oct. 2, 2009 / 14 Tishrei 5770
Two Books-Talkingtoyourchildren
Several years ago it seemed the height of irony when Madonna told an interviewer about the strict limits she set on her young daughter’s television viewing since so much of what is on TV these days is inappropriate for children. The irony of course lay in the fact that it was the singer’s own determined pushing of the envelope beginning in the eighties that helped drag the popular culture down to where it is today. But Madonna is famous for reinventing herself and she seemingly reinvented herself as a concerned Read the rest of this entry »

Two books parents should know about: “Understanding Your Child’s Health” by Susan K. Schulman

In Books, Borough Park, Children, Education, Health, Mayer Fertig, Opinion, Parenting, Sexual abuse on September 29, 2009 at 5:30 pm

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Issue of Oct. 2, 2009 / 14 Tishrei 5770

Two Books-child's healthMany books guide parents through the medical pitfalls of childrearing. This is the first we’ve seen that does so through the prism of an Orthodox Jewish lifestyle, offering information geared to, say, Yom Tov overeating, the dangers of Pesach cleaning, or the relative (or utter) lack of exercise offered to students in most yeshivas.

Dr. Schulman is a pediatrician who has practiced in Borough Park for over 30 years, today treating the grandchildren of some of her original patients.
“Understanding Your Child’s Health” Read the rest of this entry »

Legacy of the Netziv: “The Path of Torah”

In Alan Jay Gerber, Books, Entertainment, Kosher Bookworm, Opinion on September 29, 2009 at 5:28 pm

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Just the name, the Netziv, HaRav Naftali Tzvi Yehudah Berlin zt”l, should give a shiver of awe and inspiration to any knowledgeable Jew. His life’s story, as reflected in “My Uncle The Netziv” [ArtScroll, 1988] by his nephew, Rav Baruch HaLevi Epstein, the Torah Temimah, tells the story of the quintessential Rosh Yeshiva and Gadol Hador.
While the book is unfortunately long out of print, if you can get a copy it would be worth the effort to revisit the author’s take of his illustrious uncle. It reads remarkably like a novel that offers the reader an intimate view of the Netziv, with insights and eye-opening historical revelations that cast the subject as not only a gifted spiritual leader, but a sensitive human being with faults that needed attending to and problems that had to be addressed. All this is reflected in the book, which merits your attention and appreciation of a true leader of our people.
While “My Uncle the Netziv” may be a bit hard to obtain, I am happy to inform you that a classic book by the Netziv, long ignored and, by now, unknown, has just been published in English translation. The new edition of “The Path of Torah” [Urim Publications, 2009] is now available in most Jewish bookstores. It bears a rare approbation by one of our country’s leading rabbinical scholars, Rabbi Gedalia Dov Schwartz, the Av Beth Din of the Chicago Rabbinical Council.
Under its original title, “Darkah Shel Torah,” it served originally as an introduction to the Netziv’s “Haamek Sheala” dealing with the responsa of Achai Gaon. The translator, Rabbi Elchanan Greenman of Houston, has done a masterful job in bringing us a three-part book with 43 chapters that span a range of topics on Halacha, history as you have never experienced in yeshiva, aggadic material and mussar.
The footnoting is extensive as merits so scholarly a work, with a corrected Hebrew text positioned around the English rendition.
Rabbi Greenman states that he undertook this work “because it is a work of profound significance that has largely been ignored and misunderstood. After completing the translation, I realized that it is unique in providing several examples of the Vilna Gaon’s pilpul method, the first time that such complete examples have been made available in English.”
The Netziv was known to write in a poetic style that, in translation, can obscure the meaning of the text and hamper comprehension by the modern reader. Rabbi Greenman was cognizant of this literary problem and has effectively given the text a new cast that avoids this stylistic handicap. The text is lucid and easy to read despite its complicated content. He not only succeeds admirably, he has set a new standard for establishing a responsible  “flexibility” to be emulated in the future by others confronted with similar difficulties.
Rabbi Greenman studied under Rav Aharon Soloveichik at the Yeshiva Brisk of Chicago where he received his rabbinic ordination in June 1977. He also has a B.S. in Physics and a M.S. in Computer Science. For over two decades Rabbi Greenman has been employed as an engineer for the International Space Station and is currently the lead engineer for Software Quality Engineering. Despite this, Rabbi Greenman’s first love has always been the study of Torah and a specific interest in the writings and teachings of the Netziv. The work under review is a reflection of his life’s work in this field.
This book is not for casual reading. Nevertheless, it merits your serious attention given the inherent spiritual value of its content and the integrity of its sainted author.

The Kosher Bookworm

By Alan Jay Gerber
Issue of Oct. 2, 2009 / 14 Tishrei 5770

alan-jay-gerber-new-6-08Just the name, the Netziv, HaRav Naftali Tzvi Yehudah Berlin zt”l, should give a shiver of awe and inspiration to any knowledgeable Jew. His life’s story, as reflected in “My Uncle The Netziv” [ArtScroll, 1988] Read the rest of this entry »

Before Lucy, before Oprah, there was Mrs. Goldberg

In Entertainment, History, Media, Michael Orbach, Review on September 29, 2009 at 5:24 pm

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By Michael Orbach
Oy, I’m getting ferklempt just thinking about “Yoo-Hoo, Mrs. Goldberg,” a documentary by Aviva Kempner.
For those of us not familiar with the heyday of radio and the early years of television, matronly Molly Goldberg, created and played by Gertrude Berg, was America’s Jewish mother. From 1929 until 1956, her name was ubiquitous on radio and television. Her show’s first incarnation was a daily 15-minute radio broadcast called “The Rise of the Goldbergs.” In 1949 she made the jump to television where “The Goldbergs” became arguably TV’s first truly successful sitcom.
Gertrude Berg, whose real name was Tillie Edelstein, was born in 1898 to a Jewish immigrant family in Harlem. Her acting career began in skits she performed in her family’s Catskills resort. Her radio and television shows stand as a landmark to tolerance and a forgotten chapter in modern Jewish history; a moral “Seinfeld” for the fifties, or a Jewish “Father Knows Best,” as Molly Goldberg and her family confronted the history of the old world and the wonder of the new one in America.
“Yoo-Hoo, Mrs. Goldberg,” a history of the Goldberg radio and television programs, is a clever documentary that mixes black-and-white footage from the thirties, forties and fifties into a seamless narrative. Commentators in the film range from Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg to Norman Lear, who created “All in the Family” and “The Jeffersons,” and even clips of an interview Berg gave to Edward R. Murrow. The title stems from a trademark element of the shows, epitomizing the old tenements in New York where no one had phones and the easiest way to reach a neighbor was simply to yell “Yoo hoo!” out the window.
“The Rise of the Goldbergs” began a week after Black Tuesday, the 1929 stock market crash that triggered the Great Depression, with the tagline a “Place in every heart and a finger in every pie.” The show proved so popular that when a sore throat put Gertrude out of commission, NBC received over 100,000 pieces of mail. The show’s success was attributed to its authenticity and to its writing, which Berg did herself. The show in its time period was also a play in contrast; Father Coughlin’s anti-Semitic rants on the radio, while a station away on the dial Molly Goldberg lectured about family values with the show’s crazy old Uncle Davy character played by a legendary Yiddish actor, Menashe Skulnik. The show’s message, the documentary notes, was  “everything is going to be okay.” It was a beacon of stability in very troubling times.
The show was so popular that Berg has been described as the Oprah of her day. In a poll of the most respected women in America, she came in second to Eleanor Roosevelt; a poll released the same year that listed the most successful women in America, put Berg first, with Mrs. Roosevelt second. Unsubstantiated lore from the Depression-era claims Franklin Delano Roosevelt once said, “I didn’t get us out of the Depression, Molly Goldberg did.”
The radio show was second in the ratings to the blaxploitation radio program, “Amos and Andy,” though “The Rise of the Goldbergs” presented a far different, positive stereotype: a wise, caring and patient Jewish mother, who was, in her own way, hip. For her role as Molly Goldberg, Berg won the very first Emmy for Best Actress, awarded in 1950.
Behind the stereotype of the Jewish mother, Berg was a canny and progressive Park Avenue feminist who created a multimedia empire. Goldberg merchandising extended to comic strips, advice columns, and in probably the earliest example of a celebrity clothing line, Goldberg-inspired housedress patterns. In a vaudeville tour one summer, Berg grossed $10,000 a week. As Molly, Berg advocated for war bonds and took on some social causes: a rock is thrown through the Goldberg’s window in one episode, a reference to Kristallnacht, and to the Goldberg family’s worries about Jewish relatives in Europe during World War II.
The TV show’s eventual cancellation came about not because of anti-Semitism, but ironically enough, because of its own success. Philip Loeb, the actor who played Jake Goldberg, Molly’s husband, was blacklisted for suspected Communist activities and the show’s sponsor pulled out. Berg fought for a year-and-a-half while the show was off the air, to save Loeb’s job, even attempting to intercede with J. Edgar Hoover. Eventually, she gave up and Loeb was replaced by a series of actors. However in Goldberg’s 18 month absence from television, another matriarch, Lucille Ball, had arrived, and the rest is history. “The Goldberg’s” limped along for a few years but in 1955 Berg called it quits. She went on to star on Broadway, winning a Tony award; she wrote a bestselling book; and passed away in 1966.
If there is any possible criticism of this enjoyable documentary it’s that Kempner perhaps goes a bit far in making Goldberg’s case. Goldberg, important as she was, didn’t pull America out of the Depression. And despite her progressive-for-her-time outlook, Berg was no revolutionary. As she once put it: “Anything that will bother people … unions, fund raising, Zionism, socialism, intergroup relations. … I keep things average. I don’t want to lose friends.”
But so what? On some level, Molly Goldberg made it okay to be Jewish in America.

A review of Yoo-Hoo, Mrs. Goldberg

By Michael Orbach

Gertrude Berg as Molly Goldberg

Gertrude Berg as Molly Goldberg

Oy, I’m getting ferklempt just thinking about “Yoo-Hoo, Mrs. Goldberg,” a documentary by Aviva Kempner.

For those of us not familiar with the heyday of radio and the early years of television, matronly Molly Goldberg, created and played by Gertrude Berg, was America’s Jewish mother. From 1929 until 1956, her name was ubiquitous on radio and television. Her show’s first incarnation was a daily 15-minute radio broadcast called “The Rise of the Goldbergs.” In 1949 she made the jump to television Read the rest of this entry »

That’s Life: Drama queen in action

In Humor, Media, Miriam L. Wallach, That's Life on September 29, 2009 at 5:22 pm

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Issue of Oct. 2, 2009 / 14 Tishrei 5770

Dear That’s Life,
Scene: A family meal 35 minutes before the beginning of Yom Kippur.
A niece who shall not be named is asked by her mother to leave the table or apologize to all present after she manages to touch most of the mashed potatoes left in the bowl.
“I’m sorry,” she said, adding, “Was that good?”
“It would have been if it had been sincere,” her mother replied.
“It was sincere,” the young drama queen shot back. “Look, I’m teary.”
Mayer Fertig
Dear That’s Life,
Funny thing about a car is that one does not appreciate how nice it is to have a working, dependable car until your car is no longer working or dependable.
Truthfully, I am low-maintenance and don’t have many demands, but I do insist that when I turn my key in the ignition, my car actually starts.  I do not think it is too much to ask that when I want to go somewhere, my car should allow me to do that. It should not be a scene out of the Flintstones, with Fred’s feet pedaling through the bottom of the car. Nor should it be that when I get in the car, one of my children inevitably screams, “c’mon car!” like a moment from The Little Engine That Could.
I called the service center, as the car is still under warranty, and the woman who answered said she remembered me. Of course she did – we have been in numerous times over the last couple of months and we just picked the car back up less than two weeks ago after a mechanic claimed he found “nothing wrong with it.” When I explained that the issue was not resolved and the car still was having trouble starting, she told me she would not take the car back for servicing.
“What?!” I said. “You are refusing to service my car?” The answer was “yes,” and she explained that two mechanics were out, the center was completely backlogged and she had been instructed not to schedule any more cars for servicing for at least a week. Shocked, I then did the most logical thing I could think of: I asked her for her cell phone number. “You want my phone number?” she asked, very confused, and I told her I did.
“But why?” she asked and I explained. “That’s so when I can’t start my car and I am stuck somewhere and am in labor, I know just who to call to come get me.” After a bit of a pause, she then asked me to hold on a moment so she could see what she could do.
Moments later, she got back on the phone and asked me to call back the next day to speak to the manager. No problem, I replied, at which point she asked me if I was expecting my first child. “No,” I said, “my sixth,” to which she exclaimed after putting all of the pieces of the puzzle together, “What?! Why aren’t you staying in bed in your ninth month instead of driving around town?” I explained that with five other children, life had to go on and there was no time for lounging in bed, eating cookies. A little annoyed at this point, I said, “Now, do you understand why my car should be the LEAST complicated thing in my life?”
Suffice it to say that the manager was less than excited to speak to us nor was he happy to see us when we came into the service center. The welcome we received was the equivalent to Gaddafi’s arrival on US soil.  After taking the keys from us yet again, he reminded us the deal we had made over the phone: if he found nothing wrong with the car as he did ten days before, I was going to pay for the car rental they had arranged. It was a bet I was willing to make.
Less than twenty-four hours later, he called me at home.
“Mrs. Wallach,” he said. “Your car needs some serious work and you are not crazy.”
I laughed for a while and told him I knew I wasn’t crazy and said I was happy we were now on the same page. After he finished reviewing the long list of problems with my car, I confirmed that he, in fact, would be covering the cost of the rental, which he said he obviously would. I then and asked why, if they had the car ten days before, did they not find anything wrong with it and now, it sounded like my car was on life support.
“Well,” the manager explained, “there are some better doctors out there and some not better doctors, and the same is true about mechanics.”
Now I was silenced.
“That,” I said, “was a very good answer.”
Game, set, match.  Winner: Mike and the Mechanics.
MLW

Dear That’s Life,

Scene: A family meal 35 minutes before the beginning of Yom Kippur:
A niece who shall not be named is asked by her mother to leave the table or apologize to all present after she manages to touch most Read the rest of this entry »

Backyard bullies on Wikipedia

In Anti-semitism, Brooklyn, Essay, Exclusive, Hate, History, Israel, Media, Muslem, News on September 29, 2009 at 5:19 pm

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By Ari Lieberman
In the course of doing research on the Second Lebanon War, I came across a Wikipedia article called “2006 Lebanon War.” Instinct told me to ignore the article and move along but curiosity drew me in. Little did I know at the time that this curiosity, which has gotten me into trouble in the past, would introduce me to the dark side of Wikipedia.
Wikipedia describes itself as a “multilingual, Web-based, free-content encyclopedia project based mostly on anonymous contributions.” It is “written collaboratively by an international (and mostly anonymous) group of volunteers.” Anyone with Internet access can write and make changes to Wikipedia articles. Wikipedia claims 65,000,000 monthly visitors as of 2009 and is rapidly gaining acceptance by university students and media alike.
The Wikipedia homepage adds that, “anyone is welcome to add information, cross-references, or citations, as long as they do so within Wikipedia’s editing policies and to an appropriate standard. Substandard or disputed information is subject to removal. Users need not worry about accidentally damaging Wikipedia when adding or improving information, as other editors are always around to advise or correct obvious errors, and Wikipedia’s software is carefully designed to allow easy reversal of editorial mistakes.”
Innocent enough, I thought.
The 2006 Second Lebanon War was one of Israel’s most controversial wars. There were operational as well as political failures, mostly due to inexperienced political leaders who lacked focus and fortitude. However, in the final analysis, the war was a strategic victory for Israel and a defeat for Iran, Syria and its terror proxy, Hezbollah.
* Israel killed 600-1,000 Hezbollah guerillas (and captured five) and established a kill ratio of at least 6 to 1 and possibly as much as 10 to 1.
* When the war ended, the Israeli Army was in control of every single Hezbollah stronghold in the sub-Litani region. Hezbollah did not conquer a millimeter of Israeli soil.
* The Israeli Air Force destroyed Hezbollah’s long-range missile stockpiles in the first hours of the war thus depriving the organization of a valuable strategic asset.
* Israeli commandos landed at whim in the heart of Hezbollah’s strongholds of Baalbek and Tyre, killing several dozen Hezbollah operatives and evacuating safely from the combat zone without taking any casualties.
* Hezbollah’s entire military infrastructure in South Lebanon was destroyed along with its HQ and other important facilities in South Beirut.
* Lebanon itself suffered billions in damage, felt most keenly by Shiites whose close proximity to the theater of operations rendered them most vulnerable. Three years after the war, in which Israel barely suffered a scratch, Lebanon’s Shiites are still picking up the pieces.
* Hezbollah’s border provocation against Israel lacked strategic purpose; the resulting war exposed the worst that Hezbollah had to offer. Syria and Iran can no longer use Hezbollah as a deterrent against an Israeli first strike.
* The most important achievement was the forcible deployment of some 15,000 Lebanese troops backed by Europeans along the border. It is the first time since the mid-1960s that the Lebanese Army has exercised any meaningful sovereignty in South Lebanon. Gone are the days where Hezbollah guerillas can menacingly march right up to the border and click away with their surveillance cameras and equipment.
In short, the war established a new reality and essentially forced an unconditional surrender on Hezbollah. Aside from the usual kooks and crackpots and a few Arab apologists like Roger Cohen and Norman Finkelstein, no one takes seriously the Hezbollah claims of “divine victory.” Even Nasrallah himself came close to admitting defeat when he acknowledged that he badly misjudged Israel’s response and would not have embarked on the kidnapping operation had he known it would lead to war.
In light of Wikipedia’s stated editing policy, it did not surprise me to find that its piece on the Second Lebanon War read like a Hezbollah recruiting poster. Israel’s achievements were glossed over or omitted entirely; its failures were stressed and highlighted. The converse was true for Hezbollah. It almost seemed as if by war’s end Hezbollah troops were marching on Tel Aviv.
I decided that something had to be done to restore balance and so began my Wikipedia journey and my discovery of its Islamofacist underside.
My initial edits were small, well sourced, cross-referenced and dealt with one minor point that occurred before the commencement of hostilities and a few post-war occurrences. My strategy was to start small, to test the waters, and progressively make larger and more substantive edits.
Within minutes of my upload, my edits were deleted. Being a novice to Wikipedia, I thought I had made some technical mistake in the upload process so I uploaded again only to have the edits deleted once more. I then saw a message in my Wiki “talk page” — the rough equivalent of an inbox — that said that my edits were being deleted for violating neutrality. The message came from someone identified by an Arabic screen name. Some quick research revealed that he was a Wiki “site administrator” and had a long history of anti-Israel bias on Wikipedia.
I would not accept conclusory explanations for his reversions and demanded clear and concise reasons for his actions. He responded that my edits made the Israel Defense Forces sound “too heroic” and “sounded like an army press release.” Concerning the post-war edits, he claimed that since they happened after the war, they were irrelevant. However, his reasoning here contradicted the format of the article itself, which had a specific section dealing with relevant post-war occurrences. The only discernable difference between my post-war edits and those already existing in the article is that my edits were adverse to Hezbollah while those already existing were adverse to Israel. It seemed that any edit that favored Israel, regardless of its veracity, did not sit well with the “site administrator.”
I countered, he counter-countered and this back and forth wrangling went on for quite some time, until he finally relented and my edits were allowed to pass, albeit heavily modified.
I subsequently made additional, more substantive edits to the “Second Lebanon War” as well as the “Gaza War” (Operation Cast Lead) which drew heated debate and scathing criticisms by what I call the Wikipedia Jihadi Mafia, who swarmed on me like bees to honey, attacking and dissecting every aspect of my proposed changes. Exhausting as it was, I stood my ground and provided well-sourced information for all my edits. Ultimately, most of my edits passed muster and squeezed through, though, again, they were heavily altered and modified.
Today, when you go on to Wikipedia’s “Gaza War” site, you can read favorable quotes from defense analysts Tony Cordesman and Colonel Richard Kemp detailing the lengths to which the IDF went to minimize collateral damage. You will also find detractors and critics of the now infamous Goldstone report, which is essentially a 575-page blood libel against the IDF. You will read negative revelations about Marc Garlasco, one of Goldstone’s sources and a former Human Rights Watch military analyst, who was belatedly suspended by HRW on account of his fetish for Nazi memorabilia. I counterbalanced unfavorable bias sources about Israel with opinions by Charles Krauthammer, Michael Totten, and John Keegan. I also listed documented efforts Hezbollah took to conceal their losses in the Second Lebanon War. Islamofacism is alive and well at Wikipedia, but as with all backyard bullies, if you stand your ground and don’t give in, they relent.
Ari Lieberman is an attorney and a student of Israeli military history. He lives in Brooklyn.

By Ari Lieberman

Issue of Oct. 2, 2009 / 14 Tishrei 5770

Ari Lieberman

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I’m thinking: Why I’m a fan of the UN

In Israel, Micah D. Halpern, Muslem, Opinion, Politics, by Micah Halpern on September 29, 2009 at 5:16 pm

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By Micah D. Halpern

Issue of Oct. 2, 2009 / 14 Tishrei 5770

I am a member of a small select group. I am one of few people who believe that the United Nations serves an important purpose.
I am not blind; I am not deaf and I am certainly not dumb to the vitriol spewed forth from the imposing glass building that graces the East River and causes New York’s traffic to jam. But when I weigh the benefits reaped by the nations of the world against the anti-Semitic, anti-Zionistic, anti-West hatred spewed forth in the great public halls of the United Nations, the positive outweighs the negative.
For better and for worse, the United Nations levels the playing field and every country is treated equally.  But that is not why I am a fan.
Equality among men, or, in this case, nations, is a credo we try to instill in our children. It is a fallacious credo. In the General Assembly, Muammar Ghaddafi of Libya is accorded the same respect as Gordon Brown of England. Actually, right now, he is accorded more respect because the current president of the Assembly is from Libya, so Gaddafi is a little more equal than other nations but, then again, England is a member of the coveted Security Council — and Libya is not.
The United Nations gives voice to those countries around the world which have no voice, to the countries whose voices would otherwise never be heard, to the countries with names difficult to pronounce and which we would be hard pressed to locate on a map. In the United Nations the powerless perceive themselves to have power. That explains why so many anti-Western resolutions are proposed in the General Assembly. In the end, the resolutions have no legal value and the debates are simply rants, a way in which to vent, to let off pent up frustrations and to safely chastise bigger and stronger nations.
Only the Security Council has international power, only the Security Council can control and deploy forces. And only sanctions emanating from the Security Council can be imposed. The permanent members of the Security Council truly guide the world. But that does not explain why I am a fan.
The United Nations provides military aid, economic aid and food to countries in need. The United Nations has goodwill ambassadors who canvass the globe helping people in need. The United Nations gives medicine and technology to nations in need.  But even these non-political dimensions of the United Nations are not what makes me a fan.
I believe that the United Nations serves an important purpose because it is the only place in the world that fosters informal diplomacy. In corridors and in corners, over coffee and tea, in hushed voices and through third parties, ideas and agenda are floated. The seeds of the future are sown behind-the-scenes in the United Nations. Agreements that will shape the world are first floated in conversations during informal meetings. There are no banner headlines, very few leaks and almost no significant political risk. The machismo and bravado strutted about in the General Assembly, the Security Council, and high-profile committees, is absent in the dimly lit corridors of the United Nations.  Governments are not toppled; agreements are conceived.
A conversation in a United Nations elevator can change the world.
Micah D. Halpern is a columnist and a social and political commentator.
Read his latest book THUGS.
He maintains The Micah Report at

I am a member of a small select group. I am one of few people who believe that the United Nations serves an important purpose.

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Seidemann: Content and confident in the Sukkah

In David Seidemann, Hashkafah, Opinion, Sukkot, Yom Kippur on September 29, 2009 at 4:56 pm

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From the other side of the bench

David Seidemann headshot-croppedBy David Seidemann

Issue of Oct. 2, 2009 / 14 Tishrei 5770

Rosh Hashana, I’m too scared to eat. Yom Kippur, I’m not allowed to eat. Sukkos, I can eat what I want but not where I want. Passover, I can eat where I want but not what I want. And on Shavuos, I’m just too tired to eat. Read the rest of this entry »

16 ways you know Sukkot is coming to Israel

In Environment, Essay, Feature, Humor, Israel, Jewish Holidays, Sukkot on September 29, 2009 at 4:47 pm

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By Judy Lash Balint
Sukkot in Israel_2

Now that's some esrog: Arba Minim (the four species) on sale on a Jerusalem street (Photo by Judy Lash Balint)

By Judy Lash Balint

Issue of Oct. 2, 2009 / 14 Tishrei 5770

1. The clang of metal poles and the sounds of hammering are practically constant as Jerusalem’s apartment dwellers hurry to erect their sukkot and squeeze them into small balconies, odd-shaped gardens and otherwise derelict rooftops.
2. The tourists have landed! Overwhelmingly religious, English and French speaking, they jam the city’s take-out places and restaurants, and may be seen in packs wandering up and down Emek Refaim and at the glitzy Mamilla Mall, talking to their friends on their cell phones at the top of their lungs.
3. Almost every non-profit group worth its salt has scheduled a fund-raising and/or familiarization event for the intermediate days of Sukkot, aimed at capturing the attention of the wealthy temporary Jerusalem residents.
4. Real estate agents are taking a deep breath before their busiest week of the year as they prepare to pitch their over-priced wares to eager foreign buyers. Each of the many luxury residential building projects around town has managed to put up billboards depicting the completed construction and inviting prospective buyers for a tour of an unfinished building site.
5. You can’t get on a bus without being poked in the rear a dozen times with someone’s stray lulav.
6. The sweet smell of etrogim in Jerusalem’s Machane Yehuda (Yehuda Market) is overpowering. Huge crowds descend on a lot on Jaffa Road near the market to vie for the most shapely lulav and etrog.
7. One enterprising bookstore is offering “Machzor rentals” for tourists who inadvertently left their holiday prayer books at home.
8. You’ve never seen such gaudy sukkah decorations in your life — unless you’ve been to Walmart on Christmas Eve. In Meah Shearim kiosks manned by charedim are selling gold, green and red tinsel hangings — exact replicas of decorations for a different holiday in the old country.
9. Huge piles of schach (palm fronds for the roof of the sukkah) cover major city squares, and citizens are invited to take as much as they need for free.
10. The usual throngs of are expected at the Western Wall for the thrice-yearly observance of the ancient ritual of Birkat Cohanim — Blessing by the Priests — that takes place during the intermediate days of Sukkot.
11. Empty city lots all over Jerusalem are taken over to sell sukkot of every size and description. Some are marketed by large companies and feature the latest space-saving technology and hardiest materials, while others are simpler affairs made of tubular piping and plastic walls. Every kosher restaurant in town has a sukkah of some kind and each boasts bigger and better holiday specials to entice customers.
12. Since the entire week of Sukkot is a national holiday you’ll have a tough time deciding which festival or event to take part in.
13. Touring the country is another favorite Sukkot activity and every political group is promoting trips to “See For Yourself.” Chevron is a perennial favorite for the intermediate festival days as the Isaac Hall in the Cave of the Patriarchs that’s normally off-limits to Jewish visitors is open for the holiday.
14. Not to be left out are those tenacious Christian friends of Israel — the International Christian Embassy of Jerusalem (ICEJ) will bring 5,000 members from 80 nations to attend their 30th annual Feast of Tabernacles celebration. The Christian contingent dressed in costume of their country of origin will also take part in another annual Sukkot event, the Jerusalem March, where tens of thousands march through several routes in the capital. Organizers claim that the Christian event will pump $10 million into the local economy, taking up 15,000 hotel room nights during their stay. Not everyone is happy about the Feast, however. A few years ago Israel’s Chief Rabbinate’s Committee for the Prevention of the Spread of Missionary Work in the Holy Land issued a ruling forbidding Jews from participating in the Jerusalem march organized by the ICEJ. The committee wrote in its decision, endorsed by both chief rabbis that Halacha forbids Jews to participate in any of the Christian sponsored gatherings. Still, this year, Rabbi Shlomo Riskin will host a sukkah reception for the delegates at ICEJ headquarters.
15. Another prominent group of tourists set to arrive are refugees from the young American frum singles scene who make an annual migration to Jerusalem from the Upper West Side for Sukkot. Discreet meetings of earnest, well-scrubbed, modestly dressed twenty-somethings take place in all the major hotel lobbies.
16. And speaking of refugees — spare a thought for those 1,700 families expelled from their homes in Gush Katif back in August 2005. More than four years on and hardly any of them are living in permanent housing. More than 1,500 former Gush Katif residents are still unemployed. Several have died at young ages and many couples have divorced due to the economic and social pressure and the uncertain future they face. Neither they nor the Israelis in and around Sderot, who despite the Gaza pullout continue to live under the threat of Hamas shelling, will need to be reminded of one of the essential messages of the Sukkot holiday — the flimsiness of our physical existence and our reliance on G-d for sustenance and shelter.
Judy Lash Balint is the author of Jerusalem Diaries: What’s Really Happening in Israel and a contributor to the Fodor’s Guide to Israel. She blogs at jerusalemdiaries.blogspot.com
1. The clang of metal poles and the sounds of hammering are practically constant as Jerusalem’s apartment dwellers hurry to erect their sukkot and squeeze them into small balconies, odd-shaped gardens and otherwise derelict rooftops.
2. The tourists have landed! Overwhelmingly religious, English and French speaking, they jam the city’s take-out places and restaurants, and may be seen in packs wandering up and down Emek Refaim and at the glitzy Mamilla Mall, talking to their Read the rest of this entry »

My heritage on YouTube

In Ba'al Teshuva, Essay, Media on September 29, 2009 at 4:41 pm

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In my view

Anya_SedletcaiaBy Anya Sedletcaia

Issue of Oct. 2, 2009 / 14 Tishrei 5770

There was a song that my grandmother used to sing to my sister and me whenever we visited her. I never knew all the words but I always remembered the tune, and I remembered that it included something about “Kinderlach” and “Alef Beis.” I was able to find a video of the song on YouTube Read the rest of this entry »

This ain’t your bubbe’s cookbook

In Entertainment, Food, Kosher, Recipes, Woodmere on September 29, 2009 at 4:38 pm

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New kosher cookbook for the iPhone

By Etta Chinskey
Issue of Oct. 2, 2009 / 14 Tishrei 5770

By Etta Chinskey
Some iPhone users may swear their phone does everything but the dishes. The popular Apple cellular phone still can’t do dishes but it can cook. Kosher.
Just in time to cook for everyone who can squeeze into your sukkah, there’s a new application for the iPhone and iPod touch called Kosher Cookbook. It offers 300 kosher recipes by gourmet chef and food writer Gloria Kobrin, shopping list plans and 50 customized meal plans for Shabbos and Yom Tov.
Users can search for recipes by ingredients or by food type, ranging from tofu to pasta to all types of meat (“except pork,” one oddly disappointed reviewer noted on the iTunes store). Personal meal plans can be constructed based on favorite recipes, and dishes can be sorted by serving size. Harried Erev Shabbos shoppers can access recipes and revise shopping lists (viewable by store aisle or by recipe) right in the produce section. Local shoppers have an added advantage as the application is supported by Brach’s Supermarket.
Kosher Cookbook is the creation of Alex Libkind of North Woodmere. He’s the CEO of Valley Stream-based APPsolute Media, where the application was developed and where the cookbook is updated regularly, According to Libkind, new dishes and images are added daily.
“What we discovered is that the iPhone is an absolutely new platform for the on-the-go consumer,” said Libkind. “Why I really pushed the Kosher Cookbook on the iPhone is that it’s an appliance. You can go to this phone and do exactly what you want, whether it’s to find directions, a movie or a recipe.”
Libkind founded APPsolute Media this year. He also co-founded Zodiac Interactive, an Emmy award-winning company that built the user-interface for iO digital television. He hopes to feature other cookbook authors in Cookshelf, the platform used for Kosher Cookbook, and is currently in talks with publishers to use either entire books or samples in the app.
A cookbook for the iPhone is a logical step, according to Kobrin.
“Many young people don’t have large cooking spaces, so having this small machine is very efficient and leaves you room for many other things,” she explained.
“As both a busy mom and a personal chef, I’ve got to say this could really save me time,” said Jordana Hirschel, a gourmet chef based out of Long Island,
“Cookshelf” is available for $4.99 at the iTunes store. The online reviews have been positive so far and the application has made it to iTunes’ coveted “Hot List”.
“The best organized app ever” one user declared.
Moshe Kimmel, a 19-year old aspiring chef from Far Rockaway was impressed by the idea. “It leaves more room on the counter for the ingredients and helps you not to carry a big pad of paper in the supermarket,” he said.
He was disappointed that Sprint, his phone carrier, doesn’t offer the iPhone.
“It makes me want one,” he said.
Additional reporting by Stephen Bronner

A screenshot from the Kosher Cookbook for iPhones

A screenshot from the Kosher Cookbook for iPhones

Some iPhone users may swear their phone does everything but the dishes. The popular Apple cellular phone still can’t do dishes but it can cook. Kosher.

Just in time to cook for everyone who can squeeze into your sukkah, there’s a new application for the iPhone and iPod touch Read the rest of this entry »

See The Jewish Star as it appears in print for 10-2-09

In Cover/Print edition, News on September 29, 2009 at 4:00 pm

Most-hated family in America visits Great Neck

In Borough Park, Chabad, Children, Flatbush, Great Neck, Hate, Israel, Media, Michael Orbach, News, North Shore Hebrew Academy HS, Parenting, Shoah/Holocaust on September 25, 2009 at 2:41 pm

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Shirley Phelps-Roper, daughter of the hate group's founder, Friday afternoon in Great Neck (Photo by Andrew Vardakis for The Jewish Star)

Margie Phelps, daughter of the hate group's founder, and her nephew, 7, in Great Neck, NY Friday afternoon (Photo by Andrew Vardakis for The Jewish Star)

By Michael Orbach

Special to the web — Sept. 25, 2009 / 7 Tishrei 5770

Noah Phelps, 10, of the Westboro Baptist Church wasn’t exactly sure why he was at the protest in Great Neck. Wearing a purple t-shirt and matching purple hat, he held an Israeli flag loosely in one hand; occasionally, deliberately, he stepped on it.

“I’m here, pretty sure I’m here, it’s because of the Jews. I don’t know.”

His Aunt Margie resembled a walking billboard, holding four signs with messaging including “God hates Israel” and “Obama is the anti-Christ.” An Israeli flag Read the rest of this entry »

Thousands protest at United Nations

In Anti-semitism, Exclusive, HAFTR, Hate, News, Rambam Mesivta, Shalhevet School for Girls on September 25, 2009 at 11:55 am

Two members of StandWithUs on stage

Two members of StandWithUs on stage


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Rambam, HAFTR, Shalhavet lead cheers

By Michael Orbach

Special for the web on September 25, 2009/ 7 Tishrei 5770

Several thousand protesters, including students from a number of local yeshivot, gathered at the United Nations Thursday to protest the visit by Iranian president Mahmoud Ahmadinejad.

The protesters filled Manhattan’s 47th street between 2nd and 3rd Avenue and police closed down the block. At the rally, organized by the Jewish Community Relations Council, the most impassioned Read the rest of this entry »

Sabbath House opens at Winthrop-University Hospital

In Charity, Health, Mineola, News on September 24, 2009 at 12:03 pm

Winthrop-BikurCholim

Relative stuck in the hospital for Shabbos? The Winthrop Sabbath House, located adjacent to the Winthrop-University Hospital campus in Mineola, offers accommodations for up to five families at one time. The house was dedicated on July 7th and opened this past week. It is equipped with a kosher kitchen, Shabbos candles, siddurim and timers to turn lights on automatically in the afternoon and off at night. There will be a sukkah in the backyard. In addition to kosher food for patients, Winthrop now offers glatt kosher meals for visitors, available in the lobby, as well as a Shabbos elevator. (Above, l.-r.) The Reverend Jill M. Bowden, Director of Pastoral Care and Education at Winthrop; John F. Collins, President & CEO; Charles M. Strain, Chairman of Winthrop’s Board of Directors; Rabbi Anchelle Perl, Cong. Beth Sholom of Mineola; Amy Wolin, Assistant Vice President of Patient Financial Services at Winthrop; and Mineola Mayor Jack Martins.

Winthrop-SabbathHouse (group)

Opinion: Bring them a Kugel

In Essay, Health, Hewlett, Rosh Hashanah, Sexual abuse, Yom Kippur on September 23, 2009 at 1:53 pm

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“New” trend in psychology really an old mussar concept

By Michael J. Salamon
Issue of September 25, 2009/ 7 Tishrei 5770

The New Year has begun. We are involved in prayer and good deeds. We are more introspective than usual. We even try our hardest to eliminate or at least limit Lashon Hora. All are excellent and productive ways to enhance ourselves and the quality of our lives. Psychologists see this as part of their stock in trade. A new phrase in the field has emerged in recent years referring to this idea. Positive psychology is the study of how character, good feelings, inner strengths, resilience, creativity, wisdom and virtue develop in individuals and communities. The three central points of this new positive psychology are optimistic emotions, developing positive traits and constructive community institutions. If I may, positive psychology is not a new idea but rather a form of mussar focusing on personal discipline, healthy virtues, ethics and consideration for others.
I applaud attempts to become a better person and hope they are not limited to New Year’s resolutions rapidly overlooked once the holidays are over. To help us accomplish positive change I would like to make a simple suggestion. As we make vows to change our behaviors I would suggest that we all spend a little more time not just on actions but on words. That is, I would like to strongly urge us to think before we speak. This, of course, is not a new idea, either. I am not claiming that it is. I am only restating the concept because I have accumulated some statements that I have heard from people in the last year that have had fearful consequences, even when they were not meant quite the way they were perceived. The mussar texts tell us of the power of words but we often cannot relate to the concept. So allow me to give you just a few examples of how we might do better.
“I will not let my son go out with that girl. She has no father.” This line was said to the widowed mother of the young woman. The mother had lost her husband and her children lost their father to a terrible illness. The comment was not said maliciously. It was said to justify a horribly mistaken notion that because the young woman’s father passed away she might carry a genetic abnormality that would pass the disease to all of her future children. Both the woman and her mother were scarred not just by the idea but by the painful sentence itself. Not every thought we have is necessarily true. Not every thought we have must be said aloud.
“I heard that he lost his job so I brought him a sweet lukshen kugel.” I guess the person was well intentioned but stop a moment and think about it. If you just lost your job would you need or even want a kugel? Would you want someone telling their friends that they brought you a kugel under these circumstances? It is a sociological fact that people define themselves in large measure by their jobs. Someone who just lost their job is suffering an immediate blow to their ego. Their sense of direction and accomplishment, even basic identity, is threatened. Bringing a kugel is perhaps a nice gesture but not what a person who is so at odds needs. It is viewed perhaps as a minimization of the loss. What this person truly needs is someone who will quietly listen for a while. Once the initial loss is accepted try to help this person network — help them find agencies, institutions or individuals who can help them back into the work force. And only after you do that, ask them if they even like kugel before you drop one off.
The line I still hear that really is most upsetting is this: “it doesn’t happen in our community.” Abuse happens in all communities. We have our share of pedophiles, thieves, schemers and general low-lifes. To pretend otherwise is to ignore, even repel those who have been hurt and abused. The extension of the argument that it doesn’t exist in our community is that “surely the rates are much lower by us.” We do not know this to be true but even if it is we still cannot dismiss the fact that problems occur and that we are obligated to deal with them, not sweep them under the rug and pretend that they do not exist.
If we set up some simple guidelines for the words we choose to use we can go a long way toward helping ourselves and others, even our institutions to become more welcoming, more nurturing and more positive. And, isn’t that what the Yomim Norim are really about!
Dr. Salamon is a Fellow of the American Psychological Association and the founder and director of the Adult Developmental Center in Hewlett, NY. His recent books include, The Shidduch Crisis: Causes and Cures [Urim Publications] and Every Pot Has a Cover: A Proven Guide to Finding, Keeping and Enhancing the Ideal Relationship [Rowman & Littlefield].

Michael J. Salamon

Michael J. Salamon

The New Year has begun. We are involved in prayer and good deeds. We are more introspective than usual. We even try our hardest to eliminate or at least limit Lashon Hora. All are excellent and productive ways to enhance ourselves and the quality of our lives. Psychologists see this as part of their stock in trade. A new phrase in the field has emerged in recent years referring to this idea. Positive psychology is the study of how character, good feelings, inner strengths, resilience, creativity, wisdom and virtue develop in individuals and communities. The three central points of this new positive psychology are optimistic emotions, developing positive traits and constructive community institutions. If I may, positive psychology is not a new idea but rather a form of mussar focusing on personal discipline, healthy virtues, ethics and consideration for others.

I applaud attempts to become a better person and hope they are not limited to New Year’s resolutions rapidly overlooked once the holidays are over. To help us Read the rest of this entry »

Editorial: White House meddling in Albany

In Editorial, Mayer Fertig, Politics on September 23, 2009 at 1:52 pm

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Issue of September 25, 2009/ 7 Tishrei 5770

It is beyond discussion that David Paterson’s term as governor is a monumental disappointment. Few if any serious people suggest bright prospects for improvement. Read the rest of this entry »

Letters

In News on September 23, 2009 at 1:49 pm
He really thought that?
To the Editor:
Shmuly Yanklowitz is being either disingenuous or exceedingly naive when he professes to have thought that President Obama’s healthcare plan was something that Orthodox Jews would “join together” to support (Choose life; In my view; Sept 18, 2009).  Orthodox Jews, in general, tend toward both political and economic conservatism, so the idea that they would join en masse to support a government takeover of 16% of our national economy, on terms that would add at least a trillion dollars to our national debt, is dubious.
As to the substance of his article, it is neither appropriate nor helpful for Mr. Yanklowitz to try turning his politically liberal position in the national healthcare debate into a halachic issue. Mr. Yanklowitz is certainly entitled to his opinion about the President’s proposals, but attempting to delegitimize the opposing view on the grounds that it somehow violates Jewish law serves only to stifle, rather than foster, healthy political debate.
Moreover, Mr. Yanklowitz’s underlying assumption that Obamacare would “propel America toward a sustainable system of universal healthcare” and “help America become a society that can heal all of its sick” is, unfortunately, not grounded in reality. What the Administration’s proposals would do is move us incrementally in the direction of a Canadian single-payer system or the functional equivalent thereof.   That system, according to the most recent annual report commissioned by an alliance of doctors’ groups, including the Canadian Medical Association, has produced median waiting times of six weeks for patients with major depression to see a psychiatrist, 24 hours for hospital emergency room admissions, and seven weeks (!) for cancer patients in need of radiation therapy. (See Little Improvement in Medical Wait Times: report, National Post, June 18, 2009)
Is this the kind of care that we want for our own families? Is this really the reform that is “demanded by Jewish law,” as Mr. Yanklowitz contends? To me, Jewish ideals are best furthered by an honest shakla ve’tarya (give and take) regarding the actual policies under consideration, rather than by resort to broad generalizations of ethical principles or meaningless platitudes about our “deepest religious communal values.”
Steven Wilamowsky
Lawrence
The other side of the coin
To the Editor:
A story is told about Reb Levi Yitzchok of Berdichev who passed a stable on his way to shul and found wagon drivers wearing tallis and tefillin while preparing their horses. “Mi K’amcha Yisrael,” “Who is like your people, Israel?” he is said to have exclaimed. “Even while Jews are engaged in such mundane pursuits they envelope themselves in tefillin.” On Erev Rosh Hashana, I would have liked to see words of encouragement and hope more like those of Reb Levi Yitzchok and not those of your op-ed writer’s “Summer of our Shame” (Meir Weingarten; Sept. 18, 2009).
Ten years ago my wife and I heard a family psychologist who advised parents to find two good things our children did each day and to tell them. That’s still good advice for a Jewish newspaper in Elul. I see much that we Orthodox Jews can be proud and even boast of right here in the Five Towns.
Eighteen years ago there was no such thing as a Kollel Boker until Sh’or Yoshuv and Rabbi Moshe Dov Stein, zt”l, started it. Daf Yomi, yes, but no place formally to learn b’iyun. Today, between 4:30 and 7:00 a.m. over 70 men learn there regularly in different groups, and I know of three Kollel Bokers in other shuls.
Every morning on my way home at 9:00 a.m. there are scores of women parked along Broadway for their communal davening; on Rosh Chodesh, the street is packed.
This past Tisha B’Av, the shuls were full of people viewing the Chofetz Chaim video series.
A few weeks ago my neighbor was locked out of his house and in 20 minutes two nice guys from Chaverim were there to jiggle the lock and let them in.
The word “Hatzalah” is enough.
We have two volunteer fire departments.
The public school system seems to be earning higher test scores despite (or maybe because of) the Orthodox board members. They did not dismantle the public school system as predicted.
When I walk to shul on Shabbos a local doctor usually has two baby strollers parked outside his front door, seeing worried mothers and their children early Shabbos morning — many of whom are not his regular patients.
This year The Eliezer Project was started to help our neighbors who have lost their jobs.
Rabbi Reisman’s Agudah is raising money to pay a full-time shidduch coordinator.
In the last year-and-a-half my wife lost both her parents. The amount of food and assistance extended to us was awesome.
I know of someone in Lawrence who lent out his pool to a Chassideshe organization from Williamsburg working with off-the-derech kids.
Last week, I went to a wedding of two young people who, despite hardships, exhibited such chein and spiritual growth that it epitomized the eternal Yiddishe flame burning in every Jewish heart.
In my 20 years in the Five Towns, I have seen high school boys staying in Yeshiva till 11:00 p.m. every night to finish difficult gemorahs when they could be home watching TV. In that same time I have seen TV-watching, hanging-out boys grow up in Israel, to become masmidim in the Mirrer, Lakewood, YU and Ner Yisrael.
Twenty years ago, despite having two eruvs, I wonder how many people even knew of their boundaries or of the difficulty of constructing an eruv, but now kollel men who went to local high schools and now learn in the Yeshiva of the Five Towns printed a book with photographs and explanations about the eruv, and work tirelessly, without fanfare, to make modifications to improve our Shabbos observance.
As a Five Towner, I am very proud to be a part of a community that takes kashrus, Torah and being a good neighbor so seriously.
Mi K’amcha Yisrael.
Abba Shmuel Novak
Lawrence
But wait, there’s more
To the Editor:
Just a note in connection with Debby Rosenfeld’s excellent article regarding the new power of attorney statute in New York (Power of attorney law changed; Sept. 18, 2009).
Ms. Rosenfeld mentioned that a “statutory major gifts rider” is now needed if the principal wishes to enable his agent to make gifts to third parties equal to or greater than the $13,000 annual exclusion amount.
The statute is actually even more draconian than that. A statutory major gifts rider is required to enable an agent to make gifts of any amount greater than $500 per recipient per year. And a technical corrections bill currently pending before the state senate would limit such gift-giving ability to a maximum aggregate total of $500 per year (for all gifts combined) unless a statutory major gifts rider is executed.
Daniel Yarmish
Woodme

He really thought that?

To the Editor:
Shmuly Yanklowitz is being either disingenuous or exceedingly naive when he professes to have thought that President Obama’s healthcare plan was something that Orthodox Jews would “join together” to support (Choose life; In my view; Sept 18, 2009).  Orthodox Jews, in general, tend toward both political and economic conservatism, so the idea that they would join en masse to support a government takeover of 16% of our national economy, on terms that would add at least a trillion dollars to our national debt, is dubious.
As to the substance of his article, it is neither appropriate nor helpful for Mr. Yanklowitz to try turning his politically liberal position in the national healthcare debate into a halachic issue. Mr. Yanklowitz is certainly entitled to his opinion about the President’s proposals, but attempting to delegitimize the opposing view on the grounds that it somehow violates Jewish law serves only to stifle, rather than foster, healthy political debate.
Moreover, Mr. Yanklowitz’s underlying assumption that Obamacare would “propel America toward a sustainable system of universal healthcare” and “help America become a society that can heal all of its sick” is, unfortunately, not grounded in reality. What the Administration’s proposals would do is move us incrementally in the direction of a Canadian single-payer system or the functional equivalent thereof.
That system, according to the most recent annual report commissioned by an alliance of doctors’ groups, including the Canadian Medical Association, has produced median waiting times of six weeks for patients with major depression to see a psychiatrist, 24 hours for hospital emergency room admissions, and seven weeks (!) for cancer patients in need of radiation therapy. (See Little Improvement in Medical Wait Times: report, National Post, June 18, 2009)
Is this the kind of care that we want for our own families? Is this really the reform that is “demanded by Jewish law,” as Mr. Yanklowitz contends? To me, Jewish ideals are best furthered by an honest shakla ve’tarya (give and take) regarding the actual policies under consideration, rather than by resort to broad generalizations of ethical principles or meaningless platitudes about our “deepest religious communal values.”
Steven Wilamowsky
Lawrence

The other side of the coin

To the Editor:
A story is told about Reb Levi Yitzchok of Berdichev who passed a stable on his way to shul and found wagon drivers wearing tallis and tefillin while preparing their horses. “Mi K’amcha Yisrael,” “Who is like your people, Israel?” he is said to have exclaimed. “Even while Jews are engaged in such mundane pursuits they envelope themselves in tefillin.” On Erev Rosh Hashana, I would have liked to see words of encouragement and hope more like those of Reb Levi Yitzchok and not those of your op-ed writer’s “Summer of our Shame” (Meir Weingarten; Sept. 18, 2009).
Ten years ago my wife and I heard a family psychologist who advised parents to find two good things our children did each day and to tell them. That’s still good advice for a Jewish newspaper in Elul. I see much that we Orthodox Jews can be proud and even boast of right here in the Five Towns.
Eighteen years ago there was no such thing as a Kollel Boker until Sh’or Yoshuv and Rabbi Moshe Dov Stein, zt”l, started it. Daf Yomi, yes, but no place formally to learn b’iyun. Today, between 4:30 and 7:00 a.m. over 70 men learn there regularly in different groups, and I know of three Kollel Bokers in other shuls.
Every morning on my way home at 9:00 a.m. there are scores of women parked along Broadway for their communal davening; on Rosh Chodesh, the street is packed.
This past Tisha B’Av, the shuls were full of people viewing the Chofetz Chaim video series.
A few weeks ago my neighbor was locked out of his house and in 20 minutes two nice guys from Chaverim were there to jiggle the lock and let them in.
The word “Hatzalah” is enough.
We have two volunteer fire departments.
The public school system seems to be earning higher test scores despite (or maybe because of) the Orthodox board members. They did not dismantle the public school system as predicted.
When I walk to shul on Shabbos a local doctor usually has two baby strollers parked outside his front door, seeing worried mothers and their children early Shabbos morning — many of whom are not his regular patients.
This year The Eliezer Project was started to help our neighbors who have lost their jobs.
Rabbi Reisman’s Agudah is raising money to pay a full-time shidduch coordinator.
In the last year-and-a-half my wife lost both her parents. The amount of food and assistance extended to us was awesome.
I know of someone in Lawrence who lent out his pool to a Chassideshe organization from Williamsburg working with off-the-derech kids.
Last week, I went to a wedding of two young people who, despite hardships, exhibited such chein and spiritual growth that it epitomized the eternal Yiddishe flame burning in every Jewish heart.
In my 20 years in the Five Towns, I have seen high school boys staying in Yeshiva till 11:00 p.m. every night to finish difficult gemorahs when they could be home watching TV. In that same time I have seen TV-watching, hanging-out boys grow up in Israel, to become masmidim in the Mirrer, Lakewood, YU and Ner Yisrael.
Twenty years ago, despite having two eruvs, I wonder how many people even knew of their boundaries or of the difficulty of constructing an eruv, but now kollel men who went to local high schools and now learn in the Yeshiva of the Five Towns printed a book with photographs and explanations about the eruv, and work tirelessly, without fanfare, to make modifications to improve our Shabbos observance.
As a Five Towner, I am very proud to be a part of a community that takes kashrus, Torah and being a good neighbor so seriously.
Mi K’amcha Yisrael.
Abba Shmuel Novak
Lawrence

But wait, there’s more

To the Editor:
Just a note in connection with Debby Rosenfeld’s excellent article regarding the new power of attorney statute in New York (Power of attorney law changed; Sept. 18, 2009).
Ms. Rosenfeld mentioned that a “statutory major gifts rider” is now needed if the principal wishes to enable his agent to make gifts to third parties equal to or greater than the $13,000 annual exclusion amount.
The statute is actually even more draconian than that. A statutory major gifts rider is required to enable an agent to make gifts of any amount greater than $500 per recipient per year. And a technical corrections bill currently pending before the state senate would limit such gift-giving ability to a maximum aggregate total of $500 per year (for all gifts combined) unless a statutory major gifts rider is executed.
Daniel Yarmish
Woodme

The Kosher Bookworm: Readings for Yom Kippur and Sukkos

In Alan Jay Gerber, Books, Opinion, Sukkot, Yom Kippur on September 23, 2009 at 1:47 pm

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With Rosh Hashanah behind us, we now look to the upcoming solemn observance of Yom Kippur and the joyous commemorations of Sukkos.
As with any Jewish observance, literature keyed to the themes of the day abound. These suggestions should enhance both your observance and understanding of this season’s holy days.
One of the central Biblical readings of Yom Kippur’s afternoon Mincha service is the recitation from the Book of Jonah. In her essay on Jonah in her recent book entitled, “The Murmuring Deep” [Schocken Books 2009], Dr. Aviva Gottlieb Zornberg candidly states that, “The book of Jonah is the most enigmatic of biblical narratives. Its central mystery — Jonah’s flight from G-d — haunts the narrative till the end. Classical interpretations have offered to resolve this enigma and its satellites, proposing straightforward meanings for the text. But the text will not yield to such solutions; its meaning both invites and eludes interpretation.” The rest of her essay on Jonah serves to clarify and elucidate further on this observation.
Further on in her essay on Jonah’s behavior and motives, Zornberg cites the following observation from one of the greatest contemporary interpreters of our religious tradition.
“The posture of standing-before-G-d that is prayer,” writes Rabbi Yitzhak Hutner, [Pachad Yitzhak, Rosh Hashanah, 5] is a state that remains unbroken even after the words have ceased. It is a posture of intimacy with G-d that ends only when one moves one’s feet and withdraws — ‘like a student who separates from his teacher’. For this reason, one who travels far to reach a synagogue, even though there is another closer at hand, receives reward; the journey is not simply a means to fulfilling the mitzvah of prayer, it is part of the process of growing intimacy, of approaching G-d.” Zornberg skillfully links this classic teaching to Jonah’s behavior in his encounter with G-d.
Zornberg skillfully weaves between traditional and modern interpretations of the Jonah saga to arrive at a rather unique and very different interpretation of what she perceives as the hidden message in this story, which serves as a special demonstration of man’s encounter with the deity and the role that prayer plays in it, as well as its role in enhancing man’s capacity to repent.
This should enhance your appreciation of the Book of Jonah and to view its basic themes in a mature and informed manner. When reading Zornberg keep a Tanach close at hand, as you will need them, frequently.
Another take on Jonah is from a commentary by Dr. Uriel Simon in English translation [The Jewish Publications Society, 1999] from the series “Mikra Leyisra’el: A Bible Commentary for Israel.” One fascinating observation in the introduction deals with the views such personalities as Maimonides, Abravanel and Ibn Ezra, as well as other traditional commentators, had on the content and deeper meaning of the Jonah story. You will be surprised at what they ‘really” had to say on the book’s content and theme.
Rabbi Yisrael Reisman, in his “Pathways of the Prophets” [Mesorah, 2009], deals with the topic of Teshuvah. He cites an interesting anecdote concerning Rabbi Moshe Feinstein’s role in encouraging yeshiva students to set higher goals for themselves, to strive to become gedolim. In a timely suggestion, Rabbi Reisman links that educational effort to how people should set goals in terms of Teshuvah. He links this to his shiur dealing with the prophet Yirmiyahu, of the tragic figure he was in the Bible, and how he dealt with his fate.
From so tragic a figure, Rabbi Reisman sets forth a series of contemporary vignettes that demonstrate how we can all learn from the prophet’s example on how to cope with adversity, including the proper path to effective Teshuvah.
After reading this book you might wish to consider joining the many others in our community who get together on Motza’ei Shabbos to view and learn from Rabbi Reisman’s weekly shiurim.
The reading from Megillat Koheles, Ecclesiastes, during Sukkos serves to break up any overindulgence in joy and boisterous behavior. Its somber and sober message reflects a mood counter to the basic spirit of the holiday, especially that of the upcoming Simchas Torah celebration. This was a deliberate decision by our sages.
The following from Dr. Michael Fox’s interpretation of Ecclesiastes [JPS, 2004] should further prove this point from a contemporary source that will surprise some. Consider the following quote and, as you read it, try to guess its source.
“Ecclesiastes was written to defend two doctrines of natural philosophy: providence and immortality of the soul. Koheleth shows the inadequacy of worldly wisdom when this is not supplemented by the superior truths of revealed religion, as imparted in the Torah.”
“Koheleth is in dialogue with skeptics and unbelievers, some of whose statements he cites in order to refute or to expose their unfortunate consequences. The book’s conclusions: We should choose the middle path and develop all our faculties; the Torah calls for a balance between fear of G-d on the one hand and love and joy on the other; and pursuit of wealth is acceptable if combined with the study of Torah and good deeds.”
After reading this observation one can speculate that its author was an advocate of a chareidi-based point of view. Alas, the source of this quote was none other than the famous Moses Mendelssohn, the leading philosopher of Jewish modernism at the turn of the 18th to 19th centuries. His tradition-based observation may prove to be a surprise to some, but in truth, this was a reflection of his true philosophy of our faith.
Other commentaries and observations to be found in this volume will enable you to come to view Koheles in a very different and more respectful light. Read and learn.
As we are about to hear our rabbis’ Shabbos Shuvah deroshos (lectures) and prepare for the observance of Yom Kippur, may I take this opportunity to extend to all our readers a G’mar Chasimah Tovah and may you all have a meaningful fast.
By Alan Jay Gerber
Issue of September 25, 2009/ 7 Tishrei 5770

Alan Jay Gerber

Alan Jay Gerber

With Rosh Hashanah behind us, we now look to the upcoming solemn observance of Yom Kippur and the joyous commemorations of Sukkos.

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Changes at the top

In News on September 23, 2009 at 1:43 pm


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The Eliezer Project and Tova Mentoring Program appoint new directors

By Michael Orbach
Two Jewish organizations in the Five Towns are beginning 5770 with new leaders.
Andrea Borah, the director of the Tova Mentoring Program for more than a dozen years, has taken a position as science coordinator at Bnot Shulamith for Girls. At The Eliezer Project, co-founder Samuel Bergman is leaving his position as executive director to return to his legal practice.
Veteran Tova employee Yehuda Klinkowitz has been promoted to acting director; at The Eliezer Project Bergman will be succeeded by Gideon Bari.
Tova provides mentors to at-risk teens and younger students. It has been hit hard by the economic crisis and by a loss in government funding, according to board member Richard Altabe. Months ago Tova began sharing space with its sister organization, Cahal, and found it could no longer afford Borah, its longtime leader.
“It was a question of our inability to fund her at the salary she deserved,” stressed Altabe.
“Once we hit the financial crisis of last year we knew we had to create a new reality,” Altabe said. The change in Tova’s structure, he said, was a year in the making. Klinkowitz, he said, hasn’t had a significant salary increase in three years.
“He [Klinkowitz] believes in it and he’s done a great job of getting new people involved.”
Borah said there are no hard feelings.
“Tova is a great organization and Yehuda’s been involved for a very, very long time,” Borah said.
She said that she had been in touch with Klinkowitz the week before and was “having a blast” at her new job.
Klinkowitz described the promotion as bittersweet.
“It’s a little hard for me. I always thought I’d work alongside Andrea,” Klinkowitz said.
In the three months since his promotion took effect, Klinkowitz has brought in a new president, Yitz Mendlowitz, and is working to assemble a new board of directors. Tova held two well-attended events over the summer, according to Klinkowitz, including a lecture given by Rabbi Yaakov Reisman, rav of Agudath Yisroel of the Five Towns in Far Rockaway.
Klinkowitz said his plans for Tova include “outsourcing” some of the Tova mentor training by bringing in specialists to talk to mentors about topics like bullying, self-confidence and sexual abuse. So far this year 32 Tova mentors are working with 74 children. New mentors include people who themselves once had Tova mentors, Klinkowitz said.
“Many know what it did for them and they want to give back that feeling — hopefully they can be that role model and help somebody that needs something,” he explained.
The goal of Tova will remain the same, Klinkowitz asserted. Tova will mentor “good kids who have something in their lives amiss. Instead of waiting for the crack to open we want to prevent it.”
The Eliezer Project, which aids families in financial need, began last year in response to the economic crisis. Bergman, who announced his resignation in an email on Erev Rosh Hashanah, co-founded the organization alongside Dovid Friedman of Lawrence and David Pollack of Woodmere.
“I have throughout my tenure deemed it a special privilege to head up The Eliezer Project and leave with a sense of satisfaction that we have made a real difference,” Bergman wrote.
He concluded that he hoped that the organization would continue to help those in need, “until it is hopefully out of business for lack of clientele.”

By Michael Orbach

Issue of September 25, 2009/ 7 Tishrei 5770

Two Jewish organizations in the Five Towns are beginning 5770 with new leaders.

Andrea Borah, the director of the Tova Mentoring Program for more than a dozen years, has taken a position as science coordinator at Bnot Shulamith for Girls. At The Eliezer Project, co-founder Samuel Bergman is leaving his position as executive director to return to his legal practice.

Yitz Mendlowitz, Eli Klinkowitz, Richard Altabe, and Shimmie Ehrenreic of Cahal

Yitz Mendlowitz, Eli Klinkowitz, Richard Altabe, and Shimmie Ehrenreic of Cahal

Veteran Tova employee Yehuda Klinkowitz has been promoted to acting director; at The Eliezer Project Bergman will be succeeded by Gideon Bari.

Tova provides mentors to at-risk teens and younger students. It has been hit hard by the economic crisis and by a loss in government funding, according to board member Richard Altabe. Months ago Tova began sharing space with its sister organization, Cahal, and found it could no longer afford Borah, its longtime leader.

“It was a question of our inability to fund her at the salary she deserved,” stressed Altabe.

Gideon Bari

Gideon Bari

“Once we hit the financial crisis of last year we knew we had to create a new reality,” Altabe said. The change in Tova’s structure, he said, was a year in the making. Klinkowitz, he said, hasn’t had a significant salary increase in three years.

“He [Klinkowitz] believes in it and he’s done a great job of getting new people involved.”

Borah said there are no hard feelings.

“Tova is a great organization and Yehuda’s been involved for a very, very long time,” Borah said.

She said that she had been in touch with Klinkowitz the week before and was “having a blast” at her new job.

Klinkowitz described the promotion as bittersweet.

“It’s a little hard for me. I always thought I’d work alongside Andrea,” Klinkowitz said.

In the three months since his promotion took effect, Klinkowitz has brought in a new president, Yitz Mendlowitz, and is working to assemble a new board of directors. Tova held two well-attended events over the summer, according to Klinkowitz, including a lecture given by Rabbi Yaakov Reisman, rav of Agudath Yisroel of the Five Towns in Far Rockaway.

Klinkowitz said his plans for Tova include “outsourcing” some of the Tova mentor training by bringing in specialists to talk to mentors about topics like bullying, self-confidence and sexual abuse. So far this year 32 Tova mentors are working with 74 children. New mentors include people who themselves once had Tova mentors, Klinkowitz said.

“Many know what it did for them and they want to give back that feeling — hopefully they can be that role model and help somebody that needs something,” he explained.

The goal of Tova will remain the same, Klinkowitz asserted. Tova will mentor “good kids who have something in their lives amiss. Instead of waiting for the crack to open we want to prevent it.”

The Eliezer Project, which aids families in financial need, began last year in response to the economic crisis. Bergman, who announced his resignation in an email on Erev Rosh Hashanah, co-founded the organization alongside Dovid Friedman of Lawrence and David Pollack of Woodmere.

“I have throughout my tenure deemed it a special privilege to head up The Eliezer Project and leave with a sense of satisfaction that we have made a real difference,” Bergman wrote.

He concluded that he hoped that the organization would continue to help those in need, “until it is hopefully out of business for lack of clientele.”

That’s Life — So last year

In Humor, Miriam L. Wallach, Parenting, Rosh Hashanah, That's Life on September 23, 2009 at 1:40 pm

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Issue of September 25, 2009/ 7 Tishrei 5770

That's Life title image Whether you are one to not wear white after Labor Day or insist on wearing a felt hat to shul on Rosh Hashanah regardless of the temperature, preparations for any holiday includes shopping for clothes. Online or in person, clothing shopping is a part of the preparations for Rosh Hashanah, along with buying a new fruit Read the rest of this entry »

Only Simchas

In News on September 23, 2009 at 1:36 pm


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Issue of September 25, 2009/ 7 Tishrei 5770

Engagement
n Engagement of Tzemach Klar (New York, NY) & Dafna Segev (New York, NY) — Sept. 13, 2009
n Engagement of Lauren Paige Fields (Atlanta, GA) & Michael Ryan Karafiol (Manhasset, NY) — August 2009
Birth
n Birth of Baby Boy to Moshe Dovid and Miriam Rochel (Alter) Massouda (Miami Beach, FL) — Sept. 14, 2009

Engagement

Engagement of Tzemach Klar (New York, NY) & Dafna Segev (New York, NY) — Sept. 13, 2009
Engagement of Lauren Paige Fields (Atlanta, GA) & Michael Ryan Karafiol (Manhasset, NY) — August 2009

Birth

Birth of Baby Boy to Moshe Dovid and Miriam Rochel (Alter) Massouda (Miami Beach, FL) — Sept. 14, 2009

Halpern: The truth about war

In News on September 23, 2009 at 1:34 pm


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William Tecumseh Sherman took over for General Ulysses S. Grant to lead the Northern forces in their battle against the South. Sherman holds a proud place in American history. He was bold, he was brave, and he was brutally honest.
It was General Sherman who coined the phrase “war is hell.”
Some sources assert that the phrase was first said by Sherman on June 19, 1879 in Michigan at the Military Academy commencement. Others say that it was in 1880, at the Ohio State Fair. Whether it was Michigan or Ohio, it doesn’t really matter. Sherman was talking about Atlanta. Sherman was referring to the burning of Atlanta.
On September 10, 1864 General Sherman sent a letter to the mayor and city council members of Atlanta. He wrote: “you cannot qualify war in harsher terms than I will. War is cruelty, and you cannot refine it; and those who brought war into our country deserve all the curses and maledictions a people can pour out.”
Sherman demanded that everyone be removed from Atlanta — everyone, including the woman, the elderly and the infirm — even those who would die because they were forced to move. And then William Tecumseh Sherman burned the city of Atlanta.
“War is cruelty.” That is true and that is probably why there are essential rules for fighting wars the “Jewish way.” In his Law of Kings, Maimonides has an entire section dedicated to Jewish war. Today, Israel, like most Western countries, fights according to a prescribed set of rules. That is what makes us who we are, it is what separates us from our enemies.
I read all 575 pages of the Goldstone Report, the report issued by the United Nations investigating human rights violations during the Gaza War, the report that resulted from the investigation that was chaired by a Jewish judge named Richard Goldstone from South Africa who, earlier, played a very important role in the Milosovic prosecutions.
I found the report problematic.
I found that the report simply glossed over the fact that Israel was fighting a defensive war. I found that the report only superficially acknowledge that Israel was fighting a war against terrorists who hid behind and took refuge from and sought safety among civilians.
I agree that it is important to police not only non-democratic countries but also Western democracies and to question their methods of war. But we must acknowledge that it is almost impossible for any Western nation to fight the terrorists who will seek refuge and safety behind civilians. The Geneva Conventions placed responsibility for the safety of civilian populations squarely on the shoulders of the non-uniformed combatants who sought refuge among the general population.
Every army has problematic renegade soldiers. In every war mistakes are made. And sometimes, those mistakes involve civilian losses. The big question and the question that was, unfortunately, never asked by the Goldstone Report was: what were the intentions of the soldier who fought this war?
The intention of Hamas and of all terrorist fighters is to murder as many civilians as possible. It is their intention; it is their objective; it is their raison d’etre.
The intention of the Israelis were to target Hamas, not civilians. Even though civilians were hurt and even though civilians were killed that distinction is what differentiates terrorists from civilized countries.
If a war among equals is hell, imagine how much more hellish it is for a Western civilization to battle against a terrorist enemy. Israel deserves better from the United Nations.
Micah D. Halpern is a columnist and a social and political commentator. Read his latest book THUGS. He maintains The Micah Report at www.micahhalpern.com
by Micah D. Halpern
Issue of September 25, 2009/ 7 Tishrei 5770

Micah D. Halpern

Micah D. Halpern

William Tecumseh Sherman took over for General Ulysses S. Grant to lead the Northern forces in their battle against the South. Sherman holds a proud place in American history. He was bold, he was brave, and he was brutally honest.

It was General Sherman who coined the phrase “war is hell.”
Some sources assert that the phrase was first said by Sherman on June 19, 1879 in Michigan at the Military Academy commencement. Others say that it was in 1880, at the Ohio State Fair. Whether it was Michigan or Ohio, it doesn’t really matter. Sherman was talking about Atlanta. Sherman was referring to the burning of Atlanta.
On September 10, 1864 General Sherman sent a letter to the mayor and city council members of Atlanta. He wrote: “you cannot qualify war in harsher terms than I will. War is cruelty, and you cannot refine it; and those who brought war into our country deserve all the curses and maledictions a people can pour out.”
Sherman demanded that everyone be removed from Atlanta — everyone, including the woman, the elderly and the infirm — even those who would die because they were forced to move. And then William Tecumseh Sherman burned the city of Atlanta.
“War is cruelty.” That is true and that is probably why there are essential rules for fighting wars the “Jewish way.” In his Law of Kings, Maimonides has an entire section dedicated to Jewish war. Today, Israel, like most Western countries, fights according to a prescribed set of rules. That is what makes us who we are, it is what separates us from our enemies.
I read all 575 pages of the Goldstone Report, the report issued by the United Nations investigating human rights violations during the Gaza War, the report that resulted from the investigation that was chaired by a Jewish judge named Richard Goldstone from South Africa who, earlier, played a very important role in the Milosovic prosecutions.
I found the report problematic.
I found that the report simply glossed over the fact that Israel was fighting a defensive war. I found that the report only superficially acknowledge that Israel was fighting a war against terrorists who hid behind and took refuge from and sought safety among civilians.
I agree that it is important to police not only non-democratic countries but also Western democracies and to question their methods of war. But we must acknowledge that it is almost impossible for any Western nation to fight the terrorists who will seek refuge and safety behind civilians. The Geneva Conventions placed responsibility for the safety of civilian populations squarely on the shoulders of the non-uniformed combatants who sought refuge among the general population.
Every army has problematic renegade soldiers. In every war mistakes are made. And sometimes, those mistakes involve civilian losses. The big question and the question that was, unfortunately, never asked by the Goldstone Report was: what were the intentions of the soldier who fought this war?
The intention of Hamas and of all terrorist fighters is to murder as many civilians as possible. It is their intention; it is their objective; it is their raison d’etre.
The intention of the Israelis were to target Hamas, not civilians. Even though civilians were hurt and even though civilians were killed that distinction is what differentiates terrorists from civilized countries.
If a war among equals is hell, imagine how much more hellish it is for a Western civilization to battle against a terrorist enemy. Israel deserves better from the United Nations.
Micah D. Halpern is a columnist and a social and political commentator. Read his latest book THUGS. He maintains The Micah Report at www.micahhalpern.com

Seidemann: Asking the right question

In News on September 23, 2009 at 1:17 pm


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The nerve of him. In the middle of the Rosh Hashanah service. In the middle of Unasaneh Tokef, the prayer I wrote about last week. In the middle of the most frightening prayer of the day, this guy is making noise. Not a small amount of noise, a loud noise. Disturbing noise. I pick my head up from my prayer book, and scan the room to my left, where I believe the noise is coming from.
Through the maze of talleisim (prayer shawls), I can’t pinpoint the exact location of the disturbance. I can’t even discern the precise nature of the noise, other than to note a loud, shrill sound. My ears were able to sift through the other sounds, few as they were, and I, and hundreds of others, am stunned at what was playing out before our eyes and our ears.
A grown man, weeping, crying, sighing. Not the oft-injected fake cry we have all heard from those trying to impress fellow worshippers. Not the “almost cry, more of a krechtz.” No, this was a complete, full cry that went on and on and on. It was like the cry of a person who just heard bad news, perhaps of the loss of a loved one.
But as I stood there, I sensed this cry was even deeper.  It’s one thing to cry about the past. This cry seemed to be about the future, about his future. I became instantly paralyzed, physically and mentally, as were other people in the immediate vicinity. Why was he crying like that? What did he know about his present condition, physically, financially, spiritually that would play out in the coming year? What was wrong with this man? What did he sense about his new year?
And then it really struck me. The question was not why he was crying. The real question was, why wasn’t everyone else crying? Why wasn’t I shuddering in fear? I actually sensed a collective sense of lacking in at least those assembled in my row.
It’s two days later as I write this and I’m still not back to myself. Part of me was stoic anyway on account of the solemnity of the day, before the disturbing “wake up call.” Part of me was propelled into my own state of panic, like the gentleman whose sobs were a set of human shofar blasts. And the remaining part of me is still in a panic about why I wasn’t originally moved to a state of panic as that man was. So a week before Yom Kippur I am fidgety, anxious and as uneasy as ever.
There is a dual message in the Shofar formulation of the Tekiah-Shevarim-Teruah-Tekiah. On one hand the single blast then the broken blasts and finally the single blast is a promise from above: our lives are going along just fine, and then the disaster arrives and interrupts our serenity, fragmenting our lives like the broken sounds of the Shevarim-Teruah. At the end, another Tekiah, a unifying blast, will be sounded. In the end, G-d promises, all will be fine as before the interruption. That lesson is from G-d’s perspective.
But there is another lesson, one from man’s perspective. And it’s not as rosy. All too often we glide through life unaffected by turmoil. Then we encounter difficulty, we are momentarily moved, but within minutes we are back to the Tekiah, back to life as usual, without any recognition of the bumps in the road, as if the Shevarim-Teruah never happened.
So where are the cries? Where are the sobs, the worry, the demonstrations, and the outrage from our leaders and from the rest of us about issue after issue that ought to make us shudder?
Where are the cries about the Jewish poor? Where are the cries about the ill? Who is seeking out Jewish shut-ins? Think they don’t exist? Think again.
Where are the cries about Central Avenue on a Saturday night and all of the ensuing problems?
Where are the cries about an Iranian Holocaust denier who is closer then ever to making good on his threat to wipe Israel off the map? Where are the cries about a one-time advisor to President Obama who suggests that if Israel dares to strike Iran the United States should shoot down the Israeli planes?
Where are the cries about an administration that seems bent on bending over backwards to embrace Muslims at Israel’s expense?
Where are the cries over the same Holocaust denier who revels in that role, and is then afforded a podium at the United Nations to spew his venom?
Oh yes, there are Jewish groups and individuals aware of all of the above that do their best to press the fight.
But it’s not enough. More of us must take on more causes and be more vocal.
Where are the cries?  Why haven’t our elected officials criticized the U.N.’s Goldstone report that found Israel guilty of war crimes? Did any one of our elected officials demand any sort of action in response?
So in a few days, we will beat our chests over and over and over again, sin after sin after sin. Where is the gossip? We know where it is. Where are all the violations we committed, those between man and G-d, and those between man and his fellow man? We know where all of those are. To those questions, we know the answer. Those sins stare us in the face. But the haunting, still unanswered question, at least for me, as we approach Yom Kippur 5770, is where are the cries of those that had a voice, but chose to cry in private, if at all?
David Seidemann is a partner with the law firm of Seidemann & Mermelstein.  He can be reached at (718) 692-1013 and at ds@lawofficesm.com.

From the other side of the bench

by David Seidemann

Issue of September 25, 2009/ 7 Tishrei 5770

David Seidemann

David Seidemann

The nerve of him. In the middle of the Rosh Hashanah service. In the middle of Unasaneh Tokef, the prayer I wrote about last week. In the middle of the most frightening prayer of the day, this guy is making noise. Not a small amount of noise, a loud noise. Disturbing noise. I pick my head up from my prayer book, and scan the room to my left, where I believe the noise is coming from.

Through the maze of talleisim (prayer shawls), I can’t pinpoint the exact location of the disturbance. I can’t even discern the precise nature of the noise, other than to note a loud, shrill sound. My ears were able to sift through the other sounds, few as they were, and I, and hundreds of others, am stunned at what was playing out before our eyes and our ears.
A grown man, weeping, crying, sighing. Not the oft-injected fake cry we have all heard from those trying to impress fellow worshippers. Not the “almost cry, more of a krechtz.” No, this was a complete, full cry that went on and on and on. It was like the cry of a person who just heard bad news, perhaps of the loss of a loved one.
But as I stood there, I sensed this cry was even deeper.  It’s one thing to cry about the past. This cry seemed to be about the future, about his future. I became instantly paralyzed, physically and mentally, as were other people in the immediate vicinity. Why was he crying like that? What did he know about his present condition, physically, financially, spiritually that would play out in the coming year? What was wrong with this man? What did he sense about his new year?
And then it really struck me. The question was not why he was crying. The real question was, why wasn’t everyone else crying? Why wasn’t I shuddering in fear? I actually sensed a collective sense of lacking in at least those assembled in my row.
It’s two days later as I write this and I’m still not back to myself. Part of me was stoic anyway on account of the solemnity of the day, before the disturbing “wake up call.” Part of me was propelled into my own state of panic, like the gentleman whose sobs were a set of human shofar blasts. And the remaining part of me is still in a panic about why I wasn’t originally moved to a state of panic as that man was. So a week before Yom Kippur I am fidgety, anxious and as uneasy as ever.
There is a dual message in the Shofar formulation of the Tekiah-Shevarim-Teruah-Tekiah. On one hand the single blast then the broken blasts and finally the single blast is a promise from above: our lives are going along just fine, and then the disaster arrives and interrupts our serenity, fragmenting our lives like the broken sounds of the Shevarim-Teruah. At the end, another Tekiah, a unifying blast, will be sounded. In the end, G-d promises, all will be fine as before the interruption. That lesson is from G-d’s perspective.
But there is another lesson, one from man’s perspective. And it’s not as rosy. All too often we glide through life unaffected by turmoil. Then we encounter difficulty, we are momentarily moved, but within minutes we are back to the Tekiah, back to life as usual, without any recognition of the bumps in the road, as if the Shevarim-Teruah never happened.
So where are the cries? Where are the sobs, the worry, the demonstrations, and the outrage from our leaders and from the rest of us about issue after issue that ought to make us shudder?
Where are the cries about the Jewish poor? Where are the cries about the ill? Who is seeking out Jewish shut-ins? Think they don’t exist? Think again.
Where are the cries about Central Avenue on a Saturday night and all of the ensuing problems?
Where are the cries about an Iranian Holocaust denier who is closer then ever to making good on his threat to wipe Israel off the map? Where are the cries about a one-time advisor to President Obama who suggests that if Israel dares to strike Iran the United States should shoot down the Israeli planes?
Where are the cries about an administration that seems bent on bending over backwards to embrace Muslims at Israel’s expense?
Where are the cries over the same Holocaust denier who revels in that role, and is then afforded a podium at the United Nations to spew his venom?
Oh yes, there are Jewish groups and individuals aware of all of the above that do their best to press the fight.
But it’s not enough. More of us must take on more causes and be more vocal.
Where are the cries?  Why haven’t our elected officials criticized the U.N.’s Goldstone report that found Israel guilty of war crimes? Did any one of our elected officials demand any sort of action in response?
So in a few days, we will beat our chests over and over and over again, sin after sin after sin. Where is the gossip? We know where it is. Where are all the violations we committed, those between man and G-d, and those between man and his fellow man? We know where all of those are. To those questions, we know the answer. Those sins stare us in the face. But the haunting, still unanswered question, at least for me, as we approach Yom Kippur 5770, is where are the cries of those that had a voice, but chose to cry in private, if at all?
David Seidemann is a partner with the law firm of Seidemann & Mermelstein.  He can be reached at (718) 692-1013 and at ds@lawofficesm.com.

How I learned to dance

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